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ok im not really excited about christmas and i dont know why? i mean i feel like something is missing in my life or is it that im just getting older but i dont think that is true bc i like christmas and all but it just seems like it doesnt matta anymore.

i think you feel like you need something, something just is not there. Maybe its that 1 thing you want for christmas and you think you wont get it bc its too much money. Or maybe a family member will not be there so clelebrate it with you. Just think how fun its going to be once you get down stairs and open all of your presents!

good luck!

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my boyfriend has like a problem with calling or something....i mean whenever he says hell call he forgets...and ive talked to him about it bc it really hurts my feelings! and he says im sry and he loves me and stuff and he ALWAYS has an excuse and hes lkie im just not good with the fone i dont kno....but i mean im so sick of always having to call him...i love him and i love talking to him but im so sick of it!...is there ne thing i can do to get it through to him that it hurts me when he doesnt call...ive told him straight out b4 "u hurt my feelings when u say ull call me and u dont" n he gets all sweet n stuff....and i kno 4 a fact he isnt cheatin or nothing we r reallie close n stuff....but idk...today we sed we wer gonna do somthing and i havent heard from him all day same with yesterday so i called him up at nite and we talked but idk.....=\

I used to have the same problem as u. My exboyfriend always "forgot" to call. So it ended up me always calling him! What i think you should do is dont call for about, 4 days, if he does not call by then,i think you should call him and just lay down the law! make him call u. (i dont mean do sound harsh..lol)

good luck to u!!

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I've become pretty good friends with this guy and he's recently been dumped by his girlfriend of two months. Things had been deteriorating for a while but he still liked her. He's kinda into 2 of my best friends but still flirts with me too. One friend doesnt like him and shes gonna say no to him if he asks her out. The other friend wants to her him out but doesnt wanna hurt my feelings. I've been working up the courage to ask him out as well but I'm really confused. The friend who wants to ask him out doesnt really like him but theyre best friends and I really think theyd ggo kinda far. With me, I think he'd say yes but I am not sure and thats kinda being retarded, and I dont wanna be afraid of anything like that as I learned from the last relationship I was in. I dont wanna hurt my friends' feelings either but she wont give me an answer whether its okay to ask him out or not. I really like him and feel happier than Ive been in months when Im with him and he seems pretty happy too =/ Thank you =(

Ask him out! i know your friend likes him but if she did not ask him out yet, then you go for it. You dont have to wait for a yes or no if you can ask a boy out. Ask him out, im sure it will work.

good luck.!

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ok im kind of a shy person and recently i started making friends at another high school so im mainly with them. they are all so pretty...a lot of guys like them and they're so nice.i just want to fit in with them because when when im with them,i feel like the outsider. i want to b able to open up more...basically what i want to know is how to open up more!? plz plz help i really need it.

I think you should not just be friends with one group. Try to be friends with everyone. I know you want to be with those girls which you can be. Just dont forget about your other friends.

good luck!!

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I am a 17 year old female and my exboyfriend is 16years old. My ex-boyfriend which is the 2nd guy I ever dated is my first love and he told me that I am his first love. Ever time we see each other we end up making-out even if one of us has a boyfriend or girlfriend. He also like to irritate me alot and he like to play a lot of stupid little games and its annoying. I tell myself that I'm over him but every time I see him I fall in love with him again. What can/should I do?????????

i think if you love this boy you should go out with him. But if he is annyoing then you should talk to him about it. just tell him to stop when he does it. Im sure he will understand.

good luck!!
signed, *ask me*

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i recently dumped my boyf amd still had feeling 4 him yestaday uptown he was flirting with me and we ended up going out again but he got this otha girl pregnant and now he ses he has a daughter but they've split and we luv eachother but sumtimes I don't believe what he ses about having a daughter and he seems pretty desperate if he has a daughter cause uptown we were cuddling on the grass and he kept getting erections and trying to show me luv but wen i tryed 2 kiss him he turned his face away and sed i dont know if I'm ready yet what does this mean?

I think you should not go out with this boy. I mean, he has a daughter! idk how old you are. but my advice is you dont go out with him b4 you do something you regret. Im not trying to be mean or anything but i just dont think its a good idea to go out with a boy like this.

signed, ask me

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how do you kno when u need the next bra size up?
[wheneva a bend down i "fall" out, does that mean i needa new size?]

If you look at the size you are now, you might need another size. say you are a size 32B, but if you need another size, try a C.

good luck to u!

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ok here it goes..
my best guy friend and i went out for roughly a month, then he broke up with me. Well he's gotten over me and gone out with all these other girls, but i still have feelings for him and he has no idea whatsoever. i want to tell him, but then again i don't because i'm afraid that it might mess things up. and just a couple minutes ago, he read my profile and it has a quote in it that says "if two past lovers can remain friends then they were never in love or they still are" and when he read, that he imed me and goes "thats not true, i loved you until i saw you as a friend" i dont know, something about him saying that made me feel weird. i really really like him, but i feel like i can't do anything about it. This might be a confusing question, and it might be hard to understand what im asking, but if you do please help me..

wow, this boy sounds really confusing. But what i think you should do is tell him how you feel, it never hurts to speak up for yourself. Tell him you like him and if he still likes you , you two could go out.

good luck!!!

signed, *ask me*

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Okay, I'm friends with my best friend's ex boyfriend.We've always been friends. But I've also always hada little bitty crush on him. He lives in PA and we live in DE though, so boy me and my friend never get to see him. Lastngith he said he missed me and he wanted to come visit me. I asked him why he didn't ever call, and he said he didn't have any minutes, but if he did, I would be the first person he would call. Is that just me or does he sound like he likes me just a little bit? Help me! I rate good!

xoxo

Since he is your friends exboyfriend I dont see y you cant go out with him. I think you should say yes if he asks you out bc it sounds like he likes you. and tell him to call as soon as he get min. !!..lol

good luck with that!

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Thank-you everyone who helped me on deciding about becoming a CSI. I guess I will just stick to watching the show. If my two options left are an interior designer or a teacher, which one gets paid better??

I think an Interior Designer would make more money bc your fashions would probably go far and for that my friend, you will make lots `n lots of Ca$h!..lol

good luck!!!!!!

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Okay my friend always is setting me up with people well last night she did that to my best guy friend but the thing is i do want to go out with him but i kept saying i didn't want to! But how can i tell him this? I feel kinda strange telling him I like him cuz I mean hez my best friend! so what should i do?

Well if he is your friend and you like him tell him how you feel. I mean, he is your friend. And if it does not work out you 2 can always be friends. But if it does work out you too could be really happy together.

good luck with this

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My best friend is dating this guy that my entire group of friends can't stand. This guy has NO personality. Plus, he's mean to people. Do we say something to her or let her figure it out? (they've been dating for almost a YEAR!)

i think you should just ignore this boy. But if you friend that is dating him brings him around, then i think you and your friend should make peace with this boy, bc if your friend likes this boy and there are going out, then i think you and your friends should talk to him and try to at least be friends.

good luck
**~~signed, brunette cutie~~**

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There is this boy who's a good friend of mine. I am not sure if I "like" him but he's really cool and we have alot in common. The other day, one of his friends came up to me and told me that the boy I kinda like likes me. I don't know whether to believe him or not. He seems kind of trustworthy and the guy really seems to be dropping hints he likes me but would a relationship ruin our friendship?

I think you should go for it! If you break up you 2 can always go back to being friends. Now this boy who told you that the boy you kinda like likes you. I dont think you should believe him. Believe none of what you hear and half of what you see. go up to the boy you kinda like and ask him if he likes you, or get one of your friends to ask him. But dont be shy, Go out there and get what you want, dont wait for it to come to you.

good luck

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Hey look this year has been so hard bettween tryin to be most popualr and all taht and tryin to beat tha skools biggest hotties and all i have totayl gotten lost u see last year i was Queen bee! this year im not and i wouod do tha world to be that again and i dont kno whut to do to win it back
So whut should i do plz help me!
Clueless

i think you should just try to be nice and not like one of the "mean" girls. its ok to be popular, just dont take it too far. And if you follow this advice, im sure you will be "queen bee" again!..lol..

good luck!!

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I have a crush on my best friend thats a guy! He doesn't know but I don't know how to tell him and I know he doesn't like me like that...But how should I tell him I like him? I RATE HIGH AND GIVE GOOD COMMENTS!

Tell him how you feel. If he changes his mind im sure you 2 will make a cute couple! (whoever u r)
but is he says no, you 2 can still be friends.

hope this advice works!

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well heres the thing..(sry it might be a little long)
ok so there are these two guys at school..and i can't tell if they like me or not..because one day they are like all flirting and stuff..and looking at me..and that sort of stuff but the next day there like..do i know you??..ya know..and thats kind of bothering..me..
how do you know if a guy likes you or not? because i guess they might be shy..but then why would they even talk to me..i really like them both.but this guy friend that i have asked one of the guys to see if he liked me and he said he didnt..but why would he look at me so much..and he looks at me in this way that is just showing that he would like me..but i'm not sure..and then the other guy looks at me alot..well i guess he does..and i talk to him..and my friend says we would make a good couple..but i wouldnt know if he would like me..and if we would go out ..ya know??..well i know its kinda confusing..but please give some advice..thanks..
tkd_shorty
write back..

well boys do that sometimes. They do it alot when they are with there guy friends. You never know when a guy likes you bc they dont know how to tell you. He will figure out how to tell you.(if he likes u). if you like this boy i think you should talk to him. Maybe he will tell you how he feels.

hope he likes you, and good luck!!
**~~

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I'm a 13/f and I have 2 very good friends. They both like the same guy. This one guy happens to be one of my very good friends and we talk on AIM all the time. I always saw him as just a friend but now I'm starting to really like him and people keep telling me that he likes me. I want to be honest with my friends but they like him and they want him to like them. What should I do?

Tell your friends you like this boy. He likes you, you like him, sounds like a good deal. Tell you friends you like him and im sure they will understand. Friends understand friends.

best of luck..=-)

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i want to like some1 rlly bad. i just started goin to junior high with all of these new ppl but i don like any o the guys that r in my classes! its rlly sad n sumtimes it rly depresses me cuz i want a bf. so how can i get myself to like som1? this question mite b kinda impossible to answer but plz try to. thnx

If you want to meet a guy, try going to a Roslen Dance. I dont know if you ever went there but they are so fun and a great place to meet guys. If not that if you have any guy friends you have your eye on, go for it!

good luck..

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ok, im stuck. i used to like this kid j (going by initials) but then i saw he was soooo full of himself and i was like FORGET YOU!! so i stopped liking him and started liking this guy s. he is soooo fine! and he is my same religion, which makes it click. he is 15 and i am 14. however....

lol, of course my friend a likes him. yea, and d. so a asked me do u think s is cute? im like 'hes ok' and she goes naw hes HOTT.
so... should i stopp liking him? i hae this nack for stopping liking these guys bcos my friends like them. but i realllllllllyyyyyy like this guy, and i dont want to give himup, especially when a said that she is still kinda hott for j. so what now, does the 'i saw him first' rule work, o do i have to be giving? once again? i really like this guy, and im always talking to him. i invited him over to the movies and gave him my number, and he called me. amd he would have came if a didnt change the plans!!! i asked for his email and he gave me that too, idk what to think. pleaz help me out!!

**_Nicole_**

tell you friend that you like this boy. Im sure she will understand. If you like someone/something go out and get it girl! still talk to this boy "J", still like him. But dont get into a fight with your friend over him. But tell your friend you like J. She will understand.

Hope this helps..

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I really wanna get a cell phone for christmas but i dunno if my parents will get me one...what are some ways to get them to buy me one? and what type are the best and has a great deal and aren't expensive?

try prooving to your parents that you are mature enough to have a cell phone. Maybe you can offer to baby-sit before they ask or set the table with out them telling you to. To look at ones that are not that expsensive try looking on the internet for a good deal.

best of luck..

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