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Calling him or waiting it out??¿¿? when is the right time.


Question Posted Wednesday January 2 2008, 6:03 pm

ok so i just came from a casual date with a guy .... went and had a few drinks he really is the one that took all the iniciatve to get my nº ask me and all.... the conversation flowed of course it did have its silent bits but i guess all round it went well... so the end of the date came and we seemed to be making indirect comments about seeing eachother again.... for example cause im shy i would say next time ill open up and he would be like yeah i hope so or that i seem to always agree with him... but that next time i wont... teasing and stuff..
the thing is when we said goodbye i guess there was a awkward moment should i kiss him or not.. he waited and i gave him too kisses on the cheek..mistake¿? did i give him the impression i didnt like him? then i was like i hope we see eachother again and he was like well its your turn to call this time. soo my point is. how long to wait and call him bak and should i text him tomorrow and say i had a goodtime or does that seem too desperate?
thanks 4 reading!!! :D


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iloveaar answered Thursday January 3 2008, 12:01 am:
hi :) i think that not kissing him its very good idea :P cause it shows your not like "easy"or something the kind of girl thats making out in the first date or something and most guys will like that :P i mean porbably he did wanted you to kiss him, but also he'll get another idea about you and this way eventhough he didn't get a kiss he got a good impression about you , i think texting him its okay cause eventhough not kissing was a good idea, he might now be like thinking "did she liked me ? cause she didn't kiss me, maybe she jsut didnt kiss me but still doesn't mean she doesnt like me " and things like this like a little bit confuse about it :P so texting will give him the sign he need to be sure that you liked hima dn definalty will want to go out with him :)!!good luck! and i think you should text him then wait around 2-3 days to call, cause what probably will happen is that you'll make another day the day you call him, so if you call him tomorrow its gonna be like lets go out today or something haha and he might feel alittle bit like .."went out yesterday, go out today and then tomorrow" and things like this haha well thats what i think but text him between this day and until the day you call so he will notice that your interested and not like "oh i forgot about you and just today 3 days later i call you" unless that by texting he say soemthing like lets meet again or call me then you should do it :)! good luck hope i helped

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uisforukelele answered Wednesday January 2 2008, 9:03 pm:
i think the two kisses on the cheek was pretty good, actually. i think you should call him tomorrow and make plans for this weekend.

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