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My names Jenny and I'm a 16 year old girl, oviously. I'll help you with anything you ask, so ask away. But if your gonna ask a dumb question, you'll get a dumb answer. And try not to start shit. This site is for helping people, not a way to bitch at people beacause your board and have nothing better to do. I know most about sex ;), Buddy4u Profiles, Xanga's, Html, Mental help..Like cutting, depression, and suicide, and love life. I will try as hard as I can to help you, and give you my honest awnser, weather it may upset you or not.













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ok @ school like everybody wheres makeup and stuff and i want to too. not just because everybody is wearing it but because i feel ugly. but i dont know anythin about it!!! so can you tell me whats the best kind of like foundation or powder?! what is pressed powder?! and dosent makeup wash off in the rain?! thank you so much and i rate really good if that matters to you! thanks.

Hey well first off I'd recomend cover girl foundation. It comes in a liquid bottle. Then after that you use a powder so that it doesnt look liquidy. It looks really natural so your friends probalby wont notice that. Then you could get any kind of clear mascara. Cover girl sells that too and mostly any brand it doenst really matter. That way you cant tell that much but it does make a difference. And using a little clear lip gloss would be good too. For eyeliner if your hair is blonde you should use a brown and if a darker color then black. This is just what i'd recomend! lol but it will look good. And u dont have to worry about the fountation washing away in the rain cuz i once went swimming and just a little bit came off. Only dark mascara and eyeliner will run. I hope i helped. Feel free to ask more. Lol and i dont think sqauts make ur but bigger...buh bye

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my face is perfectly clear of pimples and i hardly ever break out on my face, and i always wash my whole body everyday... but for some reason my back breaks out all the time! and right now its horrible and disgusting! how can i get rid of this? and quick. i rate all that helps

Okay well if you use conditinor on your hair make sure to wash your back after using it bcuz the conditinar makes your back greesy and cause`s pimples. Hope I helped ya. Buh bye

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Hey there. Well, I started birth control last Sunday. I haven't even been on it for a complete week. Well, my boyfriend and me had sex, and I read in this little book I have about the birth control I'm taking, and it says it takes a month for birth control to become effective. I really worried now. Is there a chance I could get pregnant? I mean, does it actually take a month, or do they mean, the first time you take it, it's effective?

Yup it takes over a month for it to work. If you didnt use a condom when you had sex you could be pregnet bcuz the birth control didnt start working yet. Good luck. - Jenny

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Well My boyfriend and I have gone out for about a month now and since i live in a different town ive never really met his friends until recently. Usually he is very sweet and all. But both times Ive hung out with him and his friends he acted like the biggest jerk!!! I couldnt believe him. He basically didn't look at me the whole night. It really frustrated me. Kelly you seem like a smart girl what would you do in my shoes?

Hey! I'm not kelly but I know that guys do that a lot!! I would talk to him about it and tell him you feel like he acts mean around his friends to you. If he keeps on acting mean you should dump him. If this guy really likes you he will understand and stop. I think some guys act like that because they are embarssed of their girl friend or want to be cool infront of their friends. So just talk it out with him, that would probably be the best thing to do. Good luck! - Jenny

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ok i have been rated 8 times ( i just started today haha) ne*way on the front of my page it says "rated: 5 times" not 8...hmm do u kno why?? u can see for urself haha http://advicenators.com/column.php?u=Xo_ShErRy_Ox

just wondering, thanks and i'll rate!:)

Well the website is kina slow lol so It will take a couple hours to change. Thats happened to me too. But Just wait a while and It will change. - x0x Jenny x0x

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wat types of things that guys do are concidered cute or sweet by girls?

Playing with a girls hair thats both cute and sweet.

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Hey.. I need some advice about break ups. I had been dating this guy for a while until he decided to break up with me for the summer. That caused a lot of drama and bruised the relationship. We've been acting like we are going out all summer but things have just gotten worse. I finally called him last night and I told him he had to decide either he wanted me or he didn't want me. I told him I was tired of how he calls me and such when it's convienant for him. And how he expects me to just act like we are going out. And he decided and siad let's just be friends. I told him it just doesn't work that way. It hurts way too much to be friends maybe later down the road... I didn't think it'd hurt but it does. I know I am going to be okay and I will move on and stuff but I don't know how to cope with it. I don't know what to do to keep my mind at ease and help me get over it besides time.. Do you know of anything that could help me cope with this and take my mind off of it? I am known to take months to over guys cause I don't know quite what to do. Thanks bunches :)

Damn you really do need to forget about this guy. You should hang out with your girls and just talk about how you feel. Write about your feelings too. It sounds gay but it reallly helps! You could also try and look for other guys and I'm sure when you find another one and see how much better he treats you you'll tottaly forget about him. But i woudl wait awhile to get another one. Dont worry, It mite b hard, but you'll get over him. Good luck!! xox Jenny

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okay i really need help on this...me n mah boyfriend have been together for a year n 3 months since sunday...but it seems like all we do is fight...but i know deep down in my heart we r meant to be....but we fight over the most dumbest things...like tonight...we was at the fair n i didnt wanna ride this one ride...n he got all pist n shit...n we fought n like always..he ended up cryin n i told him i was tired of fightin wit him n that things was gonna havet to change n he asked me if i was gonna break up wif him..n i said no...of course...cuz i love him way to much...but sometimes i feel like i should just to see what else is out there...but i cant bring myself to it...its like god is tellin me not to...like we r meant to be and just stick wit it..and also he claims that he dont know why he acts the way he does...(in yellin and cryin all the time bout stupid shit)...and i dont know what to do or what to believe or anythin else...someone plz help me!

Chances are there are better guys out there that wont yell at you and you wont have this problem with. If him yelling and crying and fighing with you is a big problem and your not happy with the relationship bcuz it seems like thats all you do, then it is not worth it. I would have a big talk with him about why he gets so mad. That is a really stupid reason for him to get mad at you. Just bcuz you wouldnt go on a ride? wtf? Find out why he got so mad about that. If you arent happy with him, you arent ment to be. You might feel like you really love him bcuz you he was either your first kiss or you lost your virginity to him, ect. But i know for a fact there are other guys who wont yell at you, and you would probably be happier with. GOOD LUCk! I hope i helped! xox Jenny

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everyone says how ther bf does this blah blah and when ther upset he drives over to see t hem and just is perfect...i havent found a guylike that and thats all i want i want to find sum 1 who i can go to w/ no make up , hair a mess and hell still love me bc he loves me for me not looks/body...i wish i found a guy like that...im pretty and ive had alot of bfs but theyve either cheated on me, can never see me or just rnt very close tome like theyll call but wont b very sweet...i want a sweet guy who will love me ive nvr had ne 1 says he loves me and mean it..im startin h.s this yr....how old wer u when u furst had ur furst love?? how did u meet him?? =\

Its very hard to find a guy like that. I dont think you friends could have that alreay, and if they do their very lucky or their bf is just using them. Between the ages of 13-18 guys, i beleive, are not really into deep relation ships like that. It takes time for them to mature and really love a girl. Girls though are more mature and can handle a relationship like that. You will find your guy eventualy. It could take some time. And the best way to look for one is to experiment with guys. Get a bf and soon you will find one that really cares for you. I was 15 when i fell in love. But I was lucky. You never really know when your inlove. It seems like with every guy..they just get better and better. Well good luck! I hope i helped. Dont worry about finding a guy..you'll get one who cares about you and loves you when you met the right person. That takes a lot of looking around and getting to kno somone. xoxox

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Well I have a friend named skip that lives in the apartment next door to my friend kathys. I used to go to kathys place about every other day. So I would always see skip and hang out with him. He was really nice and fun, and so I had a crush on him. But, I really didn’t wanna go out with him, so I just wanted to be his friend. (When he found out I liked him, he developed a crush on me, lol)

Well I flunked the 8th grade so I had to go to summer school this summer. So did skip. Skip sat next to me in both classes. After a while he would ALWAYS be touching me, poking me, grabbing me, bitting me, sloppering on me, trying to hold my hand, constantly talking to me while the teacher was talking, spitting all over my pencils, and putting his effing hand in front of my book while I was reading. All of those things were a real turn off, so I stopped liking him. I’d always tell him to quit messing with me and stuff, and he just wouldn’t do it. So I would get REALLY pissed off at him, then he’d be all mad at me cause I was mad at him. He felt like he wasn’t doing anything wrong. Bullshit. So he’d be all upset which made me feel bad and all depressed and stuff. I didn’t even like him as a friend anymore at one point… he made me sooooo angry all the time, I just hated him.

Now that summer school is over and stuff, we don’t really get a chance to see eachother anymore. And I still want to be his friend.. but im kind of debating between that. I mean I wanna be his friend, but just all the stuff that he did and how angry he made me are stuck in the back of my mind, and get me really pissed.

So, my question is should I still be his friend considering how angry he makes and has made me?

Thanks..

Well I think you should talk to him about this..Tell skip that you dont have a crush on him and you just want to be friends. Tell him that you dont like it when he trys to flirt with you and you get mad at him for doing that. If he understands then you should be friends but if he continues to keep touching you I woudlnt. Good luck! -Jenny

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does anyone on here have a shar-pei? if so, does yours smell really bad? mine does and i was wondering if its just the breed, like odor gets up under the wrinkles or something, or if its just rolling around in something really nasty

Lol I every shar-pei smells really bad. Its just because of the chemicals in the pen that makes is smell like that.

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I just recently got an advicenator column n i don't kno how ta get my advice column into my AIM profile!! help! lol i kno this is pretty lame but w/e idc i want it in my profile n the only person who i know knows how ta do it is away!!

Go to your advice column and copy its adress. Then go into your profile and click on link. On the first line put in the adress, and on the seconed type what you would like it to say. For ex. "Ask me for advice" Hope I helped! -Jenny

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Ok, there's this guy that likes me. And he's the nicest person you would ever meet. He's so content with who he is. And i love that, and everything about him. But he's bisexual and it kinda creeps me out. I mean, im not homophobic and i love bisexuals and guy people. But i've never gone out with one, and i just think its kinda weird. Like i would kiss him, and realize that he's kissed boys before and stuff. I don't know. Is it bad that i don't wanna go out with him just cuz he's bi?

No its not bad at all. It would feel weird for a lot of people to go out with somone who is bi, and think about the things they have done with other guys. I would feel kina grossed out kissing him then thinking that he could have been giving some guy head lol. Good luck! -Jenny

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Ok, I know that this is a really dumb question, but I'm gonna ask anyways.

I went out with this guy for about 5 months. We broke up for a while (about 6 months), and now we are back together.

While we were broken up, I hooked up with a friend's friend from out of town. My boyfriend doesn't know him, and there is an outside chance that they will one day meet, but I'm not all that worried about that.

For some reason which I can't explain even to myself, I feel as if I should tell my boyfriend. I don't feel guilty about the hookup, because, well, we were apart. I guess I just feel that he should know. But I don't want to mess anything up in between us.

So... to tell or not to tell... that is the question? (Sorry for the cliche, I couldn't resist.)

Hey I think you should tell him. It will be off your back and you wont feel like your hiding somthing from him. You were apart so you didnt do anything wrong. But I would just tell him to get it off your back. Good luck!

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Are there any sites where i can get custom templates for my column?

xoxo thanks, Manda

No Sry there isnt. Theres only different layouts you can choose from. Theres also backrounds you can use to make it look betta too

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Has anyone in here ever tried smoking pot and their not a complete pt head? I want to try it cause it looks and sounds fun.. but I don't want to become a pot-head. I just want to know what its like ur first time.

I want to be able to smoke with my boyfriend.. and not like caugh and stuff.. but not like have to rely on pot to have fun.

Can anyone tell me what its like to try it for the first time??

For the first time you dont really get high at all. You get a tiny buzz but its nothing big. When you try it for the 2nd and 3d times then you can feel it.

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I really want to be popular. Not popular as in "hello, im stuck up and im better than everybody." I wanna be popular as in BE FRIENDS WITH EVERYONE! i dont know how to start a conversation with strangers. any suggestions on how i can achieve this?

You can try and compliment people to start off a conversation. Say somthing like "Hey I love your shit, I was going to get that, did you get it from AE?" Then you'll start talking about it and get into more of a convertsation. Hope that helped. -Jenny

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When I get period on my underwear, I try to rinse it out in the sink as soon as possible. My question is this-- should I use hot water to rinse it or cold? I've heard both opinios for the following reasons:

*You should use hot water because it will rinse it out better.
*You should use cold water because hot water will cause it to set and then it will be stained. So I guess my question is, is this true?

Cold water!

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I just started giving advice TODAY. And already I've given like tons of advice! Am I addicted? Lol! xDD

Lol no you just like helping ppl i guess. I do the same thing.

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Ok I dont know how to get my buddy profile with picuters on it...iv seen sum really cool ones but mine is plain. can sumone help me???

Im me on t0xiictearz666 and ill help u with that niga

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