my life is so dull right now. i feel like everyday is for nothing. wake up go to school, learn crap i dont care about, laugh a few laughs, go to soccer, come home eat a little, hw, talk to a few friends, then bed. and same thing over and over. and i feel like whats life if i do the same thing everday. and i mean idk where my life is going its boring right now and idk what to do to "spice it up". and i'm not the greastes soccer player ever..i'd like to think i'm good. i'm not the thinnest person or beatuful..at least i don't think i am. and i havn't had a crush in like 3 months and my life is so dull right now. i want a speical guy in my life. i've been waiting for so long nothing. and my life is so dull right now...
i just don't understand? all i want is a better life and i've tired but it just isn't working. and the whole bf part its not like i'm searching or crushing on ever guy. he's just not there.
Nerina answered Tuesday April 17 2007, 5:47 am: Try to understand what exactly you like about your life.If you don't like soccer,do something you really like.Try to accomplish some of your life goals.Find a hobby you love.You neve have to be the thinnest person.Do you want people to be able to see you ribs and look dead?You are the most beautiful person.Many people elieve god has made us to look the way we would want to and has also given us the talents that we would want.We look and are the way we want to be.But some times things happenthat make people feel insecure.But back to the question.Wait for the right guy.Guys make life more interesting even if they are not involved with you.Get together with your girl friends and call a guy and put him on speaker phone.Tease the guys with you girlfriends.Call new guys and maybe ask questions like "Are you hot?"Do fun things like have a party or go swimming.Maybe get a job you like.Celebrate foreign festivals.If you like art and stuff try making wind chimes or things like combining photography,archietecture and sculpture.Try www.discoverfun.com
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XSugarPieX77 answered Tuesday April 17 2007, 1:12 am: Ahhh. This happens to most teenagers. Your life is dull <u>right now</u> which means it hasn't been this dull in the past years? I suggest join a club, meet new people, hang out with friends more often. You just need to get out their. Pardon my language, but yeah, schools a bitch, but whatever you want to be in life, school is going to help you get their. Not everyone is the best at everything, im sure, with a bit of determination with soccer, you can get what you feel is a great soccer player. If you need any ways to improve with soccer, leave one in the inbox. Now, about your other part of your question. Its perfectly fine that you dont have a crush right now, it just means you havent found the right guy. You do not need a boyfriend to be happy, or spice up your life. You are responsible for your own happiness. Its not up to a guy to make you happy. Hope I helped! Happy Spring!
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