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hey does anyone have any good sites with pictures, as in drawings about love or stuff, being heartbroken and other stuff, thanks ill give you a 5

http://www.cartoonstock.com/directory/i/in_love.asp this seemed like a pretty good site hope i helped. plz rate

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I have a boyfriend that I've been with for almost two months. I feel that I love him, but I barely see him, and he never openly talks to me. I have three other guys who like me, and I goofed the other day and cheated on my boyfriend with one of them. The guy I cheated on him with I really like, but he's got a girlfriend and can't leave her, or he won't have a place to live. I want to be with the other guy more then my boyfriend, but I can't be. Should I stay with my boyfriend?

I dont think so if your going to cheat on him that is messed up! If any thing you should tell him what happened and if you really love him stay with him if not break up wiht him you just cant play ppl like dat! hope i helped plz rate

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my best friend, is worring that shell never have a fist kiss i have from partys and crap but she isnt the person everyonw is dying to kiss....what should i tell her cuz shes really fing worried and none of my guys friends with jsut kiss her to make her feel better..what should i do.>

Tell her that her time will come and she'll meet that guy that she would die for just give it time! hope i helped plz rate

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Well, I like this kid named Eric, hes so sweet nice n incredible and EVERYTHING, but my friend erika always seems to get jealous when me n him talk and stuff if its like not about her.. erika asked me to ask him today who he liked. and he said me and it was like the best thing ever and hes like do you wanna date me? and i said yeah but i dont wanna hurt erika, because i know if i date eric erika will like be mad at me or treat me differently.. but i really really really like eric!! what should i do?? would u date eric and try n find erika a boyfriend? or would u jus stay friends with eric? i rate 5z!

You should date the guy! If erika is really your "FRIEND" then she will support any thing you do!Dont let some one get in the way of your life! You should tell erika that you are going to date eric and that if she is really your freind she will support it! Hope i helped plz rate.

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Hey Guys,
Last weekend i went to the movies with my boyfriend. We planned to kiss and make out and all that good stuff. When that moment came up i panicked because it was my first time. After that day i could think of nothing but him and that moment. Now all i want to do is make out with him or at least talk to him about it. I am also afraid that i dont know exactly how to make out with some one. Plz give me tips and should i talk to him?????
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well first of all if you cant talk to your boy freind about sexual things then you shouldnt being doing things wiht him. you need to be able to talk to him about it and tell him what you like and what feels good. Aslo making out is justa natural thing relax and just gow ith the flow you'll never stop after your first time.

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I'm looking for a good legal downloading music softwear that I can download for free. Something like Kazaa but not Kazaa. Does that make sense? Thanks! =D I will rate high the ones that are helpful!

win-mx is a good site to download from it is free and garunteed to have no spy ware!! Kazza is a horrible program for your computer there is more spy ware n kazza it is horrible so try winmx.com takes like 2 mins to down load

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ok my dad has a girlfriend... thats ok with me....but like everyone hates her me , my bro, everyone except my dad... i have told him about it so many times but he doesnt listen and he wont break up with her....am i supposed to hurt my dads feelings and lik not hang around her... the only problem is that my dad is lik never home, so i only get to c him wen i c her...i really dont think its fair....i need help this is ruining my life!

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i need serious help

Tell him you dont want to be around when she is around he will gte the pooint sooner or later! has your brother said any thin to him? If you gte your brother to start saying thing to him to then he might realize, wow they must really not like her.

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i'll rate anyone a 5 who reads this and helps thanx!!

me and my best friend have been great friends since 8th grade (were both in 12th now) so we've been friends for pretty much 5 years. i love her to death and i dont know what i would do without her. Were seriously inseperable. About a month ago she met this guy. All of a sudden its like she's dedicating her time to hang out with him EVERY day. I mean all three of us do hang out sometimes but i dont really like it bc i kinda feel like the 3rd wheel. Her ex boyfriend just told me that he likes me but i told him that i only like him as a friend. i told her that he said he liked me and all of a sudden she asumed that i liked him too and now she is mad at me. the reason they broke up was because she was lying to him and cheating on him with this guy she is with now. The guy she is with now wants to get an apartment. He said i could move in if i wanted but i dont want to because i cant afford it but i dont wanna loose my best friend to him because i lost her once before and i was miserable. Well today i left this guy a voicemail saying mean things and everything to him which i shouldnt but he is really rude to me. He calls me a slut and everything. i've told my friend this but she said well im falling in love with him and all that. I really dont wanna loose my best friend at all! i dont know wut to do and its killing me inside. I tryed to talk to her about it but she doesn't wanna listen to me at all. She told me a few weeks ago the only reason she is with this guy is because he gets her w/e she wants (he got her a diamond ring...a $500 stereo and lets her drive his new car and she doesn't have her permit or license) i dont know what to do!! someone please help!! since this is long ill rate u a 5!!! thanx!!!

I think you should just gte you and your freind alone for a litlle while wiht no one else around and just tell her how you feel!! Tell her you dont want to loose her to some guy you dont like in the first place!!

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well my older brother is think of moving to flordia with his dad and im not sure if im ok with it cuz me n him are really close and i dont want him to move. and ideals what i can say to himm?

Well is it an option for you to move to florida? I personally live in florida and love it there is so much to exspesially if you are into water sports i do i a lot of scuba diving my self so if it is an option for you to move to florida i would highly consider it! Hope i helped

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What would be romantic if my boyfriend and I wanted to do something really romantic for our anniversary. We haven't been going out that long. It's something special for the both of us. We love each other so much. This is really important because im moving soon. I don't wan't too, but it's just something I can't turn down to my parent's. Do you think I can make it so Romantic, that he would want to stay with even if I move? Would a guy still want to break up even if I made it so romantic? What should I do? I mean how can I keep him for the rest of my life, with out me moving ruining everything that my boyfriend and I have? If you think doing something Romantic what do you think i should do? Sorry with all the questions, Im just stuck. You and Your girlfriend look like you guys really love each other. So I thought It would be good for me to come to you with this problem. Can you help me? I rate high and Give good comments.

Mary

I think you should do every thing in your power to not move what ever it takes becuas e if you love him so much then chances are he loves you the same back.if there is any thing i can do to help just tell me!! He probly wants to spend the rest of his life wiht you to. Also just try to get you two alone and just have a long time to jsut talk and express your self

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Ok: so i love scary movies... spook houses, and doing the ouiji board. I live down in the basement all alone and after seeing freaky movies... like Saw I can't sleep. I think that there in my basement gonna come kill me.. and even though I'm 16... i still sleep with my t.v. on all night... even though I can't stand a speck of light in the night i LOVE watchinng scary movies... but i get so scared I sometimes cry! What can I do?

Really the only thing you can do to really make it go away is stop watching them. but im like you i love watching them. just think to your self that non of that if true and fall asleep with some one on the phone

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Can anyone help. I am currently working for a firm which due to expansion is doing a re-structure within the office. All of us have been told that they will try and get similar jobs for us to take but there might be redundancy. I have been offered a job which pays £10 less then i am on and have taken away the company car. I started with the compnay when there was 13 people and now there is over 200. Can they do this to me as i feel totally let down by the company.

NO..I fell that is complete BS and that if you have been wiht the cimpany for that many years they should treat you with a little more respect. unless you are doing at horribe job at what ever you are doing then they have no right to do that.

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Whats up? I Love you cant wait to see you... You mean alot to me,, Love you soo much... More then anything. Now tell me.. If you had a gurlfriend like me.. and you had to explain what your gurlfriend means to you.. What would you say? ;)

Love you Sammy Sam

I would say that you bring so much inot my life.. And you make me one of the happeost people ever you mean every thing to me you like to do many of the things i do and That I LVOE YOU becuas with out you my life would be just a normal old boring one!! I LOVE YOU SAM AND I WOULD DO ANY THING FOR YOU!!! ANY THING AT ALL :)

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Okay.. How do you know your in love? like... what feelings do you get? Explain PLEASE!

You just know when I can look around ans say i dont like any one but you..Its a state of mind i believe!! I LOVE YOU SAM

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Hi you guys... i don't really know where to start. i'm head over heels for one of my best friends (my best guy friend). and i don't know what to do. sometimes, when we're talking and it's late at night, i come so close to telling him, just because i'd like to know if i have a chance. but then part of me is afraid. he has a girlfriend at the moment, and i don't want to ruin anything between them. i found out a few days ago that he used to think we had the potential to be soulmates, that's definitely how i feel. and have felt. i just don't know if he still feels like that and i'm really afraid to ask. so, all wise advice givers, what do i do?

Just go ahead and ask him i have had girls ask me that before!Its not really a big deal if he really loves the other girl nothing will come of it but if your ment to be then maybe you will hook up with him.. NO GIRL WOULD EVER COME BETWWEN ME AND MY GIRL FREIND!! If he really doesnt like the girl then he shouldnt be wiht her an the first place and h will come to you.

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My boyfriend wants to go to the movies with me and he has been bringing up making out. But ive never made out before. Could someone please tell me how? I know this might sound stupid but i have nooooo clue :P (Please dont say it comes naturally) I RATE HIGH! Thanks :)

OK..well theres really no way to tell you how it just comes natural.

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