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Getting Over Him.
How do you get over a heartache? My boyfriend of a year and a half just broke up with me today. He was my very first boyfriend, and I fell in love. But he told me he has been seeing a girl for about a week or two now, just hanging out with her behind my back. And he thinks they could go further and he feels more connected to her and has liked her for years and he doesn't want to see me anymore and has pretty much took himself out of my life completely. I'm devastated and I just need some help.
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first off, i'm really sorry for what happened. that was pretty low of him. you can't just completely get rid of a heartache too soon. you have to do it step by step. get involved with other people and organizations and don't see him for a while. because if you come into contact with him (especially when he's with that girl) it may make you want him even more. just try to forget about him for a while and do some hanging out with the girls, or maybe even some new guys! good luck!
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All you have to do is find someone better. There are plenty of guys out there so don't even lie to yourself and say no one will be as good as him because that's false. Also hang out with your friends that are girls. When you are with your friends everything is good.
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I'm really sorry... thats not a good thing to happen is it? =[ Unfortunately there's no way for you to just get over it. You should talk to all your friends, I'm sure they will be very supportive of you. Try and find something that can take your mind off him - join a club or take up a new hobby or just... start something. Don't want him back though. He cheated on you really, starting liking another girl and that's not good of him, no matter how much you love him. You might very well still love him, and if you do... let him be happy even though he doesn't deserve it for having broken your heart.
What I can say, and I know this, is that you will have other boyfriends and they will be better and they will love you more and you will have a great time. Hang in there for the moment, and try and concentrate mainly on making yourself feel good again.
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