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I'm 19 and I'm a bisexual transexual male, i have a girlfriend, but she's homophobic and says gays are nasty. She doesn't know about my transexual lifesyle. Well i think like a woman, feel like one and i told her i want to get a sex change and asked her if she would still care for me...she said no and that she would leave me
So i kinda have been behind her back with this man i really like, and he's gay. He told me that whatever makes me happy and i should go for it and he'll be there for me, boy or girl.
So what should i do, i don't want to live like this all my life
And who should i choose. (link)
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do whatever will make you happy(: if i were you i would forget about that chick, get your sex change, and maybe start seeing that guy. he suports your decisions and she dosn't.
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I was just wondering how all these girls I see scrunch their hair? I don't know anyone who does so I have like nobody to ask. So how do u scrunch hair anyway? (link)
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its easy(:
1. get your hair really wet
2. put a bunch of gell in it
3. hold clumps of hair together and use lots of hairspray throughout the clumps
4. let it air dry or use the blow dryer on low
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I am in a relationship with a guy and things seem to be going pretty good. My problem is that last time I thought things were going pretty well he was just using me and he moved on shortly after we started having sex.
Can anyone tell me a for sure way to tell? how do i know if he is using me??
Thnaks! (link)
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if it feels like he won't stay with you unless you mess around with him hes probly using you. don't give in to a guy like that because as you experienced he left even though you did give in and have sex. oh well you cant take it back, whats done is done. next time try to go with your instincts.. if there is any slight feeling in the back of your mind that he might be just using you listen to it!! being used is absolutely the worst feeling in the world. find someone who loves you for you and not what you can give with your body:) and remember theres someone out there for you and you deserve a real guy.
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I don't understand what it is that if a guy is popular all my friends go crazy about him. He can be ugly as a stump but if he is "popular" then they say he is hott. If the same guy wasn't with the in crowd for some reason then they would be making fun of him.
Why are most girls like this? More importantly if that is how girls are supposed to be why am I not like that? So can anyone give a good answer: why do girls like popular guys?
Thank you! (link)
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its because most popular guys are very confident. this is usually a turn on for either sex:) i know im a sucker for a really confident guy cause i think it's just straight up SEXY! lol.
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You heard it right! I can't believe it but I am very allergic to earrings. My ears are pierced so what do I do now? Do I just let them heal over or is there something else I can do?
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try wearing gold earings, they are better for sensative ears. also clean your ears and earings freaquently with special earing solution:)
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ok, i'm 19f. i dated this guy [19m] on and off since i was 15, mostly on. we were both virgins when we started dating and still are. he was my 1st for everything else [except kissing] and i was his. we've been broken up since march, but everytime we see each other, which isnt too often because we still have problems, mainly with him always being with this other girl who he claims not to like and says he still wants and loves me, yet shes always saying she loves him and stuff [theyve never even dated], anyway whenever we're actually in each others presense, we're fine with each other and usually fool around.
so fast forward to now. im in college 3 hours from home. two weeks ago i met this guy at a bar and have seen him everyday since. he's so sweet, caters to me in every way he can, and i enjoy spending time with him. he wants to date me, but i dont want to rush into something serious, so we're still "talking". he's been with 17 girls! which he said is a thing of the past and now he wants a relationship, and feels bad because i usually pick at him for having such a big number ha. but he knows im a virgin and is fine with the fact that i told him i wont be giving it up to him any time soon.
the problem is, i've always said i'd regret it if i lost it to anyone but my ex. we have almost 4 years of history together, we were each others first loves. he'd be so disappointed if he knew i gave it up to someone else, and i think i would be too. he was a big part of my life, and i still want to lose it to him. everytime we're together, it almost happens, and last weekend when i saw him, it really almost did, but didn't. i just dont know what to do now. if i lose it to my ex and my new guy finds out, im afraid he'll be crushed and leave me, which i dont want because im really starting to like him a lotttt and could see myself officially dating him pretty soon. on the other hand, my ex doesnt know about my new guy. and im afraid if i lose it to him and he finds out ive been talking to this other guy all along, he'll be pissed. but im more concerned about the latter. what to do here? by the way, im not trying to rush anything. i am 19, and it's bound to happen sooner or later. (link)
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hun this guy has been with 17 girls! you don't know if he has any std's... it's really not a safe thing for you to have sex with so i don't think you should be with either of them:) find someone better.
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I need to learn how to dance... BADLY! There is a school dance coming up and I no longer want to stupidly stand around while everyone else has a good time. I found the book dancing for dummies in my school library, but can you really learn how to dance from a book? I mean did anyone YOU know ever learn to dance from a book? Thank you!
Hopeless dancer (link)
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just move your hips around and loosen up. watch how other people dance, and look up dancing on youtube:) everyone can dance you just have to loosen up and be confident. trust me i used to be so stiff and nervous about dancing and now lots of guys wanna dance with me.
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We have co-ed gym in my school and when we get in there sometimes you can see the girls breasts like it was some kind of wet t-shirt contest. (I wish they would make them wear bras!)
I guess you can guess what happens next. Yep! Boner in gym class. Lucky me!
Can you guys tell me any mind tricks or something to keep this from happening? I am not thinking any bad thoughts or anything but you know how it is you see boobies and your body does the rest. :( (link)
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don't worry about it. believe it or not girls actually get turned on by that(:
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errm this may be a weird question [:
but i really wanna turn on this guy who sits next to me in one class.
what are some gestures that turns guys on?
like i dont mean stuff to say but things i can do, not to him but like ways to sit etc.
haha thankies(: (link)
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just be suductive!!(: it's natural we all know how to do it. get that cute slightly inocent look in your eyes. use cute facial expressions etc. and he'll be turned on fersher.
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im going to this dance with my girlfriend but i cant dance at all and im nervous, what can i do? (link)
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im guessing your a guy and don't worry guys don't really need to know how to dance. if its a fast song stand behind her and let her grind on you (don't be still and awkward, just relax and enjoy it). if its a slow song put your hands on her waist and slowly rock and sway, look her in the eyes in a suductive but sweet, sincer way:) good luck!! be confident it's not like anyones gonna really be judging your dance skills. its a dance so just loosen up and have fun.
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So I was in my room last night and my mom just walked in to bring some towels in and there I was on my bed. :(
She didn't mean anything bad to happen she didn't even think I was there cause I snuck in to do it before I told her I was home. Stupid me!
Anyway, now she is looking at me differently.
What do I do about this?
Has this even happened to anyone else?
I feel terrible! :( (link)
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she's just suprised. pretend like nothing happened and eventually everything will go back to normal:)
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Theres a guy at my school who likes me hes not the best looking but hes ok hes a little cute hes muscular but not to much and hes a really nice guy. The types i like are goths emos and skaters but hes neither a while ago his friends who are my friends too told me he likes me hes my friend now and now my admirer is used to talking to me i can tell he still likes me and yea he even tries to show off how strong he is and tries to be funny.....So should i give him a chance? (link)
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no. you have to be physically attracted to a dude to date him. and hes not your type so i suggest don't even waste your time on him it wont last very long:) find someone you have alot in common with and that you thinks a real hottie instead.
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okay so i have a huge crush on my friends brother, he always says hi to me, and i always say hi back but im too shy usually to have a long conversation, any ways as a joke me and him pass notes and his sister is the messanger (hes in high school 9th grade and im in 8th grade at middle school but the schools are on the same campus) anyways the note usually say like cute little things about how were best friends and every thing, and i want to ask him out, but is that weird considereing that im the girl, or is it too hard to date some one in high school? and if he said no then it would be really akward between me and him and his sister and mine friendship.oh and btw im 14 if that matters. thankyou and please gove advice =] (link)
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no no no. a girl should NEVER ask a guy out in my opinion. it makes the whole relationship weird. just flirt with him alot and look cute:) he'll catch on and eventually ask you.
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latley my boyfriend and i have not ben nearly as close, weve talked about it alot and have stopped fighting as much but how can we become so close again? also i might have fallen out of love with him :'( i dont want to talk to him on the phone anymore i find an excuse to hangup, id rather be with friends instead and so on. how can we become close again, i love him but idk whats going on.
today i went to kitaro and asked for an application and the waiter an i talked for over ten min and we both kept catching ourselves ,dare i say, flirting, the other guy never came back with an app so after a while i just said i had to go il come back some other time. i wasnt going to cheat but i felt so much more love out of him than out of my boyfriend of a year n a half.. any tips? :( 15/f (link)
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i have the same problem. the truth is ur bored with him. tell him you need a break and date other people for a while. if your feelings for him become strong again date him again:) everyone needs a break sometimes.
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im 15 years old, 5'1- & weigh about 164. i am a runway, print,& commerical model. and i need to loose a lot of weight, fast. so i cant really stop eating, its just not going to happen, i cannot eat healthy. what exercises should i do to help me loose weight? and how many times a week for how long a day? (link)
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the way you lose weight is too burn more calories then you eat a day. either way if you wanna lose weight you'll have to watch how many calories you eat (recomended on average around 1,000 a day) also do alot of cardio to lose the weight like running, walking, or jogging. once you lose some work on your muscles to make your muscles tighter and slimmer. cruches, push ups, etc really help:) good luck i know you can do it.
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But right now I cant feel my love for her. I feel empty and lonely and I dont know what to do.
Are you saying many people go through this?
when will it go away? its unbearable.
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yes you just really miss her. the more you can hang out and be with her the better you'll feel:)
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theres this guy i really like and i want to know what are some ways to seduce him haha like how can i be more sexy and make him really want me? (link)
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wow lol i was totally gonna answer your question but that chick is completely right!! that was exactly what i was gonna say!!(:
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This guy who is two years older than me (i have known him for 2 years)Well we started talking and then we started talking about him fingering me or me giving him oral...I have seriously been considering letting him finger me..So what do you guys think.I would prefer comments that arnt saying im to young cause i think i am ready.I have a good head on my shoulders..Anyway what does it feel like and what do i do to be ready fer it?
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well if you really like this guy i say go for it. it feels really good but once a guy does this for a girl she is usually stuck on him (trust me). so make sure this guy is gonna always be there for you and dosn't just want to get some. make sure that whenever your relationship ends it ends cause you want it to not cause he dumps you, cause if that happens its gonna really hurt you. :) good luck.
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just wondering what do guys do when they are fingering u ..what does the girl supposed to do when she is being fingered? (link)
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just moan and move around a little. don't let him get borred(:
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16 year old guy ive been seeing my gf for about 4 months and im a bit worried my penis is 4.5 inches long when erect is that an ok size?
what size do girls like? (link)
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haha well i know a 15 year old with a 9incher but i agree your perfectly normal for your age don't worry about it be confident in yourself and your gf won't really care(:
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