|
why boys like girls?
Well in my school, most of the guys go after the bigger chested and gelled hair kind of girls. Anyways thats deff not me. Lol i'm a tiny girl 4'9" small chestt and 13. I have a boyfriend right. He's nice and great and everything but idk. I've asked him why he likes me and he told me because "i'm special to him" What is that suppose to mean? So mostly looking for guys comments but girls are okay too, why do boys like girls other then physical appearance? && what do boys like in personality? just wondering and thankkss :]
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Being 13 says it all. What you're wondering and going through and living today-- won't be that way at age 15, or 16-18.
13 year old boys are just discovering the opposite sex and their own sexuality. They are obssessed with the stero-typed girl like pin-ups in magazines. It's natural.
Don't worry about it. And the best thing about being 4'9" and small busted is, when you get older and gravity takes hold-- your bust won't surcumb to it and still be perky, while bigger busted woman will hang to their knees!!!
As far as personality goes, each person is different just as you are. What do you like in a boy? Then hang with boys that like the same in a girl. Simple. Petite girls are as beautiful, if not more than well-developed. Usually that's all they have going for them.
And, be yourself. Don't get into this trying to be what you think a boy likes because sooner or later, it comes back to bite you. No one can keep a facade up for long.
]
Guys that go for girls mostly because of their looks are shallow. Looks aren't everything. While they are a plus, they're not always the most important.
As for personality, it depends on the guy. Some guys like funny girls, some like shy girls & some guys like loud girls. And some guys like smart girls. Yeah, it's nice to be pretty, but it's another thing to be smart.
I wouldn't wanna date someone who was pretty, but was a total airhead.
]
Basically I'm not going to give you a lot of oh personality matters and stuff I'm just gonna be straight forward. Boys like girls that make it appear they don't like them. After all most of the fun is in the chase not the catch. I am not going to tell you looks don't matter because they do. Also most guys like athletic girls because they can relate through sports. Remember you have a boyfriend. Just take him for what he is and you'll be alright. Also smile and be friendly.
]
Honestly-
I like girls for their personalities. Yes, I do also look for looks, but unless they are TERRIBLY ugly, and I mean terribly, I will give them a chance. Most of the girls that I could see myself dating are the ones I hang out with now. They are nice, sweet, kind, and caring. They aren't like those popular sluts that only care about their looks. Your boyfriend said "you're special to me" because he meant it. You're probably one of those girls that most boys overlook because of appearance (not saying you're ugly- you're just not like those fake bimbos), but your boyfriend isn't one of those guys who would overlook you. He likes you for your personality- and that means that he is a keeper.
Hope I helped!
--Jack
]
More Questions: |