HEY EVERYONE, I'M KAT!
and i'm here to help :)
i love to give advice, and i've been told that i give some good advice, aswell.
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i could honestly care less about ratings, i just wanna help some people out. in my problems, current and past, i seek help through my friends, who i adore.
i'm a huge my chemical romance fan, and i know pretty much everything about them; so if you have a question on them, i'm here. go for it. ;)
i'm unique in my own way, so ask me for something, and i'll give you a fairly different answer.
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"What nourishes me destroys me"
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"What nourishes me also destorys me"
I'v seen 3 people with those tattoo. What does it mean? (link)
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It means, the person is talking about something bad for them, which is making them happy at the same time. This could go towards drugs, alchohol, suicidal thoughts, bulimia, anorexia, ect.
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Ever sence the kid i liked called me fat ive been eating less which i didnt think a problem, i told my friends thatim eating less and lost 5 pound in 2 weeks which is nothing but they flipped and now i dont feel like eating at all.I do though, but not alot just like little things and last night we went out to dinner a an all you can eat chinese place and when i got home i threw up, not intentionaltly just happened and i didnt eat that much.
whats wrong with me cause i always eat alot-always!im known for my size cause my friends love it.I weigh 193 pounds im a fatty no question asked! thats horrible considering im 14.its all in my belly so i started doing situps and running around and up and down stairs but became lightheaded so stopped.I dont want to eat cause ill gain weight but eating a banana and cottage cheese makes me full and i only eat like a spoon full before im like ugh im full.Which i would usually eat the holl container along with a sandwhich!!
why am i not eating and how can i make myself eat more without worring m ganna get fatter.
ps.dont be like ur not fat cause i am i know. (link)
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First off, don't worry about what the kid said. Your friends seem happy with your weight, and though you may not be, just don't take insults from people. Losing a bit of weight may be healthy for you, you just need to do it wisely.
The reason you're eating less is actually because your stomach's shrinking. The less you eat, the more used your stomach feels to hunger, which means you can eat less to feel more full.
The answer to this problem, is to only eat healthy food. That way, you wont need to worry about getting fat off of the food. Leave things out like fruits, vegetables, chex mix and smoothies to eat instead of cakes, sookies, chips,ect.
The reason you got lightheaded was because your body obviously needs food to function, and you need the energy from food to be able to work out like that. So the solution to this is to eat a healthy snack or meal before workign out. =)
Hope this has helped, and if you need anything else, email me at xo_graziano_ox@hotmail.com
Good luck, and remember you're always gorgeous if YOU believe you are. =)
Kat
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ok, i'll be blunt, i hate my legs. i don't know why, and i'm not sure when it started, somewhere around grade 4 and i am now in grade 10. i have a little extra above my knees and i am self consious because hair grows thicker on my legs. so here is my main question: can you shave your uper legs? is it better to wax? if so how much is it going to caust me? last but not least: how do i get over being self consiouse about my legs?
P.S. i'm a 15 year old female and i weigh 130. (link)
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Yes, you can shave your upper legs. Waxing or shaving is an option for you to make up, but in my opinion, it's fairly easy, maybe even easier than shaving your lower leg area. So yea, your choice. =).
About being self concious, just try to shave more often, so you don't need to worry about that. Honestly, people shouldn't be noticing your legs much, it's mostly in your head that they are that worried about it. Lotion can sometimes help make the hairs look finer, so that may help. If worse comes to worse, maybe just wear long jeans more often?
Hope this has helped at all!
Kat
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how am i supposed to get bigger bobs mine jus wont grow and im getting older and nothing is there any natural at home way icould.. mmake my boobs bigger? (link)
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There's not really any way to do it unnaturally, other than plastic surgery. I'm guessing you're still pretty young, so even if you've already got your period, you may still be developing. It may just be a bit slower than compared to others.
Gaining weight will help in that area, but I'm not sure if you're a person to be willing to try that, because once you lose the weight, you also lose that weight, too.
As the others have said, a pushup (most likely padded) will be helpful. =)
Good luck! Kat
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my fucking mom treats me like im still 7. my siter is 9 and every friday and saturday night they go out to eat. im fucking 14 years old so why the hell do they think i want to spend my friday and saturday nights EVERY weekend at a gay restaurant with my parents and my mom and sister dont get along so i end up having to listen to them fight.
im at the age where i can go out with my friends and i can stay home alone, i dont need to go everywhere with my parents. i scream at them and tell them how much i hate being with them and they never let me go anywhere with my friends. i dont have any fun
once again on a friday night my parents a sister are going out to eat, and they said i HAVE to go. but i went LAST week and the week before that and the week before that. its a fucking friday night i want my friend to come over but NOOOOO my mom has to be gay and say "o ur going out to eat you cant stay home alone with your friend"
how can they expect me to go everywhere with them????
i need major advice. i cant deal with this shit and watch all of my other friends have fun without me (link)
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Well, by going to the resteraunt on Fridays and Saturdays, your parents are trying to get your family quality time in while you've still got the options open. You'll probably get this more once you're older, and realize you're kids are going to be very busy soon.
YOu have to try to be mature when approaching your parents on this problem. Try being CALM about it, along with being rational, and looking at things from their point of view. Understand what they're thinking, and this will show you're not only thinking about you (aka, you're mature. =P)
Maybe try taking small steps at being able to hang out with your friends? Try asking if your friend can come to dinner with you guys, it really shouldn't be that bad with a friend there. If you two really behave, ect, your mom will see you can handle being home alone.
Best of luck
Kat
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what does "i'll cross my t's and dot my eyes" mean :S? i heard that in an all american rejects song! (drive away) hope you can help me =) (link)
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It basically means suming something up. Tying it all up... Overall, it means finishing what you started. Hope this has helped..
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Is it true that you can get a tummy pooch from holding your breath when doing crunches? I read it in a magazine and I realized I do that, I also have a pooch! If I start breathing better
during my crunches, will the pooch go away? (link)
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I'm pretty sure this is true, since you'd need oxygen to flow to that are, and I'm guessing that if you hold your breath, this complicates things.
Try breathing more while doing your exercises. Try holding your mouth open, and if you have to, make sure you count how many breaths you take, to ensure you're not holding it in. =P
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if u ask a question on advicentaors, will people know who's profile it came from? (link)
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Nope, all of the questions are anonymous. =)
You don't even need an account to ask a question, only to answer them!
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i have just turned 14 and all my friends but me have gotten thier peirods.
is it possible not to get ur peirod if ur a normal healthy girl?
am i just late because they make fun of me and say im the only child left.
its iembarssing and i feel left out.
is that weird or normal?
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No worries, you're just late, you'll get it pretty soon. =)
Oh, and about the being made fun of thing, just don't let them get to you. It's not really anything that serious, so just tell them to be mature about it. =P
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what happens when you dont teach a toddler in sims2 how to walk, talk, etc. does this mean that they'll be like... retarded? or will the social workers come. Thanks! (link)
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Nothing exactly happens, it's just that they dont' get the aspiration points of learning those skills, and they may not grow up happy.
They do, however, know how to waslk, talk and use the bathroom when they grow up.
=)
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So I have been singing for years. You know.. for fun? Nothing serious so I don't think I'm a good singer.
My friend, I always thought had a better singing voice & she's in theater .. gets the lead parts and singing parts.
So I go to her for advice about singing and I told her how great she was at it.
Well, she sang something for me & sent it to me in a wav.
And it isn't her best singing.. at all.. she was out of tune and i dont know how to respond to her. it's not her best work.. but she wants an answer.
I can send you the link and maybe you can come up with something nice but helpful to say ?
it's not horrible.. i just don't know how to say that needs some work on it.. because I'm not a great singer. I'm a bit flat so.. if I tell her or imply how she's not that great.. it would be kinda stupid? Because I'm no better than her.
Help?
She's going to sing at her theater but i don't want her to embarrass herself or get hurt.. (link)
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Try it out sweet and sour. Give her a compliment, but reccomend that she change something, too. =)
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The sims 2 is incredibly slow on my computer and also choppy. I really want to play it but I can't because it's that slow. Is there anyway I can make it more enjoyable to play by making it faster and less choppy when moving around? (link)
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I'd say to try deleting all lots, even neighborhoods you don't want or don't use. This really improved my game. Also, dont' download too much custom content, and delete any you don't use.
If thisdosen't work, I'd say to try getting a new graphics card. =)
Kat
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my house is usually pretty cool, which isnt good for my parakeet. he shivers a lot whenever hes out of his cage. i keep the top of his cage covered with a towel to keep him warm, but what else can i do to keep him warm?
thanks (link)
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Keep him next to a light, this should help out.=)
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I'm 14/f, and I was on this pill for a year that made me lose my appetite. My doctor finally took me off of it...but now, my stomach has completely shrunk, because when you don't eat, your stomach shrinks. I can barely eat half of a hamburger without being so full, I want to throw up. I am *NOT* anorexic. I've gone from 88 pounds to 81 pounds. My doctor keeps telling me just to "eat more" but I can't just "eat more", or I'll get sick!
How do I gain weight and my appetite back?
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I'd say to drink protein shakes. They don't fill you up too quickly, and honestly, they're really good. =).
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I need some songs for altos.
Anything like Freddy my love would be good :] (link)
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I'm not sure of any specific songs, but I'm an alto, too, so the thing I do is to usually look at song that guys sing, because they've got a lower voice range. It really helps, because you don't have to try to sing really high notes.
Also, look for singers from about the 60s or something, those singers didn't tend to be loud and really high pitched, they were more mellowed out and lower. =)
Hope this has helped at all!!
Kat
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do any of you drink coffe? did you notice it makes you shrink? maybe its just me but my friend drinks coffe twice a day (shes only 13) and shes shrinking!! im serously concerned bcz shes short but her twin sister is like 2 inches taller
xo (link)
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Don't worry. At most, coffee can SLIGHTLY stunt your growth. It's not that she's shrinking, it's that her sister's getting taller faster. She's probably developing slowly.
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15.female.Texas.
I'm 15, freshman, still havent gotten my frist kiss! Ugh so frusterating! But in this area like 50% of people havent gone out wit someone yet or kisses someone. Is this weird? and makes me frusterated! Wat can I do? (link)
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No, this isnt' weird. Just remember, you said about half the people around you have had their first kiss already. That also leaves another half that hasn't. ;D
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commit what does that mean (link)
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Commit means to be true to someone, and to just be theirs. To always be there for them, and to obvioulsy not cheat on them.
Hope this has helped.
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OK, I feel really dorky asking this, but it really bothers me b/c I try and be nice to everybody and I don't like doing cold, heartless, mean things.
Girls at my school have started throwing wallet size pictures of people they don't like into the toilets and then just leaving them, not flushing them. I feel like I am being mean if I use the toilet on the pictures, but I go to a large school, we don't have enough restrooms any ways, and our toilets are those kind that flush automatically. It really bothers me to have to see that when I go in there, and it bothers me that I get dragged into someone else's drama and I have to either do something mean or wait even longer for an open stall that just might have someone else's picture in it!
Grrr! Why do people have to be all stupid like that, and how can I be nice when I get caught up someone's drama like that? (link)
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Awh, that's really horrible that people would do something like that. Just keep trying to be nice, like you are being, because obviously you see that what these girls are doing is wrong.
If you have to, you can leave an annonymous tip in a teacher's mailbox at school, so that they know about the problem (if they dont know already). Also, you using the bathroom dosen't really get you into the drama. If it really bothers you that much, dry dropping some toilet paper into the toilet, before you use the bathroom, so that it flushes first.
Just dont worry, you're actually not causing any problems by using the bathroom. It really just sucks to have to worry about something like that. If this hasn't exactly answered what you wanted to know, let me know and I'll try to correct my answer to answer that point of the question. =D
Kat
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Ok...so I'm a girl. I have deeeeo briwn hair, hazel eyes and a alright complextion. The problem is...I see all the pics on hi5, myspace etc and they do those weird facial expressions and it looks so cool and pretty. When i try it...it looks like complete crap. How do they do it.....how does it look soo cool? (link)
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Ha, I've got this problem, too. It all depends on your facial structure. There's nothing wrong with you if you can't do these faces the 'right' way. It's just that those girls faces are structured in a way that makes that look pretty.
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