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are the underneath of black guys penis' white or black? b/c their palms are white .. so is the area underneath the balls and the penis white?
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ummmmm.. haha idk, i've never seen a black guys penis before. i think it's probably black though :/


heyy i was wondering where are some good places to buy bathing suits? like takinis? (link)
splash!! or walmart/target has cute ones too lol :) but splash always has realllly cute bathing suits *bc its a bathing suit store* or bealls.. but idk if thats a florida store or not? lol sry.. but try those!! :)


Hey Chelsea, it's Lauren :)
I'm gonna try to make this as short as ossible.. As you might know (or might not, depending on if you've read my LJ lately), Kyle and I have been having a lot of problems. I really think he has trust issues, because he constantly asks me if "I found someone else". I got sick of it, and the other night I was like "No, I haven't...would you like me to?" and he flipped out and responded with "I'm just gonna go kill myself or something." Now he's blaming it on anti-depressants, but I really don't think that's it...aren't they supposed to HELP you? Also, since he lives in a different part of the state, that's close to three hours away, we don't see each other too much. Anymore, we don't ever get to see each other because my dad pretty much won't allow it (even though I'm 18 and I think I should make my own decisions). This weekend is Kyle's graduation party and I promised him months ago that I would be there...and now the night before I'm supposed to go, my dad tells me that if I go, I won't have a place to stay when I come back. I don't want to break my promise, but it's pretty important for me to have a place to live as well. Kyle offered to let me stay with him and his family, but I haven't even met his family yet... Chelsea I'm just so confused... I don't even know if this made sense... what should I do? (link)
awww first of all i'm so sorry!! i know what it's like to have parents that hate your bf so much they threaten to kick you out. :( hmm... as for your boyfriend blaming it on anti-depressants.. that's a little odd bc they ARE supposed to HELP you. but sometimes they have side effects that make you go a lil crazy i guess.. but its pretty unusual i think? =/ but as for your dad.. he's being a little ridiculous about it. my dad's the same way, he hates every boyfriend i ever had even if they're like a son to him. i guess daddy's are just over protective of their little girls and don't want them to grow up. but just sit him down and talk to him and tell him you're an adult now, you love your boyfriend very much and it's important that you go to his graduation party. tell him you think you're responsible enough to go & you think you should be allowed to go... just sit down and talk with him about it. like what i always do with my daddy when he brings up the whole boyfriend thing is like "what if you and mom were away from eachother for 2 weeks, you'd wanna see her right? well it's the same thing with me and my boyfriend.. we miss eachother." and he usually understands... maybe try that. tell him how if he was away from your mom (or his gf or whatever, idk lol) for a while or they lived far apart he'd wanna see her as much as possible and maybe he'll understand a little bit better how you feel about the situation with Kyle. i dunno how your dad is about those things but hopefully it'll help a little bit


heyy..i was wondering whats a good way to loose weight? like 10-15 pounds maybe? HELLP. (link)
like i told the other person...
just dont drink soda a lot, and if ur GOING to drink soda limit urself to 1 a day at the MOST 2 but try not to drink too many. and make sure u eat breakfast (its the most important meal of the day) just have some fruit or something and a glass of orange juice, and for lunch eat something healthy... not a bunch of fatty foods, and then for dinner eat a healthy, well balanced meal (meat & vegetables at least), alyways try to have at least one vegetable with ur dinner! and if ur gonna snack during the day eat like rice cakes or something and lay off of the chips and cookies, etc.

and the best thing i can tell u is RUN!! running is so good for you and helps u stay in great shape! :)



and if anything.. if you dont feel like going and actually EXCERSIZING like technically.. get up and dance or run around or ride bikes with ur friends, or even jump on the trampoline... just run around and stay active and do stuff and try not to sit in front of the tv or computer all day, it really helps!! plus when u do that u sweat.. and that helps u lose weight too. i know its gross but sweating is good for you!!

goodluck :)


when im around guys i get rele uncomfortable..and everyone calls me a prude because i dont do stuff or w/e/... what should i do? (link)
just try to be urself!! some people are just shy.. its not necessarily a bad thing, some people might think it is... but its really not! just take ur time and start opening up or doing stuff when UR ready.. not when other people WANT u to be ready!! :)


Just wondering...

What's a good software program to use to learn Spanish. I have Windows 2000 and Linux so nothing Mac! Thanks in advance for suggestions! (link)
buy a spanish/english dictionary!!

or since comp. programs suck for learning other languages, go to www.freetranslations.com and type in what you want to learn how to say then change it to english to spanish (or whatever language you want basically) and it'll tell you! you can figure out how to pronounce it on your own... or you can have a human translation (you hafta pay for that though!!)


Does Anyone know any good, free chat rooms to go to to meet people around the teen age? (link)
www.teenchat.com


Has anyone seen (or written) a tutorial about making these? I'd really like to do them but I don't understand how they work. What makes them so detailed while being so tiny? Do they just make a regular graphic and then zoom in? I don't think that would work.

Thanks. :) (link)
pixel graphics aren't that hard. you just take a blank image and zoom in (in regular ms paint you would zoom in 8x) then click on the pencil tool and start drawing. *every dot you make is one pixel* theyre not hard at all... when you first start they can be kinda complicated but once you get used to it its really fun and easy!! :)


if you do finger yourself how does the doctor tell if he can whether your a guy or girl
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he cant tell unless uve had sex... and guys dont finger themselves.


WHY THE HELL IS EVERYBUDDY OUTTA SKOOL XCEPT ME?????????????!!!!! (link)
bc indiana is gay.

=O


ok well i think i'm fat, but my friends say i'm not really. sum boyz tell me i'm kinda fat too, and i just don't kno. i'm pretty strong (prolly 1 of da strongest in the grade) and i just dunno if i'm fat or not. i think i don't look too good in a bathing suit and well.. i just dunno. i'm 12 (almost 13) and i weigh about 97. and i'm only 4'10". i mite weigh less. well and is that fat? and i'm just wondering.. how do i lose weight without losing my muscle and without going aneroxic or bulmic. help!! (link)
NO!! you are not fat! dont listen to whoever calls u fat... ur not at all!! if you arent happy with ur weight though and you REALLY wanna lose a few extra pounds... just dont drink soda a lot, and if ur GOING to drink soda limit urself to 1 a day at the MOST 2 but try not to drink too many. and make sure u eat breakfast (its the most important meal of the day) just have some fruit or something and a glass of orange juice, and for lunch eat something healthy... not a bunch of fatty foods, and then for dinner eat a healthy, well balanced meal (meat & vegetables at least), alyways try to have at least one vegetable with ur dinner! and if ur gonna snack during the day eat like rice cakes or something and lay off of the chips and cookies, etc.

and the best thing i can tell u is RUN!! running is so good for you and helps u stay in great shape! :)

but dont think ur fat bc ur not at all!!


in wut there vaginas look like and how far they are. (link)
umm.. i dunno really how to describe the inside of a vagina? lol and no its not lesbian though... every girl gets curious at some point in their life!! its normal dont worry bout it!


I'm in sixth grade (almost seventh) and out of my 7 best friends 5 have their periods. Am I growing late? I've also been intrested in what they look like kinda. Is that lesbian? (link)
no its not late!! some girls dont even get it till they're 16... dont worry about it yet! i dont quite get the other part tho.. uve been interested in what WHAT looks like? periods? lol... write me back and ill answer u!!


Damn i meant to say no I didnt take that offensively ...not u lol (link)
:) lol


Hey i posted the comment sayin that all hometown pages dont suck lol ... no u didnt take that offensively ... what'd u think of mine? my SN is Sonuliciousss Hollah (link)
i like urs!! its really cute lol


ok, i like this guy named alec and i went out with him earliar this year (like the beginning on sixth) and i like him a lot and i think i'm gonna ask him out the last day of skool (2.5 dayz), but 1 of my frens said she asked him if he liked me and he just said as a frend but me and him alwayz kinda flirt!! i think he mite like me, but i just dunno.. i'm pretty sure i'll ask him but i just want ur opinion. shuld i??
i'm a girl, age 12 (almost 13)
hey chels, it's chloe. (link)
chloe!! yea if u really like him that much.. i think u should ask him out, MAYBE. depends if ur gonna be able to see him over the summer or not? if ur not gonna see him a lot then i dunno... i dont think it'd be a good idea, but if u KNOW u can see him then yea go for it!! :) goodluck and u know u can IM me if u need help with anything gurl!


I'm on my period and have really awful cramps. What's the best drug to take? Aspirin? Tylenol? I'm tempted to just take them all. (link)
pamprin


Ok, in health class, eighth grade, we have to learn a lot about the human body and what is good and what is not so good food to eat and stuff like that. Well, anyways, we were talking and there is this one pregnant girl in class, I asked her how she got pregnant and she laughed and said, "ask Joe" That was about a week ago, but I am scared to ask my health teacher because it seems as if everyone knows but, how do you get pregnant and is it true that when you have a baby it comes out as an egg then hatches?
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um... humans don't lay/hatch eggs sweetie, sorry to burst ur bubble.

its really not that complicated.
a boy sticks his penis into a girls vagina (without a condom), they have sex, the boy cums in the girl, the sperm from his penis goes into the girls vagina and fertilizes an egg. the egg travels through the felopian tube into the fetus and is attached to the mothers body through the umbelical cord (which turns into your belly button) and it grows inside a womans stomach for 9 months, then BAM! you push the baby out of your vagina.


simple... well not really but a lottt different than laying an egg and hatching it. who told you that?


HAVE ANY OF U PPL HAD THEIR PERIOD????????? WUT DOES IT FEEL LIKE??????? DOES IT HURT!!!!!!??????? TELL ME I NEED TO KNOW! (link)
ur PERIOD itself doesnt hurt... sometimes the cramps can but that just depends on the person really... dont worry about it its not as bad as everyone says it is!!


If you babysit four little kids by yourself for three hours, around how much should you be getting paid? (link)
well... most baby sitters on average get about anywhere from $4-6 an hour (or should anyways) so lets say you get $4 an hour... and you baby sit 4 kids for 3 hours.. you should make $48, so anywhere around $45-55 would be best!




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