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Look, im in 8th grade and I'm a girl. I'm 13 years old. There's this boy I really like, and I don't know if he likes me... We were really good friends since 3rd grade, and in 4th grade we were going out. In 5th grade we were just friends. In 6th grade we weren't. Then in 7th grade we were friends. Now in 8th grade he's my friend again and he smiles at me a lot. We just got partnered for an interview project and he looked really happy about it. I hope he likes me because I think im in love. I really like this guy and I hope he likes me. Please give me advice on how to confront him and talk to him and maybe tell your opinion on if he likes me or not. Also, should I tell him I like him? I don't know what to do. Please help me.

Hey,
See if you can get his # and call him as a friend first and then consult with him about a relationship later or maybe he will bring up a relationship first and that will let you know that he likes you. I think he likes you. Smiling is a sign of flirting. Flirting leads to a relationship. Go and get yo man gurl.

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ok some kid that i used to be friends with now i am not he got my phone number and he calls my house acting alll stupid and curses also i dont want my parents picking up and him curseing at them cause i wont be grounded for like ever.. what can i do to make him stop calling i rate 5s

Hey,
Easy just block his #.

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Hi, I live with my grandparents. My grandmaw doesnt want me to wear thongs or use tampons. I was in the shower last weekend, and I had two thongs in the dryer with my clothes. My grandmaw took my clothes out and saw them. I think she threw them away. So let me get to my question; what can i do about her, because she is so old fashion, how can i have thongs and use tampons with out her knowing about this and doing something stupid.

Thanks, i Rate 5's

signed,
Confused

Hey,
I suggest that you get a little basket small enough tto fit in your closet and hide it somewhere so that she can't find it and the tampon situation you can always store those in your purse.

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i wanted to know if there are any side effects of depression pills like losing weight gaining weight drowsynesss any of that and also which different type of pills have what side effect?

Hey,
I use to take depression pills and sometimes they do have side affects on losing and gaining weight. Sometimes even drowsiness. I use to take Wellbutrin.

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Is there any way on aim you can sign on more than one screen name at a time?? If yes, how??
Thankss
Ill rate 5's
HELP

Hey,
because you're supposed to log off and then it will show your second scrrenname.
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Ok i never did this but if you masturbate can your vagina tear??

Hey,
When you masturbate you can't tear your vagina.

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My Best Friend Likes Me... i dont know what to do i mean hes a cutie and i love his personality and everything i guess im just afrid to like him because hes like my best friend and i mean i guess we flirt like he will tickle me and carry my books some times. Im Just scared if i say no im afrid he will be upset and if i say yes and we break up our friendship will be ruined. Please Give Me Some Advice

Hey,
Follow your heart.. If you break up with him and he doesn't wanna stay friends that just means that he wasn't a true friend to start off with.

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ok this question is for girls only lol. i have my period & i can't use tampons..but i have swimming in gym class & my teacher is being a jerk about it, so i have to swim for the rest of the week. i'm not sure what to do exactly. my mom told me that your period stops & slows down in water, soo should i juss jump in fast? any ideas?

thanks!

Hey,
Your period stops in the water.

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how long should a tampon be in ur body? like if i am at school from 7:00 to 3:10 which would be 9 hrs!!! du i need to change my tampon in skool...probably but i am not sure! pleese help i rate high!

oxo * oxo

Hey,
You're supposed to change your tamon every 2-3 hours.

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Why is my hair falling out?

Growing up I always had very thick and abundant hair. But now it's starting to fall out- and I'm only 14...

I dyed it about 3 months ago and it is just beginning to fall out.

Help... I love my hair!

Hey,
Maybe it's because of the chemicals the dye had in it. Just don't dye your hair again. Buy some enrichening spray in conditioner.

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Hi my name is Tina and i have a problem with my friend because he knoes i like him and he flirts infront of me with this girl and he asked her out infront of me and i knoe he is trying to make me jealous and sometimes it works and other times i just sortof bruch it off but anyway i really like this other kid and he doesn't knoe who he is and when i talk about him he gets so mad at me and then he gets jealous. The thing is i asked him out already and he said no so i dont understand why he gets jealos because he had his chance.and the boy i like is one of my really good friends and he knoes i like him but i was thinkin ok askin him to go along with my plan that i have which is to tell jon im goin out wit Ryan to make him made because jon had asked this girl melissa out infront of me when he knew i liked him. Please Help Me ?????

Hey,
Here's what you should do you need to get the boy that you like Ryan and figure out a scene y'all could act out in front of Jon to make him jealous. Like for example: I love you so much Ryan I'm so glad that me and you are finally going out. Then Ryan would go I know baby I;m I'm happy 2! Then y'all would kiss. That will make Jon so jealous.

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Hey ok i am so confussed about what to do. I really like this guy ok and i went with him to our homecoming and everything! He is ... i hate to admit it..... a player but i found out the he has done somethings with this gurl last year & this gurl is like a real slut & i cant stand her. BUt i dont know what to do or what to belive!! his friend told me that everyhting was true but i dont know if he just doesnt want me dating him What should i do
Signed confuessed

Hey,
It's O.K. just relax.

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My boobs hurt really bad when I wake up in the morning. But if I wear a bra to bed, they dont hurt as bad. I'm not big, only 38A/30B. Does anyone know why it hurts so much? Also, I dont really sleep on them. Thanks!

Hey,
I'm one size smaller than you. Maybe it means that your boobs are growing.

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me and my friends are each going to be one color for halloween... i am going to be blue. Does anyone here know where i can get like blue fake nails...blue lipstick... and blue fake eye lashes? does target have it?

Hey,
I'm pretty sure target will have them if not them then wal-mart.

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when you have your period can you go in the pool? because like my mom said the cold water stops the flow... even if youre not wearing a pad or tampon?

Hey,
Ya you can still go into the pool it stops the flow.

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is it a dis to have your screen name be "tragicly beautiful" ??

Hey,
It means you're sadly beautiful.

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i have stretch marks on the sides of my stomach... and inside my thighs... is there a way that i can make them go away or make them less noticable?

Hey,
Try running on a tredmill.

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there is this boy matt... and i hate him... and he hates me... he is so incredibly mean and i am incredibly mean to him... but heres the thing... i am in love with his best friend... and like i want to get on matts good side... because first of all i want to get closer to matt and second of all... i think we are like into the same things and could be good friends. dont worry... i dont want to use matt to get to his friend

Hey,
Maybe you should try being nice to him and maybe he'll be nice to you back.

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i have known this boy brendan for 1 year and a half... ive liked him for 6 months... and loved him for 2. He knows i like him... and he gives me mixed signals. I think he may like my best friend adriana... but i am not sure... idk what to do about this..

Hey,
I think you should tell the boy how you feel and then maybe his mind will change about who he likes.

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well... i am 13 and i weigh 176 pounds... this really takes a toll on my social life ... especially with guys... i really really really want to lose at least 20 pounds ((to begin with)) asap... but i dont want to go on a major diet... does anyone know a good plan for me?

Hey,
Don't eat any junk food and only eat meat, fruit, and vegetables and water.

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