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okay so today i got a comment on myspace from this guy i went out with awhile ago... he said he missed me and he thought i should know.. then i told him 'i miss you too, but idk why you would miss me' (which is sort of something i say to him when he says he misses me because idk i just do..) i also asked how he was... ANYWAY he says back to me "uh how about because you're probably the most amazing person I've ever met.. it still stands too. and I'm alive.. how are you" this made me think he likes me again... the thing is i have a bf. i really dont want to hurt anyone.. i care for this guy but i dont want him to like me! i don't want to hurt him..... do you think he likes me? what should i do?
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He might like you, and you need to talk to him about this. Let him know what's going on with you, and your life. I mean, don't rub your boyfriend in his face, but just tell him you have one.
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What you should do is just be happy with your current boyfriend and feel flattered that he still likes you.
You can't make him not like you, unless you just want to treat him like crap to make him stop, but that is just a bad idea, especially if you want to avoid hurting him. That, and it is just the outright a**hole way of going about it.
Does he know you have a boyfriend? Tell him that you do, if he doesn't. It won't hurt him, because it is the truth. It is something that he will have to accept that he cannot change.
If he is a nice guy, then he will respect that fact and won't try to move in on a lady who is spoken for.
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Yeah, it seems to me that this guy likes you. You should just let him like you. Thats what happens sometimes. People like people that are already taken a lot. If he continues to seem like he likes you a lot. Just remind him kindly that you have a boyfriend now. Hope I helped! Happy Spring!
-Brina
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