ok so i just came from a casual date with a guy .... went and had a few drinks he really is the one that took all the iniciatve to get my nº ask me and all.... the conversation flowed of course it did have its silent bits but i guess all round it went well... so the end of the date came and we seemed to be making indirect comments about seeing eachother again.... for example cause im shy i would say next time ill open up and he would be like yeah i hope so or that i seem to always agree with him... but that next time i wont... teasing and stuff..
the thing is when we said goodbye i guess there was a awkward moment should i kiss him or not.. he waited and i gave him too kisses on the cheek..mistake¿? did i give him the impression i didnt like him? then i was like i hope we see eachother again and he was like well its your turn to call this time. soo my point is. how long to wait and call him bak and should i text him tomorrow and say i had a goodtime or does that seem too desperate?
thanks 4 reading!!! :D
hi :) i think that not kissing him its very good idea :P cause it shows your not like "easy"or something the kind of girl thats making out in the first date or something and most guys will like that :P i mean porbably he did wanted you to kiss him, but also he'll get another idea about you and this way eventhough he didn't get a kiss he got a good impression about you , i think texting him its okay cause eventhough not kissing was a good idea, he might now be like thinking "did she liked me ? cause she didn't kiss me, maybe she jsut didnt kiss me but still doesn't mean she doesnt like me " and things like this like a little bit confuse about it :P so texting will give him the sign he need to be sure that you liked hima dn definalty will want to go out with him :)!!good luck! and i think you should text him then wait around 2-3 days to call, cause what probably will happen is that you'll make another day the day you call him, so if you call him tomorrow its gonna be like lets go out today or something haha and he might feel alittle bit like .."went out yesterday, go out today and then tomorrow" and things like this haha well thats what i think but text him between this day and until the day you call so he will notice that your interested and not like "oh i forgot about you and just today 3 days later i call you" unless that by texting he say soemthing like lets meet again or call me then you should do it :)! good luck hope i helped
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my boyfriend and i(both 17) had been going out for a year and half and then one day everything just got too much for both of us, and we broke up. Sine i have been in touch with him and he sounds great, his friends even say he is happier then ever. But when we talk on the phone he tells me he still likes me and if i wanted to be with him he would take me back. i dont want to be with him and i cant see him with anyone else. how do i get over him and still just be friends??
thanks
ohhh!! the same is happening to me , i dont want him back but i dont want to see him with someone else haha but still i want to be friends with him
Stop talking to him. As much as you can, stop looking at him, stop talking to him, stop thinking about it.
Lots of people 'feel' that way. They want thier ex to keep wanting them so that they can reject them all over agian and want thier ex to be miserable without them.
It's totally OK to feel that way. althought it doesnt seem like it ...just try to focus more on the things that made you broke up with him.and convince yourself its for the best of both of you, mostly you cause your the one who doenst want him back. keep in mind that theres gonna be someone else whos gonna be better than him. and the eventually he will date other people :S you cant avoid that . but also you will! its kind of hard to accept but its impossibnle to ask him to be there for you and you reject him again.try not to think about him as much as you can and if you do think about him think about how better it is being just friends than something else. start thinking that if you ever be with him again the same oproblems will be there ...also, the girl who dates him proabbly will have the same problems as you did with him. i think that you should take a time off from each other ..try not to talk to him that much and dont think about him unless is about what went wrong and its the reason you broke up, then when you feel ready, then you can be friends it might take some time, but my suggestion is dont talk to him untill your sure this is the best for you and eventually eventhough yoru with someone else, if you see him dating other people it will be weird at the beginng but just focus on the thought that the person whos gonna be with you is gonna be better than him :) hope it works and i know its hard to be this confused you dont want him with you but you dont want him with other people , but if you think about it ,, th ereason you dont want him with other people its cause your affraid somehow hes gonna be happier with that person that with you , but its impossible to avoid this thoughts so just replace those thoughts by the ones that make you feel better like youll meet someone else better than him ,and the relationship couldnt last longer and although i hate this "everything happens for a reason" haha who knows , maybe you guys broke up cause theres soomeone better for you two :) good luck try to distract yourself with other things or activities , try dating others or hang out more with friends :) and you'll see how you start caring less about him finding someone else . hope it works though its something really hard to do :) let your intellect rule over your selfish desires to punish him and your jealously. someone said that to me and it makes perfect sense to know why i didn0t wanted him but still dont want him to date others :P
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okay so i have this guy friend...
who ive known for 5 years. he's always liked me but has not admitted it.
so we met back in 7th grade. and we were reallyy good friends
i transferred schools for 8th grade from public to private.
we still kept in touch by email and such.
last summer(of '07), he came through my line at work and i hadnt seen him in years. he soon started working there too.
so supposidly he's good friends with my ex, who i dated last summer up until late october when we broke up for various reasons. but he says he doesnt like my ex cz hes just an as$hole.
so ever since that breakup, we've been tlaking alot. he has a girlfriend who hes been with since april or may of last year('07)
lately hes been like complaining about her but says things like he misses me and he cant stop thinking about me and cant wait to see me again, etc.
so last night after work, he walked with me to my car and we talked for a few. i got in my car and rolled the window down and we talked a bit more. suddenly he says "oh my mom is here" and he kisses me. i was like..uh....ok.
it wasnt just the fact he kissed me, he did like 4 times! practically trying to like makeout with me. i was kinda freaked out.
so i emailed with him last night about it and he was saying things like he has waited so long for that to happen and that im perfect for him and he wants to be with me. yet, hes still with his gf.
what would you do? how would you go about handling this situation?
thanks,
first of all i'd tell him something like you like him also but thats not gonna happen if he has a girlfriend ( see if he brakes up with her and make sure of it ,, cause i mean i f he doesnt like her anymore he would have broke up with her already dont you think?) or when you see him again...dont allow him to say thingsl ike "your perfect for me " and things like this , avoid it ..and say like i dont think your grilfriend would like you to say this kind of things to me .. so he can understand that hes not gonna play with you and be acting like this when he has a girlfriend (this to make sure if he really likes to be with you , or if he wants to cheat on his grilfriend with you!) if he doesnt leave her , then move on..and also and most immportant i think....whenever he tries to kiss you hug you or anything DONT allow him...cause then hes gonna get used to "oh i can kiss her ,hug her whatever and shes not even my girlfriend so no pressure to brake up with the other one " i dont know if i explain it well ...like let him know that it makes you unconfotable the fact that hes saying nice things to you and things like this when he has a grilfriend avoid it, if you just change the subject hes gonna think your not interested on him...so better just say something like (mm if i had a boyfriend i wouldn't like him to be saying this to someone else ) ( so it makes him understand that yes your interested and its not gonna happen if he has a girlfriend ) and then see what happens if he just stop doing this kind of comments or trying to kiss you etc..then probably he just wanted you to be with him while he has a girlfriend ,,,if ,,instead he brakes up with her and continue behaving like this then go for it its a big prove that he really cares about you and really thinks your the one for him :) hope you understood my idea haha sorry for bad spelling or things that didnt make sense at some point haha if you have another question just feel free to ask :) good luck
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Could you answer my question? I know how to make a website, I go to freewebs.com, but how can I make a live web show like on icarly?
hi, personally I couldn't find out how to do it but i found this and hope it works :)! good luck! http://www.icarly.com/iPlay/Default.asp
use a camera for your videos
upload them on youtube
go to a freeware site like freewebs
use html to create your site (google lissa explains it all for html help)
then use the code youtube has to put the video on your site.
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So i'm like using my laptop, and then out of nowhere this quickplay thing just pops up. It's soooooooooooooo annoying. Like i'll be typing and it just pops up and ruins everything. AHHHH IT JUST DID IT NOW.
Like i'll be sitting there not touching anything and it just pops up.
Anyone else have this problem, and what should i do?
THANKS!
i think your pressing the upper bottons bye mistake i have the SAME problem and the same laptop the white one , the 2 buttons on the left are super sensitive i barely touch then and my finger pass slightly through one of the corners of the button and then it goes again!! it drives me crazy if this doesnt stop then call hp support
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i really need a super sad song [ not any oldies, more modern ] that has to do with getting your heart broken & being used. thanks in advance.
the last song i will ever write about a girl - the ataris
bic runga- sway
a beautiful mistake - the ataris
infatuation- maroon 5
thought you were different - Brittany Marsh
i found true love-avril lavigne
and thats all i can think for know lol but i prefer the ataris ones
broken promise ring- the ataris
i want to hold your hand- from across theu niverse soundtrack :)
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okay well i kinda like this guy. i like some other guys too. but this one guy.. i cant really tell if he likes me or not. we talk on the phone like every night and text a lot. (we kinda switch off calling each other). he used to call me like every single night in the summer and he really liked me. like a lot. and i was an idiot and i didnt do anything about it and i told him i didnt like him back. but now i kinda like him because i realized what a great guy he is and how much fun i have talking to him. anyways, he was like high last night when i was talking to him and he was saying all this stuff without thinking and he like told me he wanted to kiss me and he like told me he loved me a bunch of times (which he does anyways but this time it actually sounded like he meant it instead of just like joking around). like it was the same as how he talked to me in the summer when he liked me. what do you think?
i think he definatly likes you, i mean not every guy give this kind of attention (texting a lot and phone everynight) also when people are drunk or high usually say things they feel but they dont want someone else to know haha so i suggest you wait and see what happens next if he act like nothing happen ask him! or just, make him understand you like him too, in an indirect way(by your comments or something) because maybe hes not doing anything about it casue hes not sure you feel se same way too adn its afraid of being rejected, try to make him understand you feel the same by your comments or actions, if still he doesn't say sometihgn, then ask him about what he said that time if he meant it :) good luck!
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hey
i was the girl who asked about how to view the wall-to-wall of two people, one of which has you on their limited profile list. and although i haven't cracked a way, i have come to the firm believing that there isn't a way using your own account unless you tell her to take you off.
anyway, on facebook, you open a link and it's like
http://hs.facebook.com/profile.php?id=_______&ref=nf
so i tried copying that code into the following link of a wall-to-wall with two people who are my friends and do not have me on their limited profile list:
http://hs.facebook.com/wall.php?id=CODEOFPERSONONE&banter_id=CODEOFPERSONTWO&show_all
and instead of CODEOFPERSONONE & CODEOFPERSONTWO i replaced it with the two codes of the people whose wall-to-wall i want to see.
and it didn’t work.
i don’t think there is a way to view a wall-to-wall with two people, one of which has you on their limited profile list on your account. & honestly, i’m the queen of html so :)
tooo bad that it is impossible! but hey thats what limited profile is about hahaha i guess ill go for making another account =( hahaha tnx anyway =)
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I have locks. I love them, they are the rasta kind that you don't twist. I don't know if that makes a difference but here is the situation. When I wash them I like to let them air dry. They never really dry all the way and then they smell funny like a towel that has not dried properly. The only way I can get rid of the smell, or cover it up really, is to put some kind of oil in them that smells good. The thing is I would like to be able to do is have them smell nice right after I wash them without having to put oil in them. Does anyone have any suggestions?
Things I will not do:
Blow dry them with a blowdryer or a heater
Cut them off
Thank you for your time and energy!
Peace and love.
sorry they cannot smell good after you take a shower cause they kinda are formed ebcause the oil from your hair is in them...so thats why you get the funny smell, and yoyur not the only one everyone does it waht i've known people do is that you HAVE to put something in them unless you want that funny strong smell, people sometimes try body spray but just a little bit good luck
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Ok, this might be stupid, but this is the kind of hair that I want my hair like:
I'm getting my haircut soon and I want to know what to tell my hairresser what to do with my hair. I tried printing a picture but it didn't work very well :/. Help? I have a little longer than my shoulders light brown hair. It is layered but it's grown a lot. help? thanks :)
don't take the risk, its always better to take a picture with you ...although i got my hair like that i ask always to be done in layers but with the sharp thing not with scissor , thats why you get like that kind of appearance that the ends of your hair are shaped like this WWWWW but it damages your hair . i suggest that you print it out and take it with you although its kind of embarrasing hahaha at least for me :P but i rather doing that , than getting a bad haircut cause they didn't understood good luck :)
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me and my boyfriend landon really like each other. we have those little fights about whos cuter or who loves each other more. and at school, WE ARE SERIOUSLY ALL OVER EACH OTHER! we tell each other that we love each other. hes all i can think about. and he tells his friends, that he loves me and that all he can think about is me. i really miss him alot, and im going to see him tomorrow. so, does it sound like were in love, or...are we just really close in our relationship?
-shelby/13/f
it might jut be infatuation, you know not everything its perfect always .and it also depends how much time have you been toogether? if your talking for like a month or 2 ...maybe its infatuation cause well at list in my opinion being in love is when you know that things arent perfect all the time but still love deeply that person, you know he might do some things you dont like about him but still that make him why you love him. and eventhouguht hes not perfect you love him overall....i think that ..when your like oh hes just so perfect he has no mistakes or thetre are no wrong things about him thats just infatuation but give it time :)
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Me 13/female Guy 15/male
Lets just call this guy billy
Okay so today i gave my boyfriend a blowjob. first of all ive never even given him a handjob, we just kinda skipped that. im only 13, and i amm kinda worried i shouldnt have done that, am i too young?
about the other thing you asked me , i think that as long as you feel mature enough to not just to do it , but to accept the possible consecuences, for example im 18 now and I had the oportunity to do it before when i thought I was so in love with my boyfriend. then it didn't last and we broke up and I think about how much I would regreat it , but everyones different , i think that as long as your sure enough you love him enough to take the risk. then ok go ahead. cause you have to be concious that theres no 100% protection agains pregnancy, i suggest that you wait a little longer, in my opinion a year would be good i mean that you've been together for a year , or six months .cause that way you'll be sure your doing this cause your in love, and not just becaause you think your in love but in fact it might be infatuation (because you've dated maybe a short period of time like 1 month 2 ..)also you both have to be concious that you can get pregnant (one of my bff always use protection and sometimes couples are trapped into sex, like they do it so often and become very posesive)(have you heard about the fact that sex can change a realtionship, well its because of that ) anyway she got pregnant but shes now 18 and is going to have her baby and just take a brake from school, so take this into consideration...
im not going to tell you that go and tell your parents about what your intending to do,cause some parents will say sometihng like your not in love dont do it or religion whatever, it depends on your relationship with your parents, if you have a good relationship with them, you might wanna try to tell them, not like asking permision or anything just saying that your aware of the consecuences and you both have talked about it and good with it )of course they might say that your too young , cause personally i think you are, but i dont think that what i say will make you change your mind and i'm not trying to , I just wouldn't want you to regreat something in the future :) just give it a second though and yes if they found out , theres no other way than telling your parents that you've been safe about it and that he didn't force you (cause parents usually think that the guy influences the ggirl, when in fact she wanted to do it also) this way they wont be like angry or feeling unconfortable about your boyfriend although it might be at the beggining . just be safe and give it a second thought and get as much infromation as you can about protection cause at 13 you might think you know everytihng and sometimes you realize you didn't . my suggestion is to go to a ginecologist and ask for the pill (becuase of the fact that its better than condom agains pregnancy)but also you HAVE to consider that you have to be informed about what can happen if you take it , cause I've known that in the long term it can cause problems for people who want to get pregnant when they are older, im not pretty sure about the consequences if someone of your age use it ..think about it :) if you need anything else feel free to ask =)
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I'm fifteeen and a girl [:
me and this guy were going out for about a two years. we broke up in march of 07. ive been talking to him lately through texting and aim. everytime i talk to him i get the same feeling i used to when we were going out and he makes me feel alive. i know that sounds corny, but its amazing how much of a little girl i become around him. i can say stupid things no one else would get and we can practically predict what one other is gonna say. i honestly dont think me and him are done. i know one day we will get back together, and hopefully soon. theres a dance comming up at my school in febuary and I'm thinking about asking him. I dont hangout with him alot. more like i never hangout with him, and when i do it's pretty awkward. neither of us know what to say to eachother in person and i obvouisly want that to change. I think asking him to the dance would give us a chance to become not awkward around eachother and maybe give us another chance. Should i go for it or play it safe? any other suggestions? thankss! [:
go for it , its like you got nothing to loose, you already broke up , also it will make him know that if you invite him eventhough your not together anymore it means like you feel really confortable around him (eventhough its awkward sometimes) maybe you just dont know what to say to each other cause think the other one its unconfortable, the same its happen ing to me, my advice its to invite him and if its an awkward moment ask him! what is bothering him , is he unconfortable by still talking ot you ? or why is he acting like this (then he'll realize theres no need to behave like this when you can still be great friends and say stupid things and have a good time together and maybe get back together somedya ) :) good luck! i dont think hes gonna ssay no to the invitatino,,UNLESS he's dating someone else already good luck!
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http://www.xanga.com/ashleiilove
on that.
what song is playing?
apparently ashleiilove has no audio… so post the right link and maybe i can hel p you = )
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Okay. I have a punk/emo/skater style && i wanted to change my hair a bitt to match that.
I want to keep my hair LONGER, But i don't know exactly what i want to do It would be wonderful if you could show me some pic's to go along with your ideas. I want it to look good on me.
Here are some pic's of me.
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http://photobucket.com/mediadetail/?media=http%3A%2F%2Fi170.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fu248%2Fwhitpay%2FScene%2520Hair%2Fth1238605829_l.jpg&searchTerm=scene%20hair&pageOffset=10
http://i185.photobucket.com/albums/x257/Fab_Fever/emo%20boy%20hair/emo%20girl%20hair/girl11.jpg
http://photobucket.com/mediadetail/?media=http%3A%2F%2Fi171.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fu307%2Fm0000re%2Fhotgirl12.jpg&searchTerm=scene%20hair&pageOffset=10
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hey
ok. so my crush has a facebook, and so does this other girl. anyway, i was on my crush's facebook and she was posting and saying all these things. so i pretty much want to view their wall-to-wall.
except.
she has me on her limited profile list, can't view her wall.
SO.
that's preciselyy why i came on advicenators!
does ANYONE KNOW how to view a wall-to-wall with two people, one of which has you on their limited profile list?
there HAS TO BE A WAY. because even if someone has you on their limited profile list and you can't see their tagged pictures, there is a way to do that. (on their minifeed, see if there's something like, "_____ has tagged NameofPerson'sPicturesYouWanttoView in 9 pictures!" and click the pictures under that).
I WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER AND WRITE YOU A LONG MESSAGE EXPRESSING MY LOVE TO YOU.
also, i'm not in need of replies asking me why i'm such a freakin' stalker & why i should care about his wall.
but i do.
so shove it if you were thinking that.
but if you weren't even thinking that, and you actually want to answer my question, PLEASE FEEL FREE.
♥
mmm i had the same problem either get this guy password, or make anew facebook account and try to see it by belonging to the same network the girl belongs to , some people have the only people in my network and friends can see my profile,,,if she doesnt have this option available , create and account just make it look real, li ke put a pciture of someone else in there hahahaa and add the girl id sugest if you found other way please tell me hahaha
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what is a song about doing something that hurt so bad, and youre soo sorry for hurting the person, but it was the right thing to do for now, but you love them with all your heart and its hurting you too?
is there one?
preferably rock/alternative.
three days grace, seether, linkin park, all time low, etc...
or even like rascal flatts..
and preferably something newer.
thanks.
withlove.
a beautiful mistake -the ataris
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im interested in getting into some soft music. so far, i like stuff like "1,2,3,4" by feist, "fidelity" by refina spektor. some stuff by cartel and jack johnson. what are some other things like this? some artists that play soft but modern music like this...
try the ataris accoustic sounds pretty good
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only answer this if you like stuff like boys like girls, wtk, powerspace, yellowcard, etc. not top 40 stuff. or rap.
thanks :]
if looks could kill- a heartwell ending
a beautiful mistake- the ataris(pretty much everything of them)
inside out- yellowcard
my heroine-silverstain
smother me- the used (and any other song )
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Ok so, I dated this great guy for about half a year but i messed it up by breaking a promise i made to him. I promised him that i would never drink and drive. but one night i had just a sip of vodka and drove home 2 hours later, i dont consider that drinking and driving, but he did and he broke up with me, the day before homecomming. I was miserable, i just couldnt forgive myself on how i messed up somthing so great. I truly did love him and im not just some stupid teenager who goes around saying that to everyone, i mean it. I even loved the bad things about him.
I tried fixing things a million times, but it just didnt work. Then i found out one of my good friends started talking to him on the phone a few days after we broke up and they liked eachother. that killed me so i called him later that night and yelled at him, because to me that is extreme disrespect. but now me and my friend fixed everything and we're friends again.
Now its 3 months since we broke up and im dating someone new. hes really sweet but i feel like i dont deserve him because i still find myself thinking of my ex, everyday. I just cant stand what a stupid mistake i made. This new guy says that he loves me but i cant say it back. i really like him but he just dosnt do the things that my ex did that made me feel so special. I know i should get over him and belive me i want to but i just cant do it. What i want to know is how long has it taken for some of you to get over an ex that you really loved and how do i get over it once and for all? I know im not being fair to my new boyfriend but i dont want to let him go because im afraid ill regret it, i just dont know what to do.
it sounds li ke your ex used the drinking driving as an excuse to dump you, sorry but i mean , it sounds like it wasnt a big deal, also, mistakes happen and if he was so inlove with you like you are/were about him, he would have fortgotten this and let it pass and give you another chance ,its not like everyday you get drunk and drive, and also it can happen to anyone, its obbvious that he doesnt think the same way about you as you do aobut him, also its unfair to this new guy , so stop thinking about your ex cause its like he would have given you a second chance :S cause it wasnt a big deal, obviously he doesnt deserve you still think about him and blanme yourself for this mistake, this shows how much you meant to him and how important it is for you to stop feeling something for him that he doesnt feel for you and if he did he woiuld have show it by forgiving you you deserve to be happy with someone else that loves you back like you do :) giv ethis new guy a chance ..if still thinking about your ex..then stop dating the new guy cause he doesnt deserve this :)
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