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do you think its weird. if you stay with your first boyfriend forever
b.c i think thats gonna happen to me
i dont mind. but is it likey to happen (link)
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Well, I think it may be alittle weird if you had your first boyfriend when you were like 10, but at the same time that would be very cool. I mean if you two really love each other, don't care about what others think. What mattes is that you two are happy.
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Okk. Please Please help me. I've liked this kidd for like 2 weeks. and today he asked me out. of course i said yes. but omg! it is so awkward talking to him. like how can i make him less shy and our talking less awkward??????
Will rate!
pls help! (link)
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I've been in this situation before many times (except for us, we were wicked comfortable around each other as good friends but then once we started going out that changed). What we did was hang out with a group of mutual friends to get to know each other better. We tried to talk to each other as much as we could, and we said stuff like "What's your favorite movie?" to find out if we had anything in common. Like others have mentioned, you can't make him less shy. Good luck!
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Alright so i'm in 8th grader at a pretty small school .. we have like 180 kids in the whole middle school, so of course our school dances are kind of .. not fun. And like NONE of the guys dance what so ever.. so i dont really dance either. Some of the girls dance during like the fast songs and then like get called sluts & stuff when really .. they do nothing not normal. my school's just gay like that. And they open up the other gym too .. so the boys usually go in there & play basketball, i usually just float inbetween the too, and talk to the guys & sometimes hang out w/ the girls, but never really dance. And obviously, its not fun at all. The only time the guys dance are slow dances & like i always get asked, but half the girls dont. And lemme just tell you ITS REALLY LAME. But some of the girls think its like the best, they keep one main light on, off to the side b/c the teachers are annoying. I mean i know were in middle school, but you have to admit thats SUPER GAY. And i really hate it. Is there ANY way to make it fun? or like so the guys would maybe dance during the fast songs? I dont know that sounds gay, but i'm desperateee.:] thanks in advance. (link)
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That's alot how my school is, most of the guys only slow dance. However, most of us girls are so into dancing that we just dance and don't care waht the guys think. Try that sometime, it's so much fun! If you see a guy your good friends with (I do this with my boyfriend and my best friend's boyfriend) go up to them and start swinging their arms and shaking your hips and say "Dance, you fool!" Even if they don't dance, you still get a laugh out of it. (especially when your best friend's boyfriend is a depressed skater type). Just go out, have fun, be yourself, and do what YOU want to do, and if you still don't have fun, then organize a fun night with your friends away from the whole dance scene.
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My boyfriend and I have been together for 14 months, friends for 4 years, and I recently tried to end the relationship. I don't see our futures working together, he has no personal ambition, and numerous other things. I thought the break up was going relatively well considering the circumstances, but then he lost it and started crying. That was the last thing I expected as he is NOT the kind of person to EVER cry. I felt so terrible for inflicting this kind of grief on someone I care so much about that I agreed to stay in the relationship. (He isn't/wasn't trying to cry in orderfor me to stay)
Now I don't know what to do but I need to get out of this. He's gone back to his normal self and has seemingly forgotten about our whole deliemma. He wont acknowledge my unhappiness and instead chooses to credit my cheerlessness to any other problem.
Please don't respond with "Just leave him" or other short answers with no reason. (link)
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Look, you are obviously not happy in this situation, and your happiness or at least comfortableness comes before anythign else in your mind. At least, it should. It is hard to break up with somebody and to be broken up with, but for like 99% of your relationships in life you are going to have to do one of the two. I've seen a person not break up with her boyfriend in a situation alot similiar to yours. Then when she finally did he was so attached to her that it was worse then it would have been if she had gotten out in the first place. He became really depressed and didn't smile (hardly even talked) for like 3 months. If you keep yourself in this relationship, you won't be happy and he will be even more unhappy when you break up with him later. Hope I helped!
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ok heres the situation. your 15 yrs old. u never liked your dad, you hated him and you had this huge fite. and then he beats you wif a wooden stick until it broke. your mom was yelling at him and everything. and he hits your mom because she tries to stop him from hitting you. and then and then... a couple days later they act like nothings happened. yout mom doesnt want anyone else outside the family to kno this so she doesnt calls the police. you realli cant stand it that everyones living on fine and you get mad seeing your bruises. wat do you do? (link)
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Okay, this has never happened in my house before but it happened to one of my best friends in the entire world and I was/am close to her entire family. (Her grandma totally rocks my socks, seriously!) But anyways, heres what her story.
The first time she told me (and I was the first person she told) was on the phone. The painters had gotten paint on the lights and she knew her parents were going to freak. I told her to call her uncle (they are close and he's a policeman) and get out of the house, but she wouldn't listen to me. So her parents come home, abuse her, and she comes to school the next day with cuts and bruises everywhere. I told her, once again, to tell someone and if she didn't then I will. She didn't, I did. I went to our science teahcer one day when she was standidng right there and he told us to go down to guidance. We went down, explained the situation, and they got the nurse to call DSS. Everyone was worried, my math teacher even offered to take her home with her or to call my mom to say she was going home with me. A couple days later we were at our friend's house all ready to go swimming with our other friend. The phone rang and my friend's mom called to us that it was the friend that was being abused's mom. That friend turns to us, shaking, and goes "I have to go home." I started shaking and hugging her and saying, "What is it? What's wrong?" She told me that DSS were going to go to her house to talk to her family. I was really nervous because I knew there was a possibility she would have to move and I'd never see her again. Her mom came to pick her up and was red and yelling and crying all at once. I took my friend whose house we were at and ran to the farthest part of the house away from the driveway yelling, "Get me away from that woman, now!" I didn't know what I would do if i got too close to her, but it wouldn't have been pretty. Fortunately, my best friend was incredibly lucky. After her parents talked to a social worker about it, they realized what they were doing was wrong. They have never done it again, and a few days after that the friend in question sent me an email thanking me and just saying that she loved me (in a best friend way). It cheered up my day trenmendously.
Sorry that was so long but the point of the story is that there is help.
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im 14/f and i was asked to prom by my boyfriend of a few months (2-3). he goes to a different school and they only have a junior prom so what im asking is do you people think 14 is too young for prom. i have to say im a mature 14 and my bf thinks so and thats why he likes me besides numerous other reasons.we wouldnt have sex or go to parties afterward so is just prom too young for a 14year old????? my parents know and are ok with me going but i still dont know..
thanx a bunch (link)
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I don't think it's too young as long as you don't engage in any of the parties or sexual activities, as you have already mentioned. If your parents are okay with it, then they must trust you enoguh to know you would make the right decisions. Parents are often, after all, the people who would trust us last in "growing up things" like this. I have a friend who can't even hang out with guys. (Sorry, slightly off topic) Also, don't worry what other people will think of you. Sure there are going to be some people who disaprove, but if you and your man are happy, then just enjoy the night!
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hi i like this kid named travis ....and i don't know if he likes me...what do i do? my heart breaks easily...and when someone says fer say i don't like you like that...i feel like i could die...anyway when ever i call him he's like no your not going to let me go..(phone)wise...so what do you think...oh and like i will say ooops..my bad...and he will laugh and repeat it in a funny way...and like i say dude and so does he he like copies...makes me laugh...what does this mean ...??do you think he likes me...
thanks i rate high..samantha (link)
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Think about which would have a greater impact on you...rejection or going out with him. I know one is happy and one is sad, but consider if the possible happiness would make the possible sadness more bearable. If you really are afraid of rejection, I just drop "slight" hints. Good luck, and it does sound like he likes you.
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Ok I have had this feeling that I should smoke but I know I shouldnt. My mom smokes and my dad chews what do i do. I cant talk to my parents they "hate" me. Please help!!! (link)
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Don't smoke! Talk to a trusted adult and also tell a close friend. When you think about it, call one of them or go out and get active. Also, can't you see what its doing to your parents? My friend, Matt, has never ever drank because his parents were are both alocoholics.
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I'm trying to raise money by selling stuff on ebay. What are a lot of things I could sell that people would buy for a good price?
Thank you. I rate. (link)
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Pick up the closet thing that isnt expensive you see, say "President Bush touched this awesome pencil" and sell it. If you get any crap (which I doubt you will) just be like "My cat's name is President Bush and he touched it! I wasn't lying!"
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is there anyway to improve my running so and can get faster?? i'm an outfielder for softball and the only way i'll be able to start varsity is if i can cover more ground any help is appreciated (link)
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In order to run fast, you need muscular legs. One of my best friends has the most muscular legs I've ever seen and she's the fastest 400 runner on our track team. To get strong legs, if you happen to horseback ride, ride without stirrups every time you ride. That's what I do! Other than that, just practice!
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How long can someone go without eating food but drinking water? if you happened to stop eating food would you die? (link)
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Well, if you stop eating, you will eventually have no more calories to burn and you will start to eat yourself from the inside out. It attacks muscles first and guess what the heart is (yes, a muscle). Does that answer your queestion about whether you will die or not?
Sorry, if that sounded rude or something but I've had friends who have tried this. I almost lost two friends in a roew because my best friend stopped eating because her boy friend was in a comma and they didn't know if he would wake up.
You can go about 3 weeks without food and about 3 days without water.
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So this girl who was suposed to be my BESTFRIEND ratted on meh and my closest friends for drinking. Now I lost my best guy friend in the world and im never aloud to talk or see him again. my parents have a restraining order on him and Its killing me because I love him so much and would do anything for him..
Im not sure weather I should forgive my so called "bestfriend" or not...
what do yu think i should do? (link)
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Look, your best friend did the right thing. Which would be harder for you, to not be able to see him because he drinks or to not be able to see him because you were driving when you were drunk and his was in the seat and got killed? Your best friend was looking out for you and she was, appearantly, the only one who was. Drinking kills, hurts, and damages.
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I have no friends i sit at home day after day doing nothing...i cant make anyfriends because there is literally nobody to make friends becasue i live in a extremely small town with an extremly small school and they all already have there own clicks and wont allow anyone in:S and all my people i hang out with are rude and take advantage of me...what should i do! (link)
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Just go up to somebody with a big smile and your face and say "HI!" (That's how I met my best barn friend) If they don't want to talk to you or hang out with you, know that they are missing out on a great person.
Another idea I had was you can maybe join a community organization or do something your passionate (for me, its horseback riding) in another town. You will most likely make friends there.
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Here's the story. I'm 13/F and I am like the only girl in my school who isn't obsessed with guys. Like, I get crushes and things but I'm not obsessed with guy watching or finding a boyfriend, or getting my first kiss. I feel like it's better to let things just happen instead of pressuring yourself to have it happen because then you might go after just about anyone. I'm also not into make-up and clothes. I don't wear any make-up, except cover up under my eyes to cover dark circles. And don't get me wrong, I like shopping, but I don't love it, and I think talking about clothes and make-up is pretty frivolous and unimportant, and a bit annoying. My weight is the next problem. Alot of my friends are always concerened about their weight and they talk about weight issues alot also. I don't have any problems with my weight though. My friends and I are pretty skinny but they still like count carbs and watch how much they eat, not to be healthy, just skinny and I don't.
My main problem is it makes me feel so different and unattached to my friends. I feel like I have nothing to talk about when they bring up guys and make-up and clothes and weight. I feel like I have nothing to say and I just sit to the side listening to them and wondering how they can be so.. I don't know, they aren't exactly shallow, but sometimes that's how they seem.
Don't get me wrong, that's not all they talk about, and when they don't I love hanging out and talking to them. But when they do I just don't know what to do.
Any help would be appreciated and I'm SO sorry it's so long!! (link)
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My first concern is the weight thing. When they bring it up say, "*insert name* You are not fat anf you don't need to be counting calories!!" Yell it in their face. Do whatever you have to do to make them understand. I have a few friends who like refuse to eat anymore, and another friend who spent a year in a hospital because of it.
Next, when they talk about guys or make up or something say, "You know what guys, I'm really not into that stuff. Can we please change the subject? Has anyone seen the new movie yet?" or something along those lines. If they are your true friends they will respect your wishes and talk about their "girly" things while you aren't there.
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Is there any way that you can hear a song on the radio, record it onto a tape (you know, the old casette tapes), and record THAT onto a CD?
If there is, please tell me! A song I LOVE isn't out on a CD yet and I need to put it on my iPod.
Many thanks. (link)
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Oh, trust me, it is possible, challenging, but possible. You need to know exactly when the song will be on the radio and have the tape ready. Once the song comes one blast your radio and press record on your tape player. Then you put the tape in a tape player near your computer and there's a way to put that tape onto a CD. I don't really know because my dad always does it for me but, yes, it is possible.
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i really love acting and drama but i'm definitely not a good singer. i actually want to have some career in theater. i just need to know: do ALL auditions require you to sing? or do some just have you act? dont say you should take singing lessons because i dont believe its possible for you to sing better if you naturally are bad. (link)
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The simple answer is for straight theatre (no singing)-no, for musicals-yes.
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Besides Phantom of the Opera, Sweeney Todd, Evita, Rent and Les Miserables, does anyone know any good musicals that are entirely sung through? (link)
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Sorry guys but High School Musical, Phantom of the Opera, Sound of Music, and others mentioned are not completely sung through. I was going to say Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dream Coat, but somebody else already said that. Two more are Cats and Seussical the Musical.
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ok so lately a lot of people have been talking about a show or movie called high school musical. what is it about? is it like grease or something? i've never even heard of it but people around school seem to know all about the thing. what tv station is it on too?
thanks im just curious. (link)
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It's like Grease as far as the fact that they are both musicals, but other than that, not really. Well, I guess there are other elements that make them similiar (like guy meets girl who his friends don't approve of).
The others explained the plot but the basis of it is to say that you can be whatever you want to be. It's kinda corny and I'm not like obsessed with it but the music is always great to turn on and scream...er, sing...to.
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ok i just got a horse. she is a liver chestnut mare. i want to know what colors would look good on her (like saddle pads and stuff)....i was thinkin blue but my favorite color is pink lol. and i have always had geldings and now that i finally have a girl i can actually dress her up like one! lol any suggestions? thanks! (link)
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I was going to say that I think hunter green would look really nice.
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i was wondering if it is ok to have your horse as your best freind (link)
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Hmmm...I might be intreperting this wrong but when I first read it I figured you had human friends too. (maybe even people who ride at your barn *hugs barn friends*)
Anyways, if you are like me and alot of my friends then it is okay. I have two best friends from school and one barn best friend but I also believe my horses understand me better than anyone. They are always there for you, and they never judge you. They make you laugh. They don't hold grudges.
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