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Gender: Female
Location: from texas, live in maryland
Occupation: student
Member Since: August 9, 2004
Answers: 136
Last Update: September 10, 2005
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how do you tell a guy you don't like him if he likes you without hurting his feelings?!
i rate high! =)
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3 compliments then "but this wouldnt work because i dont have feelings for you like that"
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Well I am a 20 year old female and lately I been wanting to have a baby. So when I ask my boyfriend of 4 1/2 years he was like no because he had to babysit his 6 nephews all the time. So what should I do? (link)
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well, you want a baby and your boyfriend doesnt. you need to wait until he wants one too. otherwise i dont know how fair that would be to the child.
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There is this guy i like in my Social Studies class. Everyone says he is really nice. I would go up and talk to him, but he is alwayse with his guy friends. They kinda intimidate me. So should I ask around about him (see if he is single, or even interested in me) or should i wait to see if he will come up to me?
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make eye contact and smile. have you been properly introduced? if not, stick your hand out and say "hi i'm..." and ask him a question about social studies, as if your having trouble with it.
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this is goin to sound REALLY werid and maybe distubbing but i need an outside opinon,
i have seen my cousin, 2 times in my WHOLE life, me and my family stayed there for a weekend the second time, me and him slept outside in the tent cuz there was no rooms in the house, seperate, or anythig so we jsut slept out there and he kept putting moves on me! and touching me like, ( a boyfirend ) would do, i was getting really uncomfortable then when i was goin to sleep he pulled nice in close to me, and then he started kissing me then we started to make out i then id stop and tell him this is wrong he said we barley see each other so its allright but i didnt' agree i went back to trying to fall a sleep and then he started goin down my pajama pants and he FINGERD me, for liek 3-5 seconds cuz i pushed him off, i don't feel comfortable to even talk to him on the computer anymore and i can't TELL anyone cuz they'll think im like discusting what do you guys think? (link)
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you should tell him to stop. if he doesnt, tell your parents, or his parents. or the police.
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ok me and my b/f have been going out 4 a while and i trust him with everything but recenly we have been talking about sex and he wants to and he said that if im not ready that its ok and that he will wait as long as i want to wait but i like wanna have sex with him but im kinda scared still so if any one could help me it would be greatly appcated (link)
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answer is simple. if youre not ready, then dont do it. he obviously is willing to wait for you.
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I have a lot of cool sayings in my profile. Most in whick I made up. Every time I look at me friends profile, she has all my same sayings in mine. I get so frusterated! Now, she just IMed me witrh her advice colum user name and it is almost the same as mine! Should I tell her how I feel? Please, I need help fast! (link)
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yes, tell her how you feel.i understand feeling like everyones copying you. people riding off your creativity as their own. it is really frustrating. and you need to tell her what youre feeling.
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ok my friend resently made out for the first time and like told meh the things i needed to do it and made me really confident to make out for the first time and now my best friend (hes a guy and im a gurl) mite come ova and hes the type who would make out wit me if i wanted to. Im going into the 8th grade and i really wanna go in being able to say i finally did it. I know thats no reason but thats y im asking u wat i sould do. I mean i had a crush on him for ova a year until now im not sure if i like him like that. So what should i do. I really wanna just get it ova with cuz so many people make a big deal about whether you have or not
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well, if it feels right than definetly do it. but if it doesnt my only suggestion is to wait for someone who you want to have that with. so you can remember doing it because you had feelings for this person, and not because you were trying to avoid people making a big deal over it.
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(f, 15) hey i'm really confused right now...my best guy friend in the entire world just asked me to be his girlfriend a couple of days ago. now he has an awesome personality, but i don't think i could get over the lack of physical attraction, so i know it seems really shallow but i said no. supposedly he got over it really quickly and likes my friend sarah now..i know that sounds good that he didn't get hurt, but now i'm really jealous..i don't know if i'm just jealous of her because all the guys like her, or if i really do like him, or i am just being selfish and want everyone to like me..it's driving me crazy..i'm really not a bad person, i just don't know how i really feel..it doesn't matter that much i guess since he doesn't even like me anymore, i just want to figure out my feelings and i don't know how to. please help! (link)
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chances are if he really liked you, then he didnt get over you that quickly. and if you like him then you should tell him, but maybe you said no because you never really thought of him has a love interest.
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What the youngest baby do you think that you would put a 14 year old in charge of? And do you really think that at 14 they are responsible? (link)
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a regular 14 year old, id say someone who is potty trained.
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When waz ur first kiss? (link)
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6th grade and i wouldnt recommend kissing that early.
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I think I might be bipolar. How can I tell? And can I get tested w/o my parents knowing bout it? (link)
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my father is bi-polar, and when he has manic episodes, he'll became sometimes really sad, and somethings really happy. but not a regular happy. he believes things that arent true. like that he knows someone who is on the FBI, or that he can fly. usually it isnt that serious and your maniac episode your mind races a little and you cant keep your mind on one thing.its like in all directions. those are all the obvious symptoms, but if you got tested youd want youre parents to know, becuase youll need meds and you cant get meds without them.
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ok i just started high school a few days ago and its really hard to make friends b/c they all pretty much came from all the same schools and everyone already has friends and groups already and i dont... ive met some ppl but we arent like close or anything so what should i do (link)
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well, you say you JUST started high school, seems like youve been doing good so far, meeting some people. but you have to make sure youre not being shy and quiet. you should put yourself out there and introduce yourself to new people. your not going to find a best friend the first few days at a new school. good luck.
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does anyone know some good stores for back to school shopping??????!!!! (link)
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i recommend h&m, target, nordstrom, american eagle. thats where i shop. but other good places are, jcpenney, old navy, wet seal, KOHLS. alot of places have nice things.
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I have this habit of always goin out and its so hard to stay home becasue my sister..well i tried to talk to her and i tried to be soooo nice and injoring her nuthing is working ...and i wanna bbe home alot but i just cant stand her at all..all she does is yell at me an i cant take it ...should i try again or should i just keep wat i do....or if you have anyother ideas..plaease help
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so you dont like the way your sister treats you? well, i can understand feeling like ive tried everything and giving up then running away from problems with my sister. my first instinct when my sister is being unfair is to be just as unfair back, but it just makes the problem worse. and so when shes being unfair, tell her you think shes being unfair but tell her calmly. and tell her that her dispostion is driving you away from the house lately. and she should respond to how your feeling.
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Ok this might sound so waird but....All my friends have done weed that i basically know or wanna try it theyre not pushing me into it but i wanna try it to like REALLY badly but i have second thoughts all the time like what if my parents found out and i dont wanna be llike that i wanna be a good kid well atleast i try to i dont know what to do!!!! (link)
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curiousity, one of those things, ya know? as kid were curious and we try things and learn from them. but for this one, you shouldnt try weed. because from all the people who have done this, you and i both kno what will happen, and what can happen. and giving in to youre curiousity isnt always rewarding.
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im 14 years old i havent had my first kiss yet or a b/f yet and im starting to fell like im to fat and ugly and ill never find anyone what should i do about this? (link)
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well, firstly, just because you havent had a boyfriend or had your first kiss yet definetly doesnt mean youre fat or ugly. you should wait for a boy you like and have feelings for. i know so many people who havent experienced those things either. so try to find what you like about yourself, maybe try to focus on those things instead of the fact that youve never had a boyfriend.
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