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I want the guys to chase me, and I am sick of lacking self confidence
Im 16f and I'm not shy around people I know but others I just seem to forget how to talk I want to have the courage to new guys and I want to not be afraid to septal in front of s class and no be completely freaked out. I want the guys to chase me as in like texting me first but how please I'm sick of being unconfident in myself
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Guys LOVE self confidence in a woman. If you carry yourself with a happy disposition, guys will literally flock to you. Guys don't want baggage or drama. I know it's easier said than done, but take some time to figure yourself out. If you can't love yourself, you can't expect someone else to.
Try looking in the mirror every day, and say something nice about yourself. (I have really pretty eyes or my hair looks great today!) I know it sounds lame, but little things like that really help boost self confidence.
Helping others also boosts self confidence. For example, today I donated $10 to our local fire department. It doesn't sound like much, but I felt AWESOME the whole rest of the day.
As for the texting thing - Hmmmm. If a guy asks for your number, give it to him. If he gives you his, don't text him immediately. By giving you his number, he is interested in some way. Shoot him a text a couple of days later and ask a generic question like "Hey, have you seen suchandsuch movie? I'm going to see it tonight with some friends and I wanted to know if it was worth it."
Good luck!
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