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The Wheel of Love?!
Ok, so the Wheel of Love (as I call it), hasn't been spinning for me --- and I'm not sure if I want it too. My friend has started to get together with a guy and ... shes just odd now. :/ She a bit more obessed with her BF then I would really like her to be, (Telling what he did today, worrying aboiut calling him, ect.) They have the same interests (hard rock and stuff), but she wasn't always like this -- she changed about two years ago and she seems to hae "grow up." I'm not into mental, cussing, and some of peoples "aspects of life" and its hard for me to talk to people, (sometimes its just akward.) I'm scaring this guy I like (being over active and just being "weird") =( Its getting bad. Theres also this other aspect that I can't date until I'm 16 (its a religous thing), but with everyone else dating its just bothering me. What should I do about "scareing" people and this push of dating?
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Scaring people is something can be changed. Just be yourself, but don't come onto them TOO strong because then you scare them, turn them of or make them think you're weird.
Dating isn't something you should worry about though. Concentrate on what's more important like school. Dating can be fun, but it's also like a poison.
Don't get caught up in all of it. It's better if you just stay away, BUT if someone likes you, and you like them back, go for it. Just don't make them your everything.
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With "scaring" people- just try not to be so aggressive. Be yourself, and you'll find someone who likes you just as you like them.
Don't feel pressured to date someone. Really- its overrated. A date occupies a lot of your time and they become more of an obligation that its probably worth. Now- I'm not saying that if you find someone you like that likes you too, you shouldn't date them, I'm just saying that you shouldn't feel as if you NEED to date. Take me, for example. I'm single and I'm doing great. Most single people would agree with me that its better to be single.
Hope I helped!
--Jack
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