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Hi Everyone. I'm Alli. ♥

So after a 3 year break. I'm back and ready to answer any of your questions you may have. I hope to help anyone & everyone as best as I can. Have a good day!

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Hey Guys, This Has Really been bothering me and I don't know what to do. I Knew what sex was when I was about 6 years old. I'm 13 Now. But I'm Worried that I wasn't Raised Right. I mean Most Kids don't even know what Making Out is When their like 7!! But I Knew! Was I or Am I Normal??? No SmartAzz's About This....Thanks


I really don't think you were "raised wrong". There are many people who are just like you, including me. I knew about sex at a very young age, because i had older siblings. I don't find anything wrong with that, it's fine. Don't worry about it. Some people are just late bloomers, some are fast ones, it happens. :)


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Ok is it a complete turn off to guys when sisters that are 13 both ware matching outfits? thanks sorry me and my sis just got the same outfit!

~not twins but love the skirt!!

Theres nothing wrong with that.

It's perfectly fine if you ask me :)

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I want to start babysitting, but i don't know anyone who is willing enough to let me.

I need some money to save up for something.
My Cousin is due in 2 weeks!! When her baby is older, should i help her?

-needs some money

Of course you should help her! Thats a very great idea, i know for sure she would really appreciate it.

As for finding one now, find someone in your neighborhood that you know has kids, offer and be polite and friendly. You'll for sure find some luck then. :)

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ok well this christmas seems like its going to be terrible... because i'm like gettting older, and all i can think about is who my friends are these days.. so it makes me in a terrible mood the whole time. I don't know what to do, because i'm not even excited. Ugh, somebody help please, what can i do to be happy? and i'm sorry if this didn't make sence..i'm just not really in a good mood =\

It happens to everyone :(

Try and take your mind of those kinds of things during the holidays, spends tons of time with your family, they will always cheer you up. Try doing one of your favorite things that make you relaxed & happy. Sorry i can't say much, but take care.

♥ Alli

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My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago and promised that we would continue to be friends. Well, he hasn't talked to me since and has told everyone that he won't. Should I still occasionally try and be friends, or leave it alone? He was my best friend before we went out.

Sorry to hear that.

He might just be needing some time to think about wether or not you guys can remain friends. Just give him some time, do you have his screen name? If so, just IM him and say hi, and see what his reaction is. Sparking up something is the best way to attract his attention.

♥ Alli

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Hi,
I was just wondering if there is a way I can find out what my ring size is. I don't wanna have to go anywhere to find out, so if anyone knows please let me know! Thank you!

The only way you can find out is from a jewlery store, they will know. :)

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You know that show, on MTV? Miss Seventeen? Has anyone seen the most recent episode? Which girls are left? How sure are you?

Jill had left.

The girls left are Jen, Jessica & Sasha.

100% Sure :]

http://www.seventeen.com/

♥ Alli*

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Dear Alli,
I have this friend, named Kirsten, who is very self conscious in MANY ways. For one thing, she goes to a gym all the time! And whenver she hears her name. she assumes-which i might add makes an "ASS of U and ME"- that we are gossiping about her, and that we hate her. She has her friends, who are great people. She is also a different person around them. She switched classes to be with me and my friends, which i do not understand. She is basically the needy, jealous, friends that butt into everything and just dont leave me alone!!! I understand that she feels left out, but it is a part of life. How do i DEAL?!?!?!?
~/Lindsay age 13

Hi, Lindsay. :]

Let me start here, what do you mean by the "ass of you and me".. thats a little unusal. But..

I can guess this girl may have some issues. Why on Earth would she put the pressure on you of being self conscious, thats not right. Tell her to keep it to herself, especially if she goes to the gym. Theres no reason to start any of that drama.

Well, why don't you tell her that you don't hate or and that your not talking about her. See what she says, If she comes back at you with something negative.. Tell her what's up. Say, i'm telling you the truth, and hang out with your true friends. This girl is obviously in dinial.

How does she feel left out if she has her "other" friends? Really weird.

I actually don't know what to say. Personally, if i were you, i'd stay away from her. Hang out with your real friends, and just stay away from stupid drama queens like this girl obviously is. Or you will get yourself into more trouble. Trust Me.

Good Luck, Take Care.

♥ Alli

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okay i know this might sound like a stupid question, but im not quite sure what it means what does it mean when a guy says he wants to fuck you really badly? is it fingering you or to have sex?

thank you!

Nope, Not a stupid question at all.

It kind of worries me the way this guy put it into words, "Fuck you really badly?". Uhh. Thats kind of rude and inappropriate, if you ask me. But it depends how old you are, and what your relationship with this guy would be i suppose. But still, if i heard that.. I would have been mad. But anyways..

Fucking somone is not fingering. It's sex.

Hope i helped.

♥ Alli

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I might get a Ipod for Christmas. I was wondering about free music, doesn't Limewire have free music. If so has anyone got viruses from it ?

Also which Ipod is cheapest and what kind hold the most songs. (I'm thinking a Nano or a normal one :))

I'll rate you good :)

Thanks alot! :)

I have an Ipod and i use LimeWire for it. No, no viruses! :) And completely free..

On my opinion, nano's completely suck. But thats just my opinion.. Normals are better. Probably will run anywhere from 99-150$ Mine was 175$ because i had it custom done.

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can your body treat strep throat with out antibiotics? i need this asap.it is for school

No.

You need to get antibiotics. If you found out by a test or what not if your strep positive, then you should have already had a note sent to your doctor about it. I wouldn't go to school with strep. Thats horrible.

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anyone know any sites where i can get quotes of friendship? like distance friendship quotes? thanks

firehotquotes.com

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i've been with my boyfriend for over a month and he still hasn't kissed me? i'm his first real girlfriend so i don't think he's ever kissed anyone before. he also still has braces and he's really insecure about them. he desperately wants to get them off and talks about it all the time. do you think maybe he could be waiting for that to happen? that would suck. how can i hint that i want him to kiss me without coming right out and saying it (that would be weird!)?

aww! poor kid!

Give him some time, IF your his first real girlfriend, hes not going to just come right out and kiss you. Hes probably super nervous, and if he's insecure about his braces, than he might just be waiting to get them off, but you never know. Yeah, it would be weird if you said "Kiss Me Already"..heh. But If it's after a while and you realize that hes just not kissing you for some reason, then YOU should go for it! :)

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ookay well i have a really old computer (1998 PLUS)!!! yes i no wicked old well.. i need yo download music for free that wont give me viruses.. and wont take up much room on my compuer if u no of some plz let me no!! I RATE 5's thannxx

Well, i really don't know a download service for music,photos,games & movies that won't be a lot of space. But the one i use, and pretty much satisfied with is LimeWire, its free. But my old one was BearShare.. which was a really good one as well. No cost towards either of them. The only service you'll probably have trouble/viruses with is kazaa. So don't do that one! If you need any help on setting them up or where to find them, just ask me :)
Hope i helped!!

♥ Alli

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Ok, here's the deal:

In middle school, I got teased by these two boys on my bus. They'd yell at me from the back of the bus. So embarressing.

Anyways, they went off to high school when I went into the 8th grade, but now that I'm in the high school with them [I'm a freshmen, they're sophomores], I think they're going to start bothering me again!
What can I do/say to them to make them stop [if they try lol]


Mucho thanks

Stand up for yourself. Kick them in the balls. ;)

♥ Alli

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Does anyone know the actionscript to link a flash object to a certain frame? The frame is named main. If you don't know what I'm talking about, in HTML terms it would be

This website should help :

http://hotwired.lycos.com/webmonkey/reference/html_cheatsheet/

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I'm just now gettin into photography and I was wondering if anyone new of a good photoshop that is FREE, and works as good or pretty much as good as Adobe?
i rate high

Well, what i do is :

Buy a digital camera, doesn't even matter what price it is. Cheapest one you'll probably find that doesn't really suck is about 20$.. it automatically comes with a photoshop CD. So all you have to do is install, and get at it :) I say it's well worth it! Because there you go.. Your digital camera & your photoshop!

♥ Alli

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Im in 7th grade, and my friend in 8th smokes. she isnt a bad person at all. well, at the end of the school day, we hugged and everything, when i came home,my mom smelled smoke on me and i think she thought i was smoking,even though id never do anything like that. she does know abt Jenny and everything, but how do i convince them that im not smoking or anything?

Tell your mother exactly what happened. You hugged her, and now she can smell it. It's not all that big of a deal, just let her trust you.. thats all. :)

♥ Alli

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you have "default" as your column style and i have that too but how come your font & size is different? how did you change it? thanks please let me know ! ♥

I'm a featured columnist. :)

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is it a sin to kiss before marriage if your a christian?

No.

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