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hey everyone! im caitt♥ yes, im only 13, but trust me ive been through alot. from parents getting divorced, to bad relationships, to losing friends, to people from my family passing away, to my whole family being on a hitlist. so yeah you can pretty much ask me anything. i usually get a chance to get on this site at least once a day. dont hesitate to ask me questions. send me something in my inbox and your question will be answered the same day! also if you add me as a favorite columnist, i automatically add you because you added me =]. thanks for reading. byee♥
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It didnt work?
hey, what didnt work? i dont really remeber what your question was?
-caitt
I always do stuff with the same two people. Their my best friends but I want to do stuff with other people. I just find it hard. When ever I call my friends from school they have something going on. I also have like no social life. I'm sixteen years old (female) and I've never been to a party (like a high school party). I really want to be more social..please help.
hey, well try joining clubs or something to make you more social. meet people there. compliment someone on there shoes. its those little things that count the most.
-caitt
You can skip the background and just tell me if the poem is too personal to give to someone you've only met a few days ago if you want.
Ok so I met this guy a few days ago and he's perfect but I'm still not over this other guy. This guy is seriously awesome, he's -very- good looking, he's a cook and he spent all of today helping me fix my dining table because he fell on it the night before and broke, and he even paid for everything to fix it and extra stuff to make it look better because he said it was totally his fault. Anyway, he got out of a long relationship a few months ago and he today he had a first date with a girl he likes so there isn't much of a chance of us working out and I'm too hung up on another guy. Keeping this in mind, his birthday is coming up and he asked me to write him a poem because he likes personalized presents and he heard I wrote sometimes.
We met on Thursday and spent about four days in a row together. I'm writing him a poem and framing it. I wrote it directly from my heart and now I'm thinking it's a little too personal for someone I haven't known for more than a week. He said he wanted something really truthful because I warned him but I don't want to look foolish and I still want to be his friend. So is it too close?
What a guy.
You’re such a man
You're such a boy.
Your naive miniscule hopes and dreams
leave me in tears every time
you venture to say a word,
blinking with the beat of your heart.
Wrench my stomach into knots,
why don't you?
As I think of the clarity in your eyes
and I surmise
it's been a while
since you've been hurt.
The way you talk
and smile when you recall
how you were together
and refrain
from saying her name
and just refer to her as her.
Fictitious daydreams in my mind,
And I ask the world
to make you feel that way about me
not out of love or lust,
only for the sake of having you.
How strangely perfect
you are for me,
but cupid knows
that the subtle ache in my chest
and those cardiac arrests
aren’t for you
But wow, you’re such a guy.
hey, well some of the verses are a little "deep" but other then that i think its sweet.
-caitt
i have a guy friend. weve been good friends since we were five years old.A couple of years back i had a HUGE crush on him and he didn't feel the same way about me, but when i FINALLY stopped liking him he started calling me every night and claims he still doesn't like me.Do you think he likes me more than a friend or do you think he just wants to talk as friends? and if you think he likes me WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!
cuticle sistas!
hey, well i think that he has some type of interest in you. i think that he just feels stupid telling you that he likes you now, because he knows that you dont like him.
-caitt
at my sprint store (i have sprint) they also sell virgin mobil phones and theres one virgin mobile phone i want but cause they are two different plans do you think i could get it.. because they do sell them at the sprint store and when i went on some website it said- "virgin mobile/sprint" as the header of the phone i wanted.
hey, well i think sprint is better. virgin mobile phones are basically are pre-paid. like you have to buy cards and top them up every month. i think you should try to find a good sprint phone instead.
-caitt
i'm 15 female and I noticed that I sort of have a fat face, it's not like really fat, But I don't want it to be fat anymore, how can I get ride of it?..I'm not really a fat girl either, I'm aout 125lbs. I don't know if that has anything to do with it.
Thanks in advance
hey, there is no real way of losing fat on just your face. sometiems people are just born with chubby faces. unless you loose weight everywhere else your not going ot be able to loose wieght frm your face.
-caitt
My birth details r
name: charu
tob: 13:42 pm(wednesday)afternoon
place: jhansi,india
dob: 1st january 1975
ALL MY QUESTIONS R RELATED TO PREGNANCY AND HEALTH
question: when will i get pregnant i mean the exact year and month of my conception?
how many kids will i have and their sexes?
will my diseases of endometriosis and cysts and fibroids be cured?
will i die before my husband?
regards
charu
hey, no one can predict those answers for you. your just going to have to wait and see for yourself. goodluck!
-caitt
Hey! So I am having a birthday in October and I wanted to do something outside of my house. turning 14/cali/f. If anyone can think of anything to do for birthdays in hollywood, that would be perfect but anything else besides things like bowling, or movies would help. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!
hey, well i have 2 ideas. the 1st one is like a day of beauty. bring some friends and get your hair and nails done. also get your make-up done and facials. eyebrows too. my 2nd idea is like taking a limo to like a themepark that near where you live then going there then taking a limo back to a hotel. ive done both and they btoh work great. happy birthday!
-caitt
Hey everyone!
Well, for the past few month i've been wanting to write to the president. Does anyone know how i can? I mean like the address or whatever, and if he'll even get it?
Thanks in advance♥
hey, the mailing adress is
the white house
1600 pennsylvania avenue nw
washington, dc 20500
i doubt the president himself will get to read it. i think like a vice president or someone like that will read it.
-caitt
16/f. At school I get hit on all the time, and at the mall, things like that. I am so not a slut I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and never had sex. The thing is I'll be walking down the street and there will be these like old mexican gardeners and they will like check out my ass and that just disgusts me so much. I feel so disgusting because of them. How do I get over this?
hey, it happens alot to pretty much every girl. its a part of life and you just got to learn to deal with it. also you should take it as a compliment lol. thats what i do.
-caitt
Yes it's windows XP
it's an older model
I have had it around 3 or 4 years.
I use IE and Firefox.
hey, well i think it might be because yoru using windows xp and firefox at the same time. i did that before and i couldnt see any photobucket or any kind of image hosting images. then i kept the windows xp and only used internet explorer and i could see them. try that.
-caitt
Can anyone find a free piano music
for the song Hallelujah by jeff Buckley
?
hey, google it.
-caitt
are there any good acne scar removers out there that is cheap? i have tried cocoa butter and i have not seen any results at all and ive done this for like 2 months..
hey, theres proactiv. its not cheap tho.
-caitt
how long does a tan stay on for if you tan outside?
hey, usually a few weeks. 2-4 weeks. but it also depends on how tan you get.
-caitt
What is a good FREE antivirus program to download?
hey, get the google toolbar from google.com you get a pop-up blocker and an anti virus program.
-caitt
Ok heres the deal. I've gone to private school since 1st grade except for one time at the beginning of 6th and I switched back to private later that year. I left bc the work was too easy and I didn't fit in, I was really quiet. Now I'm not as shy. Now I HATE my private school it's 25 minutes away and they all have more money that me and I don't like most of the kids! Also, there's only 12 kids total in my grade! I'm going to a public highschool and private's a lot differnt. My mom talked to the public schools new principal and he said he'd put me in a more challenging class that fits me and they would give me more work if I needed it. The only thing is my mom's the secretary at my private school and I don't know if I should leave her cause I'd feel bad and she tells me don't worry it might work out better. The only reason I would stay at my private school is bc it's my 8th grade year and we get class trips that are fun. Yet, at my private school we only have a few teachers, we have 3 main teachers and thats it. I hate one of them too. I know a few people at my public school and they tell me I should go to their school. I'm still afraid I won't fit in at public though? What school would u choose. Thank u!!!
hey, well sit down and think about the pros and cons. ive been going to a private school since pre-school. sometimes i think public school might be better for me. but when i sit down and think about it private school is right for me. sometimes change is good. so think about it.
-caitt
why does the shower water get cold when someone flushes the toilet?
hey, because since it needs a hot water source to flush, the shower turns cold to give it the hot water that it needs.
-caitt
does anyone know other sayings people liked to say-anything, if you can remember from elementary to middle school, high school. For example, "I'm rubber and you're glue. Whatever you say bounces off of me and sticks to you." Or "That's what you are but what am I?" "Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me." or like spell icup, etc
Anything, doesn't have to be from that category of comebacks.
hey, umm theres a few.
-are you in love? or do i have to walk by again?
-was that an earthquake or did i just rock your world?
-caitt
if someone is smoking downstairs in front of the stove is it better to be upstairs or downstairs to not breathe it in as much?
also what is the thing on top of the stove called-it sucks the smoke or whatever but doesnt work that well
hey, go upstairs. be as far awya as you can. second hand smoke does kill.
-caitt
what download programs are people using nowadays? limewire?
hey,
-limewire
-bearshare
-ares
-itunes
-caitt