~ihave a serious problem...my frien cuts herself horribly cuz she thinks her life sux. last time i saw her she had 5 cuts on her arm. They were so deep. 3 of them she blamed on her cat. I have a cat and it dosent scratch perfect distances away. they were like 2 inches long. I asked her y she does it and she says cuz her life sux. i said y does it sux? she said one reason is cuz her grampa has cancer. she admitted to 2 of them and she woodnt tell me wat she used.
~i cut myself cuz every since i was born i have lived in9different houses. also my biological dad abused my mom and i havent seen him since i was 1 and a half. i had a step dad but hes gone now. he has to go to counsilin cuz he had theartened to hit me 2 times. although he never did it scared me teribbly. one day my mom had told me if i heard screamin to dial 911. i did hear screamin and i let it go 4 bout 5 min. Then i called. jus as the cops walked in my step dad was pushin down my mom. he went to jail but go out. then my mom was in the hospital. i came home and i didnt kno where she was. some how i found out. i dont member. she had mal-noutrition and double namonia(sp). she cood of died and i was only 11/12 at the time. and if she did i didnt kno where i woodve gone. my biological father owes me over 60,000 dollars in child support.
~ do u have ne kinda idea of a way i cood kinda train myself to stop cuttin? PLZ HELP ME AND MY FRIEN!!!
I soo sorry to hear all about that. put fitted rubber bands around your wrist (not to tite but not falling off either) and evertime you feel the need to cut just pull one of them and let go so it pops your wrist. I hope everything gets better though.
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Sharpie marker- her favorite color black
Placing it on her wrist
She drew a dotted line
And a heart for good measure
The empty heart that stained her skin
Looked vacant next to the scattered stripe
She didn’t have a knife..
So the razor blade would suffice
And on the dotted line she sliced
wow! that's deep. nice work though.
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ok...me and my friends have been doin pot since we were like 11 and now im 14 and i cant stop. i was sick for three months, then i went to rehad for 7months and it sucked. now its been about 5 months since i was in rehab and i think im addicted to it again. i dont wanna go back to rehab bcuz that place sucks. ive tried everything i can and i just cant stop. i know that this seems like a serious problem to be puttin on a random site but my girlfriend said that i gotta do sumthin. my names gordon and my s/n for aim is a2020zipdrive. so if u got ne suggestions, let em loose baby. thanx!!
Just hang out with a different crowd for a little while until your drive for pot goes away. Don't put yourself in situations where you know your going to be doing it at. Stay away from the people your getting it from. Just don't put yourself in situations where you know that ppl are going to be smoking it and you are to. Think about Yourself and how you don't wanna go back to rehab and think about your girlfriend try to respect her wishes. Pot will ruin your life and it's best if you can go ahead and get off of it now.
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I have medium-long super straight blonde hair. i was going to go super hippie and grow it out to my butt, but lately i have been wanting to cut it really short.. any opinions?
cut it to about shoulder length and get it in layers
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Hey! my hair use to be really healthy..i use die it and i strighten it.. do u no of ne hair product to give my life back to my hair...~XOXO~
Do some hot oil treatments and condition it evertime you wash it and try to dry and straiting and curl as little as possible. You'll see a difference then you can start doing the stuff you used to do to it. Alos your chemical treatmeants might have given you dead ends..go and get a slight hair cut.
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there is this girl whos is really really really nice but some of my friends make fun of her b/c she can't afford new clothes i want to make her have really cool clothes but the problem is i don't have any money to get her new clothes how can i make her look stylish w/ out usin alot of money??
Look on like the clearance racks and stuff. And tel your mom your problem maybe she'll be able to pitch in a few dollars. Also if you have ribbon, a pair of sisors, a sewing machine, rinestones, and fabric glue..then you can just use your imagination on clothes she's already got and come up with some really cute stuff. I know you'll be able to figure something out..you seem like a really great friend to want to help her out like that!
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my hair is wavy--not straight and i usually straighten it--i wanted to try to make it really curly so i tried scrunching moose...gel..hairspray curling shampoo and other stuff nothing will work plz help me!
Get a body wave in it then put moose in it while it's wet and scrunch is the whole time your drying it with a hair dryer.
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ok well my hair isnt curly but its wavy and frizzy and juss like i hate it...i straighten it with a straightener and ive tryed like 3 diff kinds...and they get it soo silky but it never stays straight and the ends curled in and it juss pised me off...so i started ironing it...it works gr8 (yea a clothes iron on an ironing board)...it stays straight all day and is pretty straight when i wake up!! after i shower it gets ugly again and its jsus a hassle ironging and straightening ur hair eryday!! wat can i do?? r ther ne like straighting conditioner/shampoo that will help? ne good straighteners...i really dont wanna iron it it kills it!! HELP
First: Put a chemical straitiner in it.
After that on normal days: Wash and condition with stait hair shampoo. Then put some friz control stuff or a lil baby oil (key word LITTLE), then dry it as strait as you can then use your straightener. When your using your straightener pull it with you hair down not to the side or up but down.
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ok so I just got my hair cut and I have bangs now. But I dont like how they look with all my hair down w/o anything else... it just looks boring ya know??? ok well I was thinking of buying a bunch of headbands but I know theyre expensive so I was wondering if anyone knew some tips on MAKING their own? Cuz thats what I'm doing today!!! plz help
Cut the arms of t-shirts and just bunch it together, or cut it for the right amount of width. You can use ribbon also.
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Please help me i have really curly hair and i want it staright and every prodic i try it doesnt work Is there anything i can use???
HELP ME
First: Put a chemical straitiner in it.
After that on normal days: Wash and condition with stait hair shampoo. Then put some friz control stuff or a lil baby oil (key word LITTLE), then dry it as strait as you can then use your straightener. When your using your straightener pull it with you hair down not to the side or up but down.
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HI,
MY MOM JUST RECENTLY LOST HER DAD AND WITHIN 4 YEARS SHE LOST TWO BROTHERS. NOW, SHE WAKES UP AT 11:00 AND THEN GOES BACK TO BED AROUND 1:00. TO ME IT SEEMS LIKE SHE IS ALWAYS SLEEPING. AND I WANT TO DO MORE THINGS WITH HER. CAN YOU HELP ME? PLEASE SUGGEST SOME THINGS I CAN DO TO HELP HER!
SIGNED,
**NEEDS HELP**
Well give her a little while longer she'll evntually come back around. Looseing someone it painful and she's lost 3 ppl. But her pain will ease up some. Just do what you can for her while she's feeling sorrowful. Then when you see her starting to act like her old sef be like 'hey mom would you like to go to lunch today?'
I hope everything get's better for yall.
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Hi my name is Jessica im 12 im going out with this boy that i like but i dont feel that i want to go out with him right nowthe problem is that ive dumped him 3 times twice for i liked sum 1 else and once for i thought he liked another girlso now if i dump him again i bet he'll never go back out with me agai what should i do!!!!!!!!?????????????
Well I think if you feel like you need to break up with him then just do it and don't worry about 'he might not even go out with me again'. If you really love something let it go and if it comes back it's yours and that's how you know it's for sure.
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I've always strived for straight hair.. but it never seems to stay straightened.. when ever i flat iron it.. it always goes back to its natural fall.. and when ever i blow dry it straight.. its all poofy.. and i can't get rid of it.. any suggestions on how to get my hair to stay straightened?
First: Put a chemical straitiner in it.
After that on normal days: Wash and condition with stait hair shampoo. Then put some friz control stuff or a lil baby oil (key word LITTLE), then dry it as strait as you can then use your straightener. When your using your straightener pull it with you hair down not to the side or up but down.
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my friend is upsessed with my cousin and im like really upsessed with her families friends son. and she gos to his bcuz her cousins best friends with him and he goes ova hers, wen i go to my cousins i always ask if she wants to come, she always brags a bout like noing him and the whole house thing,and i never brag about my cuz..sooo
SiGnEd--WUT SHOULD I DO IT BOTHERS ME??
Just try to ignore it. If it really bothers you that bad then quit inviting her to your cousins house and don't tell her when you go over there.
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What are some things you can do while kissing someone...like to spice things up?
Rub and grab on um in certain areas. If your a girl then arch your back some.
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Okay I don't really know what it is...but I have a discharge in my vagina sometimes...is that what it is? and if so is it bad? and how do I get it to go away?
That's not a yeast infection. That's gonna happen regularly. It's normal and it's not harmful to you at all. You can make it go away though :/
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My boyfriend has smoked cigarettes and gotten drunk just a few times. I hate it SO much! He's only 15 almost 16 years old, why in the hell does he need to smoke? It makes me mad but his friends tell me to get his nipple out of my mouth (referring that I'm a baby) and that he is old enough to do what he wants and its not bad... I'm just looking out for the love of my life! Do you really think I'm acting like an overprotective mom?
Your not being overprotective. Your just telling him how you feel and he should respect that and if he's not then that means that he doesn't respect you. I would try talking to him one on one and telling him why you feel the way you do and maybe make some agreement that he can like do it everynow and then or something like that. And tell him that you would really apprtiate it if he respected your wishs even just a little, just to know that he cares.
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I had sex for the first time last night and I didnt bleed at all. Doesnt every girl bleed? That kinda makes me wonder.. Also, we didnt do it very long or hard so I think thats why? Just making sure Im not strange or messed up..
Well in rare cases you can pop your cherry with a tompond. I didn't bleed my first time so maybe that's what happened. Or it could be that it wasn't hard enough to pop it. But no your not strange or messed up.
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I have a yeast infection and I'm okay with it because I've had one before. The only thing that worries me is that I had sex for the very first time last weekend and I'm scared that it happened from that. I'm very sensitive "down there" and if every time I have sex, its gunna happen then thats not a good thing. Can you get a yeast infection from sex or an STD?!?!
No yeast infections do not come from STDs or from have sex. Your jusr a lil paraniod because it was your first time having sex. But no don't worry sweetie it's not from that.
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hey, i went out with this girl for all of my freshman year, and last year we broke up, and ive dated other people since then, but now things are heating back up with my ex, and i need to know the difference between her just trying to be nice, and flirting with me again....any help?
Well if you still like her and you really think she likes you then I would go for it. You can tell if sh'e sbeing fake or not by watching the little things that she does.
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