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Hey Chelsea, it's Lauren :)
I'm gonna try to make this as short as ossible.. As you might know (or might not, depending on if you've read my LJ lately), Kyle and I have been having a lot of problems. I really think he has trust issues, because he constantly asks me if "I found someone else". I got sick of it, and the other night I was like "No, I haven't...would you like me to?" and he flipped out and responded with "I'm just gonna go kill myself or something." Now he's blaming it on anti-depressants, but I really don't think that's it...aren't they supposed to HELP you? Also, since he lives in a different part of the state, that's close to three hours away, we don't see each other too much. Anymore, we don't ever get to see each other because my dad pretty much won't allow it (even though I'm 18 and I think I should make my own decisions). This weekend is Kyle's graduation party and I promised him months ago that I would be there...and now the night before I'm supposed to go, my dad tells me that if I go, I won't have a place to stay when I come back. I don't want to break my promise, but it's pretty important for me to have a place to live as well. Kyle offered to let me stay with him and his family, but I haven't even met his family yet... Chelsea I'm just so confused... I don't even know if this made sense... what should I do?
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awww first of all i'm so sorry!! i know what it's like to have parents that hate your bf so much they threaten to kick you out. :( hmm... as for your boyfriend blaming it on anti-depressants.. that's a little odd bc they ARE supposed to HELP you. but sometimes they have side effects that make you go a lil crazy i guess.. but its pretty unusual i think? =/ but as for your dad.. he's being a little ridiculous about it. my dad's the same way, he hates every boyfriend i ever had even if they're like a son to him. i guess daddy's are just over protective of their little girls and don't want them to grow up. but just sit him down and talk to him and tell him you're an adult now, you love your boyfriend very much and it's important that you go to his graduation party. tell him you think you're responsible enough to go & you think you should be allowed to go... just sit down and talk with him about it. like what i always do with my daddy when he brings up the whole boyfriend thing is like "what if you and mom were away from eachother for 2 weeks, you'd wanna see her right? well it's the same thing with me and my boyfriend.. we miss eachother." and he usually understands... maybe try that. tell him how if he was away from your mom (or his gf or whatever, idk lol) for a while or they lived far apart he'd wanna see her as much as possible and maybe he'll understand a little bit better how you feel about the situation with Kyle. i dunno how your dad is about those things but hopefully it'll help a little bit<3 sorry i can't help you more!! but if you wanna talk you know you always can<33
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