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i feel like a slut......
im 13 and i talk to alot of older guys mostly 15 16 17 year olds and like we talk and get to know each other and then they ask me out i usally say yeah and then they send my umm picks that i really don't want then they ask me for pics and i have sent them but then the next day i usally have a new boyfriend i love talking to guys but i just feel like a slut because they are so much older then me does that make me a slut???
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you're not a slut, you're a girl. every girl loves and craves male attention, especially if they're straight. since you're not sleeping with anyone, i would say no, that doesn't make you a slut. but you may want to rethink sending pictures. its illegal, and if one of these guys was 17 or 18, he could go to jail. or someone could leak them onto the internet. just something to ponder.
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A slut is normally someone that sleeps around a lot. You're definitely NOT a slut.
I think the word 'slut' is an ugly word that people shouldn't use. People have their own bodies and can use them however they want, it's no one else's business but theirs.
You're really young, and older guys know that they can take advantage of your naivety. When I was in school, a lot of guys my age would date girls in younger grades. One, because it was easier to date them then girls their own age, and two, because it's easier to persuade them to do things like take pictures of themselves or have sex.
You're a really smart girl for not taking pictures. You could send one picture to a guy you really like and trust, and he could show everyone he knows. You're a teenage girl and no matter what I say you're going to do your own thing, but try not to give in to something you don't want to do. If you don't feel comfortable doing something, even if you're under a lot of pressure to do it, you have every right to say no.
Every girl, especially when they become teenagers, love hanging out with guys and having boyfriends. It's normal! But if being with them makes you uncomfortable, then stop for a while. You will always have the chance to have boyfriends in the future. If they ask you to take pictures and you don't want to, then say no straight out. If they have a problem, well who cares? They're not a nice guy if they aren't willing to listen to you and understand when you don't want to do things.
I know you're smart enough to make your own decisions. Just remember that older guys can and will try to manipulate you to do things that they want, so be careful.
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