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I hooked up with this gorgeouss junior a couple weeks okay. We've been friends since the beginging of the year (I'm a freshman; girl). Oh I guess I should say a hook up for me is making out (hardcore haha ) and 2d base and maybe a bit of 3d. BUT ANYWAY so he came over a couple weekends and we just watched movies and hooked up... then prom came around. His bestfriend told me he was going to ask me and I was just kinda like ugh i dont wanna got to prom. So this kid ended up asking someone else. Now... he doesnt call or IM me much anymore and barely talks to me in school. I feel like he hooked up with me, got what he wants and now he's done with me. What can I do to show him I dont need him (besides the obvious of flirting with other guys, i do plenty of that). Im not really sure what I'm asking. Is this normal for guys to do this? I guess I'm just new to all this.. being my first year of Highschool...
help me out?haha.. (link)
I think this guy liked you, but when you told his best friend that you didn't want to go to prom, he probably assumed that you didn't like him and got upset. So, he decided to ask someone else. This would explain why he no longer talks to you. I don't think you need to show this guy that you don't need him. If you are flirting with other guys and don't talk to him he gets the picture. Like I said before, this guy probably already thinks you don't like him and aren't interested, and to be honest, he probably doesn't care about you or what you do anymore. You should be fine.


what are fine arts? what does that mean. what are a list of fine arts? like music art. but specifically. i am very confused. thanks
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Fine arts are basically performing arts, like:

-dance
-drama
-theater
-choir
-orchestra
-photography
-painting

There are many others, those are just a few.


people say you have to sleep atleast 8 hours a day .
i'm trying to loose my nags under my eyes. but i sleep 7 hours night-till morning and on that day i wake up i take a 1-2 hour nap.
is that okay?
will that cure my baggs? (link)
You are probably getting enough sleep, however it probably won't help dark circles or bags under your eyes. Most people have bags, and they are very hard to get rid of. There are some creams and such you can buy at stores, but most are expensive or don't work so well. One home remedy that can help reduce bags under your eyes is putting a frozen bag of peas under your eyes. This can also help reduce swelling and/or redness. Hope this is helpful.


i have some questions on separations so if anyone can help me out that would be great

okay so my mom wants to divorce my dad but he is very religious and dosent believe in that so she is trying to geta legal separation so she can get him out of the house so here are my questions

what if after this whole thing he still dosent leave? jail? a fine?

he makes alot more money so would he get custody of me?

would he get the house?

how expensive will this all be for my mom?

well thank you for your time and i hope you can help me out (link)
I can't answer all your questions but I can answer a few. There is no way for me to tell whether your dad would get the house, and I'm not sure about the consequences if he doesn't leave. Most likely your mom would get custody, mothers usually do, however if you find this unsuitable you could always appeal in court and try to live with your dad. If your mom doesn't make enough money to support you, the court may also decide for you to live with your dad. A seperation basically entails everything a divorce has, but your parents are still officially married. (So neither of them could get married again) As for expenses, it varies from seperation to seperation, but it shouldn't be too expensive. I know this doesn't answer all your questions, but I hope i helped.


i want to get my cartilage pierced
1. does it hurt?
2. does anyone have some good earring ideas for it
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How much it hurts varies from person to person, but overall it's not too bad. When I got mine done I didn't think it hurt that much. It's one click of the piercing gun and then it's over. However, some people experience pain after they get their ear pierced, and not necessarily because of infection. If you sleep on your side I would suggest getting your piercing on the side you don't sleep on, because it can be uncomfortable to have pressure on it for awhile after you get it done. As for earrings, whatever you like works; however, most places you go to get your ear pierced will have a small selection of earrings for you to choose from. Make sure the earring you get is real silver or gold as this will help avoid infection. A stud is the best option for a new piercing, as for size it's whatever you're comfortable with. Later on you could also get a hoop.


the song that im looking for has this man singing,here is what he says."because something something something, and now im running and screaming, i feel like a hero..."thats all i no.who knows wh it is by or what the name of the song is (link)
"Hero/Heroine" by Boys Like Girls


Ok so I really like this guys Dustin but everyone thinks he is a gigantac loser. I use to tease him too until I started hanging out with him. What should I do? If I told someone I liked Dustin I dont know what they would think! So any ideas of what I should do? All answers apreciated. (link)
If you like this guy, that should be all that matters. Don't worry about what other people think of him, your opinion is what counts. Try and talk to your friends about why you think he's cool. Maybe if they hang out with him they will see that he isn't a loser. Even if they don't agree with you, your friends should still support your decision. Good luck.


Well a couple of years ago on my old laptop, my brother installed something/some program, and it was a little creature, or whatever(I could change it) walking around on my desktop, and I could drag it anywhere, and so on.

Does anyone know what this thing is, and where I could download it?
I already asked my brother, but he said he didn't remember.

Thankss. (link)
It was probably the office assistant from Microsoft Office. It's originally a paper clip, but you can change it to a cat, dog, wizard etc. It only shows up when you have a Microsoft program open though. I hope this helps.


I have an 80 GB iPod Classic/Video that won't seem to turn off.

When I first ran into this problem, I reset my iPod by holding down the middle button and the menu button, but it still wouldn't turn off. I then tried to restore my iPod, but even after doing that it still wouldn't turn off. I have since tried resetting it some fifty millions times, but it still won't turn off.

Lately I've just been letting the battery run out and then charging it back up. Obviously, that can't be too good for the iPod, but it's the only thing I can do.

The iPod is relatively new. I've only had it since around November, maybe. My mom had bought it a few months before then, but had never touched it. It's not the newest version of the iPod classic/video, if that helps.

I don't know what else to do or try, so if anyone could help me out I would greatly appreciate it! (link)
well... if you have already tried all of this and nothing has worked it might be an internal problem. i don't know if you have a warranty for your ipod but the best thing to do in this situation will be to go to an electronic store, or the store where you bought the ipod and tell them what the problem is. i also have this style ipod and i don't tink there's anything else you can do.


I need to lose 50 pounds by June. I have already stopped eating any junkfood... what else can I do? I need things that REALLY work for someone on a budget. (link)
50 pounds is a lot of weight to atttempt to lose in such a short period of time, but there are things that will help you lose weight quickly. Eliminating junk food is already a great way to cut down on calories, sugar, and fat. Instead of eating three large meals a day, try eating five small meals a day. This will make you feel like you are getting more food, and it will also help your metabolism work at a steady pace. Never skip breakfast because that's what starts your metabolism in the morning and if you don't eat it then your metabolism will be slower throughout the day. Also make sure you don't eat right before you go to bed, as your body won't have an opportunity to burn the food off before you go to sleep. As for exercising, try to do something every day, no matter how small. Also try to move more than you normally would. Instead of taking the elevator, take the stairs. When you're watching t.v. you could jog in place, do sit-ups or push-ups, or do some weight lifting. If you don't really enjoy exercising, try finding things that will be fun and still help you lose weight. For example, if you have a favorite sport, get on a team. You could also try dancing, roller skating, walking your dog, or even going bowling. Any physical activity is better than none. Try listening to music while you work out, it might help you be more motivated. As long as you try and eat healthy and work out as often as you can you should be able to lose weight. Good luck.


how do you put things on google or publish them so they show up there? (link)
I don't believe you can post things on google specifically. Google is a search engine that searches the entire internet for things that match your query, not things that have been published on google. So if you want things that you have written to show up on google you just have to create something online and hope that it is relevant or popular enough to come up on a google search.



"This is a serious question and i would like serious answers"

For almost a week my boyfriend has been asking me if he could put it in my butt. I kept telling him no, it will hurt ect. but he keeps asking. Finally i told him i would let him "try" on Valentines day, and i let him down and he got mad. Last night me and him had sex and i told him i was going to let him do it this time, so he waiting till after i came, and tried to put it in there but i stopped him because the lub felt nasty. Now this morning he's calling me a bitch and saying i should die. I just don't get it. I don't know what to do about him. any advice? (link)
this guy is NOT treating you with respect and you do NOT deserve to be treated this way. most girl's don't like anal at all, because it's nasty and uncomfortable. he shouldn't get mad at you if you don't want to try it. he may just be mad because he got excited that you were going to try it and then it didn't work out, but it seems like more than that. it's YOUR body not his, and it's not like you didn't try. plus, if you're already having sex with him he shouldn't be complaining. this guy is not treating you right and you don't deserve this. tell him you're sorry but you don't like it or want to do it and it's not comfortable for you, and if he doesn't top treating you badly you need to drop him.


Someone wrote in my Honesty Box on facebook:
"trife"
What does that mean? (link)
in this context it probably meant that you're somebody who's not worth anybody's time.


I really like the song Stolen by Dashboard confessional...I've downloaded the fast version, but there is this one version i've heard thats really slow...and i like it a lot better! But i can't seem to find it anywhere. Does anyone know where i can download it from?? (link)
when i downloaded the song i got it off itunes and it was the slow version, so if you try there they might still have the original, just click on the song title so you can get a preview of the song and make sure it's the right one.


what does it mean when someone tells you to turn on the ignition without starting the engine ? so you just turn the key two little knotch things but before you turn the engine over ? (link)
how many notches you have to turn depends on the car, but yes you turn the key only until the car ignition turns on (like the radio, ac, etc), not the actual engine.


Ok im just going to come out and say it...there is this guy that was seriously flirting with me yesterday, and i have this problem...i know how to flirt but not 100%...and like he was touching me with his arm and leg...what do i do there?? i really like this guy and i think there is something there. But i need to be a better flirt..can you help me? (link)
when he touches you with his leg you could put your hand on his leg. not anything creepy, just place it right above his knee. this will draw his attention to you, and when he looks at you, simply smile. touch him more than you normally would with other people. when you give him a hug, hold it out a little longer. if you catch him looking at you, hold his gaze for a few seconds, and then look away. a "shy" smile always works great with this. try the "accidental" brush when you walk by him, touching him just enough that he notices but not enough for him to be 100% sure it was intentional. and most importantly, get to know him better while you are flirting. he will appreciate the fact that you are interested in him, and it will help make conversations easier, as you will already know stuff you can talk about him with. good luck.


so. i really like this boy and i know he likes me too but ill be 15 tomorrow and he'll be 18 this tuesday. we really like eachother but my mom says that hes too old for me.

i think love has no specific age.

how do i convince her that i really like this boy and tell her nicely that she cant standin the way of my love life? (link)
this is always a hard situation. basically, the reason your mom thinks he's too old for you is because she thinks all he want is sex. so try and tell her that he's not that type of guy, he isn't crazy interested in it like most guys. tell her that you really like him, and mention you don't think it's right that adults can date with 5-10 years of age difference between them and teens can't. talk about his great qualities and how nice and polite he is, and tell her how important he is to you. technically she can't stop you from seeing him, however it would be unwise to say this to her because if she really doesn't support this then she will be keeping an eye on you and won't let you go anywhere unsupervised. good luck.


Hi, I wanted to paint my skateboard but was wondering if I can still ride it and everything once I have, or will the paint just scratch off? Is there anything I can put over it to preserve the paint when I slide down rails and stuff? (link)
the paint will definitely come off your board if you do a lot of grinding and stuff like that. however, you can try putting a clear protective paint over whatever you put on there, which might provide some protection. also, try using outdoor spray pain, it's more durable against rain and stuff so it will hold up better.


What would be the best way to hide the fact that you smoke from your parents?
I've gotten away with it for like 5 months, but I'm worried that they'll find out and freak.
I mean I always have a lighter in my bag...and my dad knows, he doesn't give a shit. But if my mom found out she would kill me.
Well my dad knows that I smoke, but he pretends that he doesn't...so yeah.
I usually stay in a t-shirt when I'm smoking, and then after put on a hoodie and/or a jacket. Then I chew gum or eat mints and spray some axe around.
I have also found a solution to the finger smelling problem, I put some rosy shit lipbalm on my fingers and then they smell like ''soap''

But I need some better methods as my mom is getting suspicious since I use a can of deodorant a week or so.

Thanks dudes.
m//15

Btw...I don't want no lectures about how bad this is for me.
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try something that absorbs odors, like febreze. there's also this really great stuff they sell in head shops, and it's a wax, basically you put in on your hands and it's a bit messy but then it absorbs in, you can't tell you ever put it on and it makes your hand smell like nothing but air it's pretty amazing stuff. a better idea is to smoke in a sweatshirt, and then take it off, because when you smoke in a shirt and then put a sweatshirt on the shirt is still there underneath and smells. if you wear a sweatshirt it absorbs almost all of the soke, and then when you take it off almost all of the smoke smell is gone. also don't forget to spray your hair or do something to cover that up because the smoke smell will get absorbed in your hair and linger. also, try to find some better times to smoke. if you ride a bus, you can smoke at the bus stop if you don't think she will find out or catch you, cuz when you smoke outside obviously it takes most of the smell away, also, you then have the entire day for the smell to wear off. i hope this helps. i started smoking right after i turned 15, about 7 months ago and i haven't gotten caught, however my mom smokes in the house so i already smell like smoke. lol. good luck.


If I open and close my jaw, it randomly cracks or pops. It isn't loud [I'm probably the only one who can hear it] and it doesn't hurt at all whatsoever. People told me to look up TMJ. I don't really have any TMJ symptoms except one or two. I'm going to the oral surgeon in a few weeks for a wisdom teeth checkup so I can ask the doctor about it then. I'm just a bit worried because I thought it wasn't too serious since it wasn't painful and it never stopped me from chewing or anything like that. Has anyone had this and if so, what is it?? Thanks!! (link)
my jaw does that too, as does my mom. my mom actually has tmj but i don't. it's not really a big problem, nothing to worry about unless it starts causing you pain, which it sounds like it isn't. so as long as you mention it to the oral surgeon when you go you should be fine.




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