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Okay tonight i was suposed to go see a movie with my boyfriend and some of his friends. By the way Im 15 and hes 16. The movie was rated R and I told him to get his parents to go ahead and get them in advance. But he didnt take my advice we get there and we buy tickets to another movie. Well then the movie i wanted to see ... they were checking ticket. Now Im pissed because I really wanted to see this movie and Me & my bf were the only 2 who didnt get in. He should have listened to me right??
Should I really be this pissed? (link)
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you shouldn't be too angry, he could have been busy. besides, its just a movie and you can always go see it. you should just be happy to be with your boyfriend and you can go see the R movie with your friends another day
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My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now. I love him to death. I do everything with him and Hes probably my closest bf Ive had.
Latley though (meaning the last 2 months) Ive notice he's been worring NON stop. I mean I have to promise him everything. He'll ask me if i love him and I'll say of course! and he will ask ... are you sure? do you promise? He always has to re ask me over and over if im going to call him that night or make sure plans are to be w/ him and no one else. We have talked about this worrying thing before and He said he would work on it, but its not getting any better.
Soo guys ... why do you worry? Or is it just my boyfriend. I am one of those girls that can work out anything so breaking up w/ him isnt an option. Him knowing that I dont know why he worries soo much. It HAS TO STOP THOUGH. That makes me more frustrated then anything else about him.
Please get some reason that would explain this!
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i think he's going through a low-selfesteem phase. give him space but make him feel like he's actually worth something, or alot for that matter and show him that you mean when you say i love you . say i love you to him first. and show him that he's special to you.
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Hello... I'm a girl of 18 and i'm really confuse... I don't know why no one ask me out.. Everyone says that i'm a pretty girl and would rather want to have my face and figure.. I think i'm pretty and also sexy.. I have 34 25 36 and
guys enjoy staring at me when they see me.. I also always caught my friends staring on my belly or breast.. I have long dark brown hair and sexy lips.. But hey, i dunno why no one asks me out.. Almost all of my friends have their lovelife and i have not, and i'm prettier than them honestly.. Guys love to hang out with me because they think that i'm a cool girl.. Actually i have more boyfriends than girlfriends.. My friends also say that i'm really kind, understanding and i can always make them laugh.. Whenever a friend ask me if i have a boyfriend or a suitor, when i say no, they wouldn't believe it... I really don't understand... I had boyfriends but no serious relationships, they just cheated on me.. I don't know what's wrong with me... And i also don't hear that someone has a crush on me or something. CAn you tell what's going on??? (link)
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if all of this is true about you, then the guys are probably thinking that they aren't good enough for you. bum it once in a while and show that you dont always have to be pretty, but keep it cute. that should get them thinking that they are on the same level as you.
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Ok so there is this guy I really like .. but I can't tell him. I really shoodnt like him, hes always like making fun of me but he says im his best friend. Like and hes really sweet sometimes, which is probly why I like him. I know nothing could ever happen .. but I find myself constantly wanting to talk to him and i leave lots of comments on his myspace. Ive never had a bf, so i think I like him just because i want a bf. How can i chill out .. and not be so obsessed? I wanna be the person he wants to talk to. I want him to start the conversation. Please help (link)
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i've been in your position once before. you don't have an obsession. you really do like him and care for him. but i wouldn't call it love. if he is always making fun of you there's most likely a reason behind it. he either likes you back or just needs a reason to talk to you. don't put yourself down to let him make fun of you more though, if you do this then he will just get worse. find something you have in common and just talk, but always leave him hanging so he will want to come back for more. and he will start the conversation.
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I have a boyfriend who i love with all my heart. Hes everything i want and more!! We've been together long enough to.
Anyway, before him i was in love w/ my bestfriend( a guy) and i might still have feelings for him. Now he has a gf but before when he didn't it was hard to flirt with him.
Hes still my bestfriend but i need to know how i can get away from any feelings i have from him w/o losing him as my closest friend!
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well, there isn't much you can do. but, what i would do is basically ignore any feelings you might have for him because your closeness is probably the basis of your friendship.
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i recently got the verizon saumsung SCH-a850 cell phone with the text messagin plan where it $5 for unlimited. i was wondering if theres anyway to text message someone who doesn't have a verizon phone like if my friend had a cingular phone would i be able to send her a text message? or is there anyway to do that
thanks
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you can text anyone. it doesnt matter what they have.
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can someone tell me how to do my hair like this?
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=10057523&imageID=281432190&Mytoken=139187F3-6EAD-7CEC-F99FA1484C8D6BC842982114
and can i have some cute ideas for hair styles? im so sick of just straightening my hair.. *i rate 5's!* (link)
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you should scrunch your hair, it looks pretty on ANYONE. you could also put it in a low pony tail and flip it through your hair. i'm not sure how you would do your hair like the picture though, probably put it in a half pony tail with a hair tie instead of a hair clip, poof it towards the front and use hair spray and maybe some bobby pins to hold it in place
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does anyone know where i could find straight-leg jeans? for cheap? i rate. (link)
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do you mean boot cut? you can find them ANYWHERE. walmart, kmart (if you REALLY want cheap) or places like target, bonton, etc which are higher up department stores but still cheap for the most part. The Gap has really good straight leg, but they are a little pricey.
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I have a friend that lives in my appartment complex. She's always phoning me and asks if she can borrow one of my DVD's. I always say yes because I own lots and she's pretty good about returning.
Well I just got two movies from my dad, Willy Wonka and The Fog. She asked me already if she could borrow them and I told as soon as I finished watching them.
She just phoned me about a half hour ago and asked if she could borrow one of my movies. I told her sure. When she came over I told her she could watch anything except for those two movies that I hadnt watched yet. Then she got mad and said" well then I guess I won't be borrowing anything because those are the ones I wanted to watch". Then she left!!
I felt angry, like she's just using me to watch my movies. If she was a true friend wouldnt she have at least stayed for a visit to chat?
Am I overreacting or was that down right rude? (link)
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that was definitely rude. she had no right to do that to you when you are always being nice and lending her your movies. if she really wanted to watch it and you hadn't watched it yet, she could spend a few dollars at a local blockbuster.
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i heard somewhere that when you have your period you could lose weight..is that true?? cus that'd be pretty awesome haha =)
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well, at first you weigh alot but once you have it you lose that weight and maybe more with it but then the weight builds back up again and it does it all over again
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Helow.... I'm a 18 year old girl and I live now in the Philippines and I used to live in Holland because my mum married a Dutch man and he brought us there.. After few months there, I made lots of nice friends.. I didn't have homesick anymore because people there are always nice to me.. I really enjoyed my life there.. But my father thought that we should go back in the Philippines.. But he stayed there because of his work.. My problem is ... I wanna go back in Holland.. I miss my friends, and I really enjoyed my 1 year and 3 months of staying there.. I convinced my dad to go back there, also my sister convinced him but he doesn't want to because of financial problem (he said), but we don't ask money to him.. we don't spend much money, we're contented on allowance that he used to give to us, besides we're only four in the house.. So i don't think that it's the problem.. and besides he's not a poor guy.., he's just afraid to lose his money i think.. Please help me, how would i convince him to go back in Holland? (link)
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i think you should talk to your mom about it. if she married him she probably knows him better than you do and can convince him
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Everytime I get on aim and I have an away message up it doesn't show up. Like my boyfriend IMed me at one in the morning and he was like are you still up? and my away message wasnt in my profile and when i got it this morning under his message it said:: Error received from server [BustedSnacPayload]. Possibly resulting from an invitation containing too much text
my away message was the defalt one. but i signed off and it doesnt do that but you still cant see my away message. WHATS WRONG? (link)
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i would uninstall the aim you have and reinstall the latest version and the problem should go away
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My boyfriend and I were fooling around, we never had sex and my hymen isn't broken. Things got a little carried away and we were rubbing our "private" parts together, but my stuff never touched the top of his. Is there any way I'm pregnant? I've been freaking out because my period is late, but I am so irregular that I normally miss a few months anyway. I'm just worried, so any input would be great. (link)
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its shouldn't be anything to worry about but if it bothers you that much you should take a pregnancy test
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Ive been having a real problem latley. The last week I have gotten NO sleep. Its not that i stay up late or anything. I usually get ready for bed (meaning off the phone) at like 11. Then I'll just sit there for 3 hrs. Ive taken PMs but it still doesnt help. Someone PLEASE what can i do to get to sleep!! Its leaving me w/ migrains in the morning! (link)
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are you stressed? if something is bothering me, i know i can't sleep. but maybe you need to see the doctor if its that bad. try madd sleeping pills . or get a new matress
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My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for about 5 months now. We used to be very sexually active, but then decided to stop because of the possible trouble we could get into. Ever since then it's kind of been boring for us. The last thing I want is for him to loose interest in me. Does anyone have any fun things that me and him can go out and do? BTW: My parents aren't really cool with 'alone one on one dates', which makes it twenty times harder. If you have anything we can do at his or my house that'd be great.
Thank You. (link)
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you should go bowling or to the movies. you might have to lie to your parents, but isn't that what teens are suposed to do? just don't get caught and make the most of your time together.
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Sheesh...It's just been a romantic emotional roller coster for me! A guy I am completely smitten with unintentionally broke my heart by going after another girl...it didn't work out so well. It's been about 3 or 4 weeks since then. I think *Maybe* he likes me now? I dunno...Maybe he just see's me as a good friend...he is allways near me the most at get togethers, or in class, he allways sits next to me. I am perfectly aware that he may just be comfortable around me in a way that doesn't go any further than friendship...but I dunno...I went and saw a movie with him not too long ago...when we went to say goodbye, I hugged him, and he held onto me for longer than I expected...then he pulled back a little, but kept one of his arms wrapped all the way around my waist...he held me pretty close to his face and kinda looked into my eyes...heh...maybe I shoulda kissed him? I dunno. If he IS interested in me now for some reason, I'm afraid he may be confused or just not thinking straight because of his recent failed attempt at a relationship...Well, I should tell any readers now that I am going to make damn sure that if he asks me out, that he's really ready for it, and I'm going to make sure he isn't just trying to make this other girl jealous...(BTW, this girl he liked wasn't there with us when we went to the movies...)
So, tell me what you think...in the meantime, I'm just crossing my fingers...
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you should talk to him, and i bet you've heard that a million times. but its the best thing to do. he may be confused but if he did that at the movies then it means he's either a really big flirt, or he wants to take it to the next level.
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ok before i start i am 13/m
see there is this girl i like and we flirt alot but somtimes she stops talking to me and then all of a sudden she is talking non stop. Should i ask her out or should i just avoid her or should we just be friends. and what does it mean when she stops talking for days at a time (just stops talking to me)
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i think she likes you but it trying not to make it obvious. she might just be waiting for you to talk to her instead of her talking to you. it has to be mutual and she's probably just waiting for you to get the hint. i would flirt with her and see if she says anything that would definitely give you the idea that she likes you. then go for the commitment and see what happens. the worst thing she can say is no, i just want to be friends. and maybe you can stick with just a friends-with-benefits type of relationship
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allright im a 13/f
my best friend is a 13/m and... he drinks but i never seen him drink but i was talkin on aim and he seemed like he was drunk the way he was talkin. but i want to know if he really does get drunk or if he was just tryin to impress me or what! see he said to me "why dont you come to my house and get drunk on friday" i was very upset! :( i NEED advice on this
please help me! (cry)! (link)
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talk to him about it, or take him up on hanging out and see if anything happens. you'll find out the truth and you can go from there
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I just got out of a relationship w/ a guy that I didn't talk to much before we started dating. He was a fun guy and I asked him to a dance and we got closer from there. Well, we broke up over a month ago, and he hasn't said anything to me at all really. He's smiled at me, but it's rare. I do want to keep a friendship with him even though he broke up with me. Should I talk to him first, or should I be patient and let it come...or tell him I miss talking to him? What would you do? (link)
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personally i would talk to him. if he's as nice as you say then he should understand
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I don't mean to sound stuck up but people tell me all the time that I'm girl of every guys dreams and every girl wants to be. The thing is that it is kind of a bad thing sometimes. Because people won't give me a chance. They think because of my popularity status and my looks that I am mean and stuck up but I'm really not. I always try to speak to everyone. Whether you are popular, average, or not very social I still go out my way to speak. I do a lot of other things but I don't want to take up to much of you all's time.Anyways a lot of girls don't like me. And some of the guys don't even try to speak to me because they think they don't have a chance with me. I want to know how can I get people to understand that I'm a normal person like everyone else. (link)
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talk to them more. the more you talk, and share about your life the more friends you will make. people will start to realize that you aren't like what they think and you will get to become a person you feel more confortable being
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