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me and this guy were going out for about a two years. we broke up in march of 07. ive been talking to him lately through texting and aim. everytime i talk to him i get the same feeling i used to when we were going out and he makes me feel alive. i know that sounds corny, but its amazing how much of a little girl i become around him. i can say stupid things no one else would get and we can practically predict what one other is gonna say. i honestly dont think me and him are done. i know one day we will get back together, and hopefully soon. theres a dance comming up at my school in febuary and I'm thinking about asking him. I dont hangout with him alot. more like i never hangout with him, and when i do it's pretty awkward. neither of us know what to say to eachother in person and i obvouisly want that to change. I think asking him to the dance would give us a chance to become not awkward around eachother and maybe give us another chance. Should i go for it or play it safe? any other suggestions? thankss! [:
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okay. im in the same exact situation. if you think he likes you. try to hang out with him. maybe even flirt a little. it'll show him that you like him, and if he flirts back he probably likes you back.. im telling you, hang out with him. because if you dont, you two will drift away. dont let him go. if you do. wow, you're gonna regret it... but dont rush things. if he likes you, he'll tell/show you. but if he's shy. then try to show him taht you like him without kissing him or doing anything besides flirting. he might not be ready.. but keep in mind that he might be feeling the exact same way. what i would do is before you ask him to the dance. find out if he likes you. ask his friends. ask people to find out from him if he likes you or not. but dont just get it from him... you need to hear it from him in person. you can most likely tell from his tone if he likes you or not. i hope i helped. if you need anything else just ask...
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i would just go for it. it sounds like you two arent done yet. the worst that could happen is he says no. but it sounds like he will probably be happy to go with you.
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He still shows interest, so I say go for it. He's probably waiting for you to make the first move, and when you do things will probably not be awkward. And plus, dances are fun most of the time. So why not?
-Sarah
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go for it again girl you love him and he obviously has a little something for you too :)
i hope everything goes well and you guys get back together.
best of luck
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Without knowing the reason you two broke up in the first place, I'm assuming he's a good guy. If the reason for breaking up was severe, like he was cheating on you, I wouldn't give it a second chance. But because you didn't mention it I would definitely ask him to the dance.
You seem like you are ready to try and work things out between you and him. The qualities and characters that he brings out in you are good. I think that your intention of getting back together is a good idea. Initially you've done it right. By giving yourself a break for months you've realized that this guy was the best you had. If he makes you that happy, you deserve to try this out again. The only problem is finding out how he feels about you and what he thinks of getting back together.
I wouldn't come right out and say it because you might scare him off. It's like telling a boyfriend you love him within two days. Start of slow. Continue to make small talk and gradually work your way up. Conversation is key in building up relationships in any cause. At some point you could say something along the lines of what you miss. Perhaps it's the way he protected you or the way he comforted you. Or you could bring up a funny memory when you were going out with him. And then invite him to that dance! This way you're not coming straight out and saying "Let's get back together". He should get the message sooner or later.
When you do get back together I would make sure to have boundaries. You don't want to rush into things. Make sure he's aware of what you want to be different in this relationship that was in the last. And if he has some input make sure you listen!
Good luck!
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go for it , its like you got nothing to loose, you already broke up , also it will make him know that if you invite him eventhough your not together anymore it means like you feel really confortable around him (eventhough its awkward sometimes) maybe you just dont know what to say to each other cause think the other one its unconfortable, the same its happen ing to me, my advice its to invite him and if its an awkward moment ask him! what is bothering him , is he unconfortable by still talking ot you ? or why is he acting like this (then he'll realize theres no need to behave like this when you can still be great friends and say stupid things and have a good time together and maybe get back together somedya ) :) good luck! i dont think hes gonna ssay no to the invitatino,,UNLESS he's dating someone else already good luck!
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Go for it. You might not have another chance. What do you have to lose?
~Maria, 16
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