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I went skinning dipping at the lake area last weekend with this guy I know. We fooled around in the water and he did cum. My period was due yesterday but it hasn't started. Can you get pregnant by skinny dipping like this? (link)
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It's not the skinny dipping, it's the sex. It only takes one sperm to survive to make you pregnant, so, yes, you at risk.
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ok so my friendd is very sick she keeps making herself throw up and its sad like i want her to eat she thinks she fat and shes not even fat !!!!! not even kidding you this girl is like 135 that nt fat ! anyways so i went up to her today and i grabbed her hand and she felt so weak ! i wanted to cry because she shouldnt b doing this to herself bt i didnt i just told her that i loved her and i will always be here for her... i dont no what to do can someone help me? what should i say to her? and why do you think she keeps doing this to herself? and do you think that she will b able to go to this trip thats on friday??? (link)
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Really loving someone means that you want the very best for them. The very best thing for your friend is medical help.
Tell her parents. Tell a counselor at school. Tell anyone you can think of until she starts getting medical help.
I know that this may not feel like you are being helpful, an do.but this is the most loving thing you c
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OK! I am totally freaking out because I came home and the house was quiet and I was being stupid I guess and just walked right into my brothers room without knocking because I didn't think he was home and I wanted to borrow one of these sweatshirts he has that are really comfortable and he was totally jacking off like right there when I opened the door. I slammed the door and ran to my room because that is DISGUSTING. Now I can't even THINK about him without wanting to vomit. What do I do now? Do I confront him? Should I say something about him being a nasty perv? I KNOW HE KNOWS I SAW but he hasn't come out of his room and said anything to me. This is so gross. (link)
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What would you confront him about - doing something private in his own room behind a closed door??
Why would you call him names when he does something almost all men do?
You should probably write him a note and apologize for walking in his room and assure him that you won't do so again.
I realize this was pretty startling for you, but cool down and don't make this more awkward and more embarrassing for both of you by making any more of it. How would you want him to act if he walked in on you and you were naked? Do that for him.
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I want to be skinny really really bad and I read about anorexic. Thats what I want to do now and I didnt even eat anything today. My mom kept asking me why I wouldnt eat dinner. I kept telling her I was full but she didnt buy it and tried to make me eat some peas. How can I hide being anorexic from my parents? Because theyre going to be mad if they find out and theyll do something like force me to eat or something. I want to be skinny like the models and like Mary Kate Olsen was. Really really skinny. (link)
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How about being dead, being really, really dead?
Anorexia kills, and even when it doesn't kill, it can ruin your health for the rest of your life.
Instead of hiding this from your parents you should be going to them and asking for medical and psychiatric help.
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I got the runs today and it started when I woke up. I just kept GOING to the bathroom and, well, pooping a lot. It's really runny and disgusting and smells just BAD. It's embarrassing because I am going to have to go to school tomorrow and it hasn't stop. Why is this happening and HOW can I make it STOP?! (link)
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Get to your drugstore, or get someone else to go and get some Imodium or Kaopectate or Pepto-Bismol. If it's just diarrhea, go with the Imodium. It should stop things very quickly.
Drink water to stay hydrated.
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My husband has pretty risky cancer. The doctor has told me that it's likely he won't make it to see his next birthday. This frightens me and I'm unable to cope with that news. I have been crying day and night over this. I feel like I'm trapped all alone in this mess. I don't want him to die. How can I make this better and just stop being so...miserable? I keep telling myself, "He's not dead yet!" but it feels so hopeless. (link)
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I'm so sorry to hear of your situation.
First, have you gotten a second, or even a third opinion? Survival rates vary from hospital to hospital and from doctor to doctor. Educate yourself on the internet, focus on hospital and medical school sites, and do not settle for what your first doctor tells you. If you haven't already, be sure he is seen by at least one oncologist who specializes in this type of cancer.
Do you need help researching this?
Second, if you can help him to have one good day, one great laugh, some joy in his life, it certainly is not "hopeless". Every hour is precious, how many good ones can you help him have?
Third, you need some support and some place you can vent to people who understand.
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My boy had anal sex with me few weeks ago && now I am itching my ass like crazy. I got him to look at it and he said it looks real nasty. My ma would KILL me if she found out we was fooling around. I thought butt sex was safe cause you cant get pregnant and now I'm like whoa. Can you get like a disease on your butthole? My BF has had sex allot before but not alot to where hes infected I don't think? (link)
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STDs can be spread to the anus. And while we're on the subject, to the mouth, as well.
You need to see a doctor.
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My bf is just turned 24 and I really REALLY like him a whole lot, hes so funny. The thing is I told him I had just turned 18 yrs old. That isn't the truth tho. I'm really almost 15. I guess you could say I developed fast and am mature for my age? haha Anyways, he totally believes I'm 18 and I kind of feel bad because my bff just said it's illegal to date when he's so old and he can go to prison for it. He hasnt ever been to jail. idk what do I do? My mom don't know I'm dating even tho. (link)
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He must putting him be told NOW and you must end the relationship. You are putting him at major risk, without his knowing, and that simply is not right.
A your age, the gap of 9 years is huge! If you were 28 and he was 34, the gap would not be anywhere near as great, and the relationship would not put him in legal jeopardy.
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So my 18th birthday is coming up and I'm planning on going out to dinner with all my friends at the Cheesecake Factory. I don't necessarily need a theme since there's not much I can do with the decorations but I really want a unique invitation I just don't know what. I've been thinking about doing a message in a bottle cause that would be really cute but I feel like it might not exactly fit with the restaurant. Would that be okay or should I do something else? If so, then what? Ideas? (link)
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You could write the invitation on an inflated balloon, deflate the balloon, and mail the deflated balloon. Experiment with markers to find one that will hold up and not smear.
Have some slap bracelets made up that have the invitation printed on them.
Attach the invitation to a little plastic box containing a piece of cheesecake. Hand deliver.
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aaaand my boyfriend is ready to kill me because of this. He's allergic to bleach, so I can't do that.
Does anyone know any home remedies?
Lemon juice, baking soda?
Anything. I need to fix this lest he kick me out or break up with me, or something...
we're 23 and 28, not that it should matter...
Help, please...:( (link)
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#1. Let him do his own laundry in the future. He's 28, he can handle it.
#2. There's a lot of non-chlorine bleach options out there.
#3. If he's the kind to kick you out or break up with you over this, you are way better off without him and be glad you learned it now.
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Will I get ink poisoning if I staved my self with a ink pen and it started to bleed (link)
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You are far more likely to bleed to death.
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What does it mean if you keep dreaming of a person? (link)
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It means they are on your mind. Good thoughts, bad thoughts, it just shows that you are thinking about them.
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Ok iv posted this before but I can't seem to understand why it is that people at my job is so freakn trashy .I come to work every day to a dump and I do mean DUMP .I work my ass off to clean up their mess that they leave behind because they won't do anything all day from the time they clock in up untill they leave and when they do leave they know what they are doing cause they sneak out the back door to leave so they won't face me .they throw their trash on the floor instesd of in the trash can .they won't sweep mop take their trash out nothing .but when I leave my shift for the night it is spotless only for me to return to a desaster over and over again and too me its maddnes .I'm in a pist off mood every day iv talked to the manager about this and its like oh well .well I'm sick and tired of working with slobs .but the way the economy is it would be eise to just quit. And the thing is I have to clean the store for the morning shift and they know I have too but i m tired of all this so what's. The verdict should I stay or should I go (link)
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Is it your job to clean things up or is it something you have taken it upon yourself to do?
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My wife and I are the youngest siblings on both sides of our family. We are also the most flamboyant, outspoken, aggressive, open to share our feelings, laid back, happy go lucky, non-opioninated, loving, careing and trusting members of our entire family.
At one time or another we have gone well beyond the call of duty, both financially and emotionally, to provide for or nurture our parents and our siblings. We have invested in their lives in their time of need and we did it willingly and gladly and from the bottom of our heart.
In the last few years my wife and I have been going through some difficult times with our business and have suffered financially. We turned to our family for help and they did for a while. However, they now seem to be using our current situation as a reason to vent alot of pinned up negative emotions they have obviously been harboring for quite some time.
The loving family that we took care of when we could and they could not, is not interested in taking care of us in our time need. In fact they are now going out of their way to hurt us !!!
How could they forget what we did for them and even think about being dceitful and mean spirited. (link)
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While you may have been helpful to family members in the paste, it appears that they may have been rather resentful all along.
Perhaps they found you and your wife overbearing or pushy? Perhaps they felt too much advice came with the help? Perhaps they never cared for the youngest being in a position to help? Were they embarrassed to need your help? There could be many reasons why they were resentful. It could be about you and your wife, or it could have nothing to do with you and be all about them.
Whatever, you and your wife clearly did not see your family and the relationships anywhere near the same. It's a pity they could not have said something a long time ago.
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Okay! So my boyfriend and I were having sex and the condom broke, but he always pulls out before he busts and as soon as he felt it rip, he pulled out and got a new condom. Im on the backend of my period so i still have some blood, but its very light and little. So im not ovulationg or anything, so im wondering if im okay? If i wasnt on my period, i would be worried but since i still kinda am, im not as scared..but I just wanted to make sure! Thankyaaa :) (link)
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You are unlikely to get pregnant under these circumstances.
What you appear to be unaware of, is that there are sperm in pre-ejaculation secretions. Also, sperm can live inside your body for up to 7 days. You weren't ovulating on that day, but if you were 7 days in the future, you could become pregnant then.
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My parents never taught me how to ride a bicycle but I want to teach my son and daughter (twins). They are 4 years old right now and they play around on a little tricycle all the time but I am wondering when I should purchase a real bicycle for them to learn how to ride? I know it's great exercise for kids and I'd really like to teach them while they're young. What is the best age to teach your child how to ride a bicycle? And since I have the money right now should I go on and purchase a couple of bikes for them? Thank you. (link)
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It's been too long for me, I can't remember hiow old my kids were!
But I do remember that our eldest had trouble with learning to balance, pedal and all at once. We bought an old fashioned scooter, so he had to only learn 2 things at once. For him, it worked like a charm and we had the others learn the same way.
Don't buy new bikes till they can ride and actually do ride. There are lots of second hand bikes out there.
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Ok Husband constantly texting friends of mine setting up coffee dates, etc that i cancel. Through my phone!! he demands i get new "girlfriends all the time. when i dont go on these "dates" i get the silent treatment for a week or two. just yesterday he texted a new frien of mine ( a massage therapist) and set up a massage for me with her without telling me. I just had a massage elsewhere last week and said I felt great! he said "if you love me, you will get it done, it will make me (him) happy. I am now getting the silent treatment and I wish he would just punch me already! this has been going on for 6 years and shows no signs of stopping.he wont let me have unattractive "friends" either. i think it is totally sexually charged. HELP!!! (link)
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Lock your phone.
This is outrageously controlling behavior.
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I was going to apply to this one job opening but the thing is that the employees are picketing the place right now and are on strike. I heard that if you go over the picket line, especially if you're applying for a position there for a job, that they will throw eggs at you. My boyfriend was joking but said, "Well, eggs are really good for your hair!" and my mom said something about them making your hair shiny and grow better. I am just wondering if the egg thing is really true? Because if it is then I can do that right at home and get really pretty hair real cheap. Anybody know if eggs are good for your hair? (link)
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Yes, eggs can make your hair look nice. In my youth, you could buy shampoo with egg in it.
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How do i deal with a sister in law that has been copying everything i do for the past 25 years? She some how just know how irritate me. Yet again she has managed to do something that made my blood boil! (link)
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Well, you've been managing to live with this for 25 years. She probably isn't going to change her ways now.
Can you give some specific examples?
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I am a 27 year old female. Ok here goes I have a daughter who is 7 years old. And I pick her up from school everyday. But it's this gorgeous father there also who picks up his son everyday.
And for the last couple of weeks I have been seeing him. After school the parents have to wait outside of the gym to get their kids. And he is one of the parents I see everyday. And OMG he's so hot, he's so gorgeous tall and so sexy, so my type.
I don't know weather he is single. And I want to get to know him so bad I just don't have the courage at all. But I get all dolled up just to pick up my daughter from school everyday and it's because of him.
Please somebody tell me what I should do. How can I really get this guy to notice me. Should I randomly strike up some type of convo or should I stand back and hope he trys to talk to me one day.
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While you're waiting, initiate a conversation with anyone who happens to be nearby, and include him. You all have kids in the same school, so you've got to have something to talk about. Ask about homework, packed lunch ideas, etc.
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