|
School friendships
I always do stuff with the same two people. Their my best friends but I want to do stuff with other people. I just find it hard. When ever I call my friends from school they have something going on. I also have like no social life. I'm sixteen years old (female) and I've never been to a party (like a high school party). I really want to be more social..please help.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships?
Just tell your friends how u feel, if they are your true friends they would understand and let you socialise with other people.
]
These are just some suggestions to be more social like if you happen to see someone with no company go up,introduce yourself or ask them something first then introduce yourself.Another way is since you said you have these two friends get close to their friends,you could get easily in their crew, and that was one way I made a lot of friends.Go out more,you could also do some volunteer work to work with others in a group, and make some friends there.
]
hey, well try joining clubs or something to make you more social. meet people there. compliment someone on there shoes. its those little things that count the most.
-caitt<3
]
Hi! Try complimenting people when you see them, or smile at them and wave, or say hi. Little things like those get you big points. Sit next to someone different in a class. If you see someone at the mall or something, ask them if you can go shopping with them. The people you call probably say they have something going on because they don't think you really want to hang out with them. Try setting a date, call them and ask if they can come over on the 16th or whatever. Go to the mall, bowling ally, movies, park, concert, club, whatever. Try out new sports or out of school activities. You'll be gaurenteed to meet a lot of kids from school in those. Why not ask if someone from school would like to try that hobbie with you and sign both of you up for that activity! When you're friends with everyone, you'll BE the party. Trust me.
]
Try talking to other people. Join activities that you have in commen with. you can meet new people there that have things in commen with you. Dont be somebody else, and trying to fit in with the wrong groups of people. Be yourself and show off your talents. More people will reconize you.
I hope I helped!
-volleyball2150
]
More Questions: |