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Jealous Friends who arent youre friend!!!
Dear Alli,
I have this friend, named Kirsten, who is very self conscious in MANY ways. For one thing, she goes to a gym all the time! And whenver she hears her name. she assumes-which i might add makes an "ASS of U and ME"- that we are gossiping about her, and that we hate her. She has her friends, who are great people. She is also a different person around them. She switched classes to be with me and my friends, which i do not understand. She is basically the needy, jealous, friends that butt into everything and just dont leave me alone!!! I understand that she feels left out, but it is a part of life. How do i DEAL?!?!?!?
~/Lindsay age 13
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Hi, Lindsay. :]
Let me start here, what do you mean by the "ass of you and me".. thats a little unusal. But..
I can guess this girl may have some issues. Why on Earth would she put the pressure on you of being self conscious, thats not right. Tell her to keep it to herself, especially if she goes to the gym. Theres no reason to start any of that drama.
Well, why don't you tell her that you don't hate or and that your not talking about her. See what she says, If she comes back at you with something negative.. Tell her what's up. Say, i'm telling you the truth, and hang out with your true friends. This girl is obviously in dinial.
How does she feel left out if she has her "other" friends? Really weird.
I actually don't know what to say. Personally, if i were you, i'd stay away from her. Hang out with your real friends, and just stay away from stupid drama queens like this girl obviously is. Or you will get yourself into more trouble. Trust Me.
Good Luck, Take Care.
♥ Alli
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