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My bofriend and I have been friends for about 7 months and dated for 2 of those months. We're pretty close but I'm wondering how far it is ok to go in our relationship physically. So far we haven't even kissed, but on IM we tell each other sexual things about how/where we want to touch each other. Nothing too bad and it's not anywhere close to having online sex, but it's still awkward. I don't want to rush into things because we both wanna be virgins til marriage. So how far is appropriate for us to go at this point, and how far is appropriate to go if we end up staying together another year or two? Christian opinions will be greatly appreciated, considering he & I are both Christians!!! (link)
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You guys can kiss and make out I don't think there would anything wrong with that. Although it is against Christian beliefs to have sex before marriage. You two should just take it slow and see where the relationship takes you.
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So I tease my boyfriend alot.For example.. I go in for a kiss and I let him go in for it..then I back away..But when he does it.. I don't like it because I just want a damn kiss you know?Am I hypocritical for not wanting him to tease me or what?Should I like stop teasing him to be fair so he won't do it to me?I mean I kind of feel bad because I don't actually do anything for him..But he does more to me.Am I unfair to him?Honestly, I mean I would do it.. But I'm not sure if I want to just yet.I gotta make him for it you know?I'm the kind of girl who plays hard to get..And Yes..I am a virgin.If you can help me out.That would be great. (link)
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Stop teasing the poor kid cut him some slack he's your boyfriend.
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I'm going with this guy (who i like) to this dance this Saturday. And he asked me what do you wanna do there?
And I dont know but he finds after awhile dancing gets really boring. I agree too. So what is there to do at a dance besides dancing?? Something fun, I would like to make this the best dance of my life!!
Thank you:)
p.s. I really really really like him!!!! (link)
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If this is true for most dances which it probably is you will spend a lot of time talking. Basically just use it as a time to get to know each other. Let me know how it goes and I wish you luck.
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How do you get over a heartache? My boyfriend of a year and a half just broke up with me today. He was my very first boyfriend, and I fell in love. But he told me he has been seeing a girl for about a week or two now, just hanging out with her behind my back. And he thinks they could go further and he feels more connected to her and has liked her for years and he doesn't want to see me anymore and has pretty much took himself out of my life completely. I'm devastated and I just need some help. (link)
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All you have to do is find someone better. There are plenty of guys out there so don't even lie to yourself and say no one will be as good as him because that's false. Also hang out with your friends that are girls. When you are with your friends everything is good.
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okay so theres this boy and i really do like him and i have for a while but he doesn't like me and i know that for a fact. i cant get over him he's everything i ever hoped for. what should i do. by the way im 13 years old and im a girl (link)
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Don't worry about it. Your only thirteen years old and haven't seen all there is to see yet. There are way more boys out there trust me and you will probably find someone way better than the one you are looking at now. Remember it's the laws of karma if you lose someone you find someone better. You can definitely believe this I know from experience. Just have fun while you are young and still can.
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15/f
Is it worth it to wait till I'm done high school to start dating again?
I got this idea from my friend, since most guys in high school ( in mine/hers anyway ) are absolute idiots, whether it be logically, academically, or just in general. (link)
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I guess you could say that. Trust me, when you get out of high school you won't remember the relationships you had or even want to. Just have fun in high school while you still can. Hope I answered your question.
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my bf and i hav been dating for 2weeks but we've only hugged 3 times and talked twice THERES SOMETHING WRONG!!
how do i tell him he needs to at least try without being a bitch? (link)
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Give the guy some time and eventually he will start taking action. Or you could try initiating the action, that works to. He might not want to talk that much or be around you so much because he doesn't want to looked whipped in front of his guy friends. Trust me it happens. If things don't work out you can get rid of him. It's just a boy plenty more out there.
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i realy like this girl but theres 2 things that keep me from asking her out one is that the school year is almost over and i wont see her till school starts and second is that shes kinda rich compared to me im not poor but not that rich ive met her mom she seemed nice also shes full white and im full mexican so im darkskin compared to her but i realy like her and we have gone out twice before but does any of that matter? please tell me (link)
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My advice to you would be not to ask her out right now. Emphasis on right now. Since school is almost over you would not have that much time to spend together. Take the summer to relax then start again next year. Trust me it does not matter if you are not rich or a different race. Infatuation does not see color.
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Ok well im like really great friends with this guy anthony & i kinda really like. Like, i can tell that I love this kid no matter what & please don't say I don't cuz if its a relationship love or a friendship love, either way, i love him. But anyways, he has a gf that he is in love with & i hafta get over him. What's a good way to get over a guy? & fast is probably best. thanks in advance.
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The best and fastest way to get over someone is to find someone better. Even if you think that there is no person on Earth better trust me there is. Focus on the bad traits of the person you like. Also flirting with other people works to. This may require some searching but a better person is out there. Chasing them is also most of the fun. Trust me I know what I'm talking about.
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So this guy that I talked to in the summer now hates me because I spilled a secret to his best friend, and my two best friends. I hate myself now for it, and I tried talking to him today. He said he didn't like me, I scared him, and a lot of other things. I don't know what to do, and I feel like my life is worthless. I've never felt like this about any guy before, and I don't know what to do. I can't forget about him. That's what people have been telling me, but I can't. What should I do about him, and my life? I feel like my life has no meaning whatsoever. (link)
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Just go and talk to him. Apologize for spilling the secret and ask him if you two can start over fresh. If he doesn't respond the way you want him to just leave it alone. Remember there are a ton of other guys in the world. Try flirting with other boys and see if you can find someone you really like. Eventually you'll feelings will transfer over to the next guy and then you're fine.
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im naturally firty when it comes to guys, and so far its worked pretty well. Im 15 btw.I always thought guys were pretty much the same when it came to what they were looking for in a girl. But ive noticed lateley that the "typical" thing that a guy wants in a girl is different than what i previously thought. i mean, they're all different, so they all like different qualities, not all of them want drop dead gorgeous girls, but in general, can anyone tell me what they've noticed that guys like in a girl. oh and if ur a guy, your advice is appreciated! (link)
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I can tell you what me and my friends look for in a girl. Looks matter. If you hear someone say that looks don't matter they're wrong. I am not talking model material every time but in shape girls that have nice features score well. I personally like athletic girls and I am sure most guys would. Truth is most guys that are athletic look for girls they can compete with. It's a good bonding method. Also friendly girls with a sense of humor are also well liked by guys. Hope I answered your question.
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well theres this guy i like and i dont know if he likes me or not i mean we dont really talk that much but i really really like him. also there his a school dance(middle school) coming up and im wondering if i should ask him or not? should i? is it okay for a girl to ask a guy to a dance or should he ask her? im mean what if he doesnt like me would it be akward then? sshould i ask him? (link)
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First of all it's perfectly alright for a girl to ask out a guy. I like it and think it's cool. Don't worry about rejection or making awkward moments. At least you showed guts and tried to find out. There's always other guys.
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Well in my school, most of the guys go after the bigger chested and gelled hair kind of girls. Anyways thats deff not me. Lol i'm a tiny girl 4'9" small chestt and 13. I have a boyfriend right. He's nice and great and everything but idk. I've asked him why he likes me and he told me because "i'm special to him" What is that suppose to mean? So mostly looking for guys comments but girls are okay too, why do boys like girls other then physical appearance? && what do boys like in personality? just wondering and thankkss :] (link)
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Basically I'm not going to give you a lot of oh personality matters and stuff I'm just gonna be straight forward. Boys like girls that make it appear they don't like them. After all most of the fun is in the chase not the catch. I am not going to tell you looks don't matter because they do. Also most guys like athletic girls because they can relate through sports. Remember you have a boyfriend. Just take him for what he is and you'll be alright. Also smile and be friendly.
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14/f
okay well i like this guy and his name is ryan and he has told me that he likes me back. but he also likes 2 other girls i really like this kid and i kind of want to go out with him is there anything i can say or notice to see who he likes more or if he really does like me..thanks (link)
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Flirt with him a lot. Talk to and get to know him a bit. Also remember to keep eye contact and smile. If he plays sports talk to him about football, basketball, etc. Guys really like that. Also flirt with other guys too. If he sees you doing it he will get jealous and realize he had better get on the ball while you are still single. Any other questions feel free to send an email.
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this boy had totally mucked me around previously and got a girlfriend when he told me he really liked me. He didnt bother making convo from then on over the internet, and just recently he left a comment say hi em, Hows it goin havent spoken in ages x! and im not sure wether i should reply or not i do still like him alot but hes got a girlfriend do i reply or leave it?
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I would suggest you just leave it. Chances are he's just playing with your feelings and you should not fall for it. However regardless of what I say you will probably want to answer. Keep it short and unemotional and if he writes back stop.
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and we've gona out before but we decided to be friends, and like we've hurt eachothers feelings..but we want to be friends soo we have been for the past 6 months..but now he isn't talking to me.like i say hey, and he just ignores me. is there something wrong with me? and on top of that i like him...and like whenever im around him he purposly flirts with other girls..it drives me CRAZY! please help what do i do to get him back[just as a friend.i miss being friends with him] (link)
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It sounds to me like this boy is trying to make you jealous. At the same time he is playing hard to get. Just don't fall for it and play along. Ignore him back and flirt with other guys around him. If that doesn't work confront him and explain you want to be friends again and if he declines forget about him. Good luck on this one.
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so basically. theres this boy... hes in my class. i like him very much. and i know he likes me.. its just his best friend hates me and doesnt want me to go out with him. so his bestfriend keeps telling him things like "you know she'll only break yourheart" and things like that. and he yells at him about it...
should i just give up becuase i know ill never be picked over his bestfriend, since he believes him? (link)
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No there is still a chance that you two will go out. Trust me there are a lot of relationships in which the best friend hates the girlfriend or boyfriend. It's just something they have to deal with. Try acting nice to the dude that hates you.
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okay, well i really like this guy & whenever we talk hes usually flirting lol and yesterday we were together for a little bit andd he was flirting and everything then he im'd me last night and was like what r u doing tonight & i was like shit bc i would have loved to do something with him but i had to pack for vacationnn & yeahh/ i reallyyy really reallllyy likee him. whatt shoujld i doo. (link)
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Keep flirting with him and talking. Since he flirts a lot and wanted to know what you were doing one night he probably feels the same way. Just keep doing what you're doing and eventually he will ask you out. Remember keep your cool and don't make it obvious you like him. I hope that I answered your question.
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okay... so i have a past/future boyfriend who i will be going out with again... and i like him ALOT ( kinda love him) and i was wondering what is the best way to tell him how i feel (place and all that) i want it to be special but i dnt want him to freak out... any ideas? (link)
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Alright a little patience is gonna come in handy here. When you get in a relationship there is an ongoing struggle for who says I love you first. If you say it first he wins the battle. He knows that he won because basically it's like your under his control. You will probably want to do this though. If he says I love you first say it back. Until then I suggest you remain quiet at least for a little while. Hope I answered your question.
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ok so like im reading a magazine. and im thinking about love and guys. duhh. lol so i was just wondering like what do you guys like in girls? like i know this question is always asked. but im going to give stuff and you guys can answer me.
+ do you find it annoying if the girl is clutzy or is falling sometimes or alot?
+do you care if she wears designer clothing?
+what do you look for as a gift? liek for your b-day
+do you get mad if a girl wraps the present really nicely? or if its hard to unwrap it
+do you hate it if the girl is smarter than you?
+ do you care if the girl is chubby?
+ or if she sucks in her stomach? so it looks like shes skinny
+or how she always has to look good?
+ if she has love handles? or really really small ones?
+ if shes really athletic?
+ or not at all?
+ if shes blonde? (like brains wise)
thankss =] (link)
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I just think it's kind a weird if a girl is a klutz. Not really designer clothing but I like brand name. Don't really care about a present as much as spending time with the girl. Like I said presents don't really matter. No, I like girls smarter than me as long as they look good. Personally I prefer girls that are not skinny but you know athletic build. I really like athletic girls. Hair does not really matter in a girl. Hope I answered your questions.
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