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Hey! my name is Andrea but I like to be called Andie* I am 14 I love helping people out with there problems. I'm SpUnKy . BuBbly . outgoing . trustworthy . responsible . and fun to be with! Please dont hesitate to ask me anything! I understand that teenage years will definatly be the hardest to go through..it has for me at least...Boys*Friends*Family*Death all sorts of stuff so I will answer every question you have! I hope I'm helping you guys out! ♥Andie

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I have this guy friend, that I really like but he likes my best friend and I really like him. He said he kind of likes me. but he really likes my best friend. She doesn't like him at all though... thank god. I just want to find a way to get him to like me more! pLeAsE HeLp!

well you cant make someone like you but ya lol..I'm srry that the guy to like likes your best friend...I kinda know how that feels.. I think that you could ask your best friend if you could tell the guy you like that she doesnt like him and ya..then just be yourself around him!! he should like you for who you are lol! that might sound cheesyu but its true lol well I hope everythign turns out good! *rate me*
Love xoxo-Andie

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i really like this one guy, he makes me sink in my words when im talking to him.. its just that he aways makes me cry.. the more i try to get over him.. the more i end up liking him.. im really confused and i hate being hurt..

please help me!

ya that is how it is kinda with me except he also has a girlfriend lol...sadly..well it is hard to get over someone like and not to put you down or anything but you will probably be liek that for a while still and what does he do that hurts you soo much? ( i guess i need a little more information lol) srry i tried to help write me another one becase i dont relaly have this much info on how to help! Love ya xoxo-Andie

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does anybody know the title of Story of the Year's CD? thx, *cOnFuSeD bAbII*

I think it is like Year of change? srry if it isnt it..i tried lol Love Andie

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HeYyYyY AnDreA!! Well i just have a really quick question, my best friend has been hanging out with this other girl who is my friend. They are becoming really close, and I'm worried im going to loose her as my best friend. I still have another really good friend, but if I loose her idk. I just don't know what to do cuz I have talked to her about it and she says that I shouldn't make a big deal about it. I told her many times that I think that the other girl is stealing her as my best friend. It's sooo annoying!!! please hellP!!

Well ya that happens to me alot! lol baaleavie me! lol..well I think that is all you can do is just talk to her about it. Start to become better friends with this other girl like a have a little "girls night" and just get to know more about her and see why your best friend likes her. And trust me if she is your best friend she wont ditch you for a different person. Maybe there are just some things that this other friend she can talk to her about and not you?? well i hope I helped! I dont think I did a good job! I hope I did!!! If you need anythign else I'm here for ya! *rate me* Love xoxo-Andie

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hi I have a good friend who always talks about how she wants to die and how she would kill herself. I am really worried about her. 'cuz if I lost her I don't know what I would do. Please help.

Well I would tell her that whatever it is she wants to die that it isnt worth risking her own life to die!! you should take some time and talk and listen to her and tell her to tell you ever detail of what is wrong if there are any signs of her about to take on suicide then I would get her help! (for ex: giving things away, throwing things away, talking like she will miss you, etc..) so if you need anything else I am here for you! I guess I need more details on everything for me to help more! I did the best I could! srry! *rate me* Love xoxo-Andie

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im a girl and my best friend is...well a slut...i really hate to say that about her but she is...shes really really pretty (and she knows it) and she has a boyfriend but she shows guys her underwear and she lets ppl touch her...i am a little jealous about how she looks but how can i stop?

Well I think that in the first place she shouldn;t be showing guys anythign especaily if she has a boyfriend that is kinda slutty in a way lol and letting other guys touch her is also kinda slutty too..but I dont hink you should be jealous of her because you dont want to end up like here like that because chances are other people might htiink she is a slut too so dont be liek her unless you watn to be called a slut lol so I hope I helped! *rate me*
Love xoxo-Andie

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I am 13 and i weigh 117 pounds my friends think i am so skinny but i dont feel skinny. My mom alawys sias things about how my fat hangs over my pants and other stuff adn it makes me feel self consciuos i was finnaly feeling good about myself until my mom and me got in the whole thing over my weight and all my sisters are stick thin and i am on the chunky side and i have not been eating as much nad i throw up food that i eat i excersice alot more then alot of people do. I think i have a problem but i dont want people to know so i need help please give me the best advice you can thanks alot hugs n kisses luv you lots

Hey!
1)117 pounds is not fat! you are in the range of where you are supposed to be! lol
2) just becase your sisters are "stick thin" doesnt mean that you are ganna be stick thin too.
3) Don't throw up your food that isn't ganna make you loose weight any faster. It messes up your metablism and your throut(cant spell) gets sctrachy and you eventually wont be able to eat anything and get very sick
4) Its good that you are excersising but make sure that if you excersie every day dont excerise for more than 45 mintues I think it is because it isn't healthy to excersie alot. Though it may seem like it, it isn't
So you should go on a diet the healthy way this is what I am doing because I want to loose weight.
A)Get more salads and pasta's over junkfood and not eating at all. Have water over a soda (dont have deit sodas they have fake sugars)
B)Go to this website it gives you good excerising situps and all that stuff and it works! www.toneteen.com
I hope I helped if you have anymore questions I am always on this site and I will try to do the best I can to help you!
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Love xoxo-Andie

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ok at my school everyone likes my friend stacie or likes my other friend cam(hes a boy))) and all i want is to be is jsut like her so cam will like me.....everyone says i should go out with him....they all say im pretyy but cam jsut says im like a sister to him.....what should i doo i really really need helpp!!!

please help!,
adriane

I think that you shouldnt change yourself for someone else if you want to go out with him then just be yourself. He should go out with the real you, not what Stacie is! lol if people say that you are pretty take a complement! lol its always nice lol...I would find out if he likes you in a b/f g/f way because if he likes you like a sister, I dont think he would go out with his sister lol srry then otherwise if he likes you a little more than just a good friend ask him out! lol! every guy is worth going for! lol so I hope I helped! drop one in my inbox anytime!
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Love xoxo-Andie

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well one of my friends told me that along time ago one of my friends gave a guy head and i dont know what to do to keep it out of my mind should I talk to her? you give really good advice please help me!

I think you should definitly tlak to her so you know if it is true..it might be hard to come up to her and be like hey..did you give a guy head? just randomly start asking her about this..and say ya..well you are one of my firends and you can tell me anything so ya just ask her! i hoe I helped! Love xoxo-Andie

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14/f do u think around 120 is fat? thanx in advance

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14/f do u think around 120 is fat? thanx in advance

no no no no no no i have answered this question alot..you are NOT fat and no 120 is not fat when you are b/w the ages of i think it is 12-15 you are supposed to be around 105 to 145 so you are perfect! hope I helped! *rate me* Love xoxo-Andie

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what are the chances of a condom having a hole in it?? i had sex with my boyfriend and i know it didnt break cuz i know what that feels like....and nothing has ever happened before.....but like im worried for some reason.....

there isnt that big of a chance there is a hole in it so dont worry..LOVE YA! have save sex..or no sex...just have fun! lol LOve xoox-Andie

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Only answer this if you play an insturment please. I play the violin and after school I always have alot of homework and I can never get practicing in and I'm afraid the teacher thinks horribly of me, but I try on weekends to get some practicing done! Does anyone know a good technique to use so I CAN get some practicing done?

I think you should do your homework or a half hour then your practicing a half hour and then just go on and off..i hope I helped! *rate me*
Love xoxo-Andie

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I have this one friend, we were really close we used to hang out and stuff and be best friends we have stopped hanging out, because she doesn't live by me, but i still talk to her. We aren't as close anymore we are just friends. I really miss her and I loved talking to her... what should I do?

Ya my best friend moved to Texas and then colorado and i like never et to see her but when I do we talk about what we used to do when we were younger adn it is soo much fun! and we just go crazy and then we catch up on the times we missed..I only get to see her like 2 times a year so it is really hard...:( but I think you should call her more and set up a weekend [have your paretns with you if you arnt aloud to] and have your moms or whoever go with you and rent a room in a hotel for a weekend and just hang out and have fun! and yes i know exactly how you feel if you ever need anythign else I'm here for you! i hope i helped! *rate me*
Love xoxo-Andie

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I went out with this guy for over 7 months.. I still love him.. and my theory is once you fall inlove you can't get out of it, because if you can it was never true love. I know I really love him, but he hates me now. I really wish I could atleast be friends with him. No one really understands what I am going through. I know me and him broke up a couple months ago.. but I miss him a lot. Everyone says to just get over him.. but I can't please help me!

Ya that is true you cant get out of love that fast..it just takes ALOT of time..it will be hard BUT YOU CAN DO IT! lol haha I say write in a jornal of what you feel like so you can clear things up a bit! have you tried talking to this boy? well i think you should have some time to sit and just talk to him baout still being friends..because if you love someone like that and they just kinda like shut you out of his life that is very hard..so that is my advice I hope I helped! you cna ask me anything anytime!! Love xoxo-Andie

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one of my best friends is a guy who i've known forever and we have liked each other at the wrong times like on and off for a while and i've liked him a while but i dont want to tell him cuz i think it makes it akward for us to talk and stuff and we dont talk about who we like a lot cuz if either one of us likes each other we just like stop talking and its really hard to do cuz we can talk about nething i mean ANYTHING...so idk if i should tell him cuz i dont want our friendship to change and if i did tell him he wont want to talk 2 me about his life or w/e so what should i do!?

I think that you should wait a while before you tell him. That is, because you dont want to loose your realshionship you have with him now. Someone I know did that and there'r friendship was like "destroyed" for like a montha nd they didnt talk to each other..and we dont want that to happen to you lol i think you should just wait for the right moment and only tell him when you are like on the subject and be like..please dont act different to me after I tell you this or somethign like that so he knows that..I hope I helped! tell me how it goes! :)
Love xoxo-Andie

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Does anyone know a really great reasonably priced shopping website?

One place you could to to is..Kohls or like American Eagle..some of there stuff is a little bit o the pricer sid like..i am wearing American Ealge Jeans that were like 40$ but they last a while! NO RIPS YET! lol so i hope I helped! Rate me Please! Lvoe Andrea

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I just got in a major fight with my guy friend and we were best friends last year and then we got in a fight towards then end of the year and we just finnaly started talking this year at the begging of skool and he is mad at me again he sias i switch fom guy to guy like i will be all over one guy and go to another guy adn be all over him and go to another guy and one day i was cuddling with him and then i went to his friend and cuddled with him and he wont talk to me i have apoligsed a million time please help me i hv=ave read your advice and it is awsome so i have come to you to help me what can i do? HELP bu the way weree both 13

I think that you should tell him you are truly srry that you didnt mean it like anything perosnal..and 2 if you did switch form him to another guy that is kinda mean..so tell him that you know what you did was wrong. Also he might not talk to you because you have dnot his in the past and he has done this once before and doesnt want to do it again..and you should be happy that he gave you another chance to be firends again..so there really isnt much to do but epologize srry i couldnt help much..come to me if you need anything else! I love you hun! love xoxo-Andie

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Dear Andrea,

I've never actually been able to tell anyone this, but I decided to tell you because I know I can trust you. Well I think I am fat.. im 5'3 and a half and weigh idk like 111? something like that I have been eating less and watching my weight but the more and more I have been doing this the less I eat... I can't help it, I have skipped a few meals already please help I don't know what to do... Thanks for your help!!! LyL:)

1) If you do skip meals you gain weight (looong sciece thing that i dont want to explin it will take forever) lol and yes you will gain weight you may think that you are but you are 2) right now I am on a deit too and i am not going to the snak bar at luch and i am eiter having the lunch or making a salad and bringing it to school..if you see food on the counter at your house or anywhere are you arnt hungry DONT EAT IT! that is a hard one for me lol 3) you are xNOTx fat if you are around 111 you are in the "zome" of the weight you are supposed to be! so i think that if you really feel that you need to go on a diet do it the healthy way please! i Love you! if you need anything else..im here for you! Love xoxoxoxoxox-Andie

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Hey Andrea, my friends keep telling me I need to eat more, and I don't think I do. I already think I am fat because I have 5'4ish or osmething and i weigh 110 or something... they all think I don't eat and that I am anorexic but I know I'm not.. I tell them I'm not but they don't listen they are always coming up to me saying I need to eat more, I hate it soo much.. is there a way I can make them stop? HeLp!!! ThanKs iN AdVaNce LoVe yOu!

lol your welcome! lol well I think you should just ignore them because you are supposeed to be like between 100-145ish [according to my moms nursing book] so you are in the range. so ya i think you should just ignore them and eventually they will stop saying it because then they know that it doesnt bother you..I hope I helped! tell me how everything goes! Love xoxo-Andie

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