Ok well im like really great friends with this guy anthony & i kinda really like. Like, i can tell that I love this kid no matter what & please don't say I don't cuz if its a relationship love or a friendship love, either way, i love him. But anyways, he has a gf that he is in love with & i hafta get over him. What's a good way to get over a guy? & fast is probably best. thanks in advance.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? runawayxlove answered Tuesday April 17 2007, 12:05 pm: hey, well if you like someone this much to come on advicenators for, there must be something special about him. i wouldnt just get over him because hes taken. who knows - maybe he would have been the guy that you had a three year relationship with. never pass up a chance like that. what i would do is sort of put him in the back of your head for now. if you do find someone that you think might be better for you, dont just write them off either. if the guy that you fell for is still taken, give the other guy a try. if things work out, youll probably get over the other guy over time. what you cant do is get involved in a relationship with the other guy if you still have feelings for the guy that you once fell for. if you never find a different guy that you might be interested in while your waiting for the other guy or it just didnt work out, try thinking about the better things in life. like your social life, your friends, your family, your job, whatever makes you happy. personally i think by keeping a busy social life up and hanging out with your freinds and family a lot, that you tend to forget about the little things (like a guy). now im not saying that hes un-important, im just saying why worry about him if nothing can happen right now. good luck. [ runawayxlove's advice column | Ask runawayxlove A Question ]
DrPlayer answered Tuesday April 17 2007, 12:43 am: The best and fastest way to get over someone is to find someone better. Even if you think that there is no person on Earth better trust me there is. Focus on the bad traits of the person you like. Also flirting with other people works to. This may require some searching but a better person is out there. Chasing them is also most of the fun. Trust me I know what I'm talking about. [ DrPlayer's advice column | Ask DrPlayer A Question ]
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