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so my bf broke up with me nd at first we did keep talking but i also kept talking to one of his friends and then me and my now ex stoped talking for a few days and i got a text from his friends phone asking me out and i said no at 1st cuz i thought they had both planned this but he kept finding ways to keep me thinking then i get a txt from my exs phone saying that his friend was my 1st kiss and that my 1st kiss was a dare so i told him to shut up and he kept saying that but then out of nowhere he tells me it was him who was txting me from his friends phone so i called him names and stuff but then he tells me that my friend also his ex was a better gf than me and that he always wanted to kiss her but hardly ever wanted to kiss me and said he was going to tell his friend a really deep secret i told him he also said many other hurtfull thing and i dont know what i did to disreve this nd im 13 (link)
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Ouch! He's acting immature
Im sorry you were treated this way and you were hurt!
Sweetie,if this is is hurting you,reach out to your friends,especially those who arent friends with your ex and lean and cry.
I know its hard,but crying heals the soul and the heart! All the best!
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Hi! :) I feel like I am ready for my very first pair of sexy high heeled shoes, but I am also afraid. You hear stories about people falling off their shoes and breaking their ankles or something like that? Can people who have worn them before please tell me everything I need to know about wearing heels before I buy the wrong kind or make some other mistake? Please?
Thank you! (link)
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Congrats on new heels!!
Ouch! Yes,they hurt!! So here are some ideas!!
Heels come in different heights so try differents heels with different heights to them,walk around with them.You may want to wear pantyhose for added support.
If you are unsure about buying,go to a thrifstore and try on some shoes! Slightly used shoes have already been broken in and may be more comfortable,make sure of course you wipe the soles clean!!
Also,if make sure you break into them so your shoes can feel more comfy!
Good luck!!!
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Basically, I had these 3friends in 8th grade and I was on a trip. My day was going really horrible. And I saw one of my "friends " was making fun of one of my favorite bands. So, I got really mad because she knew what they meant to me. They had helped me to try to stop cutting and to try to better myself. I was going through such a rough patch at that point of my life. I had no dad growing up and it was being constanly brought up. So, I started getting angry at my friend for saying all that bad stuff about the band. I told her off really bad. I told her "well your dad isn't any better he cheated on your mom. So he must not be content with you. With she replied by saying something among the lines "well at least he didn't leave me. You're pathetic " and so forth. Then, she made fun of my sexuality and about my cutting. That's when I completely snapped becausr she knew I was getting a lot about that at home with family(sexuality ). So I don't know what even caused me to say this but, I said "you're so pathetic maybe if you would be a better daughter your dad wouldn't have cheated on your mom to have other kids" . Then a couple of our friends heard the argument and started siding with her. And we're like attacking me verbally. Saying all this "well don't go home and try to kill yourself you lesbian bitch." to wich i replied "She should be the one that kills herself she's stupid and irrelevant. She is just as bad as me . I am a bitch but so is she . She always brought the bad things in my life. I had enouhht"And I got so angry and this fight carried on for about another hour or so. I just kept at it with them. And it turns out they might be going to a friend's party in 2weeks. I haven't seen them in about 10months. I'm scared about what's going to happen when I do see them again at the party. (link)
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Go strut your stuff sister!! Don't talk to them1
There is a chance they won't even be there at all!!
In any case,keep your head up and be happy!!
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I keep having weird dreams and I don't know if they're anything to worry about or not. They kind of weird me out, especially since theyre so vivid and often times, violent. Most disturbingly, they involve violent acts against people I care about.
Recently, I had a dream involving my sixteen year old fraternal twin sons. My relationship with my son, Aaron hasn't been great the past year and a half or so, but for about the past month, things have been going so much better. Then Thursday night, I had a dream that my son, Joe was kidnapped. The scene my mind came up with was disturbing. He was laying on a bed on his side with his hands handcuffed behind his back, one of his ankles was handcuffed to the bed, he had duct tape over his eyes, and they way he was begging to be let go was heart breaking. He was stabbed in the leg, had the palm of his hand slashed, and was either shot or shot at before Aaron ran in to help and was stabbed in the neck right through the carotid artery. They both survived and when I woke up, even though it was just a dream, I felt so much closer to Aaron and so much more protective of both of them.
I take a certain vitamin for metabolism that happens to be a natural blood thinner and Friday, I took a higher dosage of it than usual. Friday night, I had a dream that I was shot three times in the head, but all the bullets did was destroy my scalp. In wasn't what you would call realistic, but all of the skin on the top of my head was missing and the blood pouring from my head was like water. People tried to help me, but I bled to death and if that isn't bad enough, the same exact thing was happening to my son, David. He was dying and there was nothing I could do about it.
I've had all kinds of dreams of this nature and I'm starting to wonder what that means. Am I a sick, mentally disturbed person for being able to come up with this stuff? Am I a sick mother? What could be fueling these dreams? Most importantly, how can I stop them? (link)
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Ouch! Those dreams are bad! Ive had those myself!!
Yes,vitamins and pills can affect our dreams!! In fact I would even consider it a side effect
If you must take what you are taking,take a look at what you eat at dinnertime as this can also affect you.
I reccommend eating a banana and rubbing behind your ears for 5 minutes for a more peaceful rest.
You may not be a religious person,but a prayer can help,just ask for sweet and peaceful dreams.We cant do much as individuals to protect our dreams,only the Heavenly Father can.
I believe what you would benefit from is a day at the spa because it can relax your mind and cleanse away body impurities
I also suggest,that a friend will be able to go with you and drive you home since you will be serene
I hope these suggestions help!
May your dreams be peaceful!
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So i deleted his facebook account off my friends and unfollowed him on instagram so i wouldnt see any of his posts esp the one or two with girls. And a few days after i deleted his facebook within a week he deleted my number. Can this mean that he checked my facebook to even know that i unfriended him and got mad so he deleted my number? Because when we were together before and if i turned off wifi while we were in a fight so kinda like blocking him he would be furious and be mad at me. (link)
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Oh dear! Your boyfriend is pouting!! And isnt upset and he is trying to get back at you.
It sounds like he has a bad temper and you shouldnt be around that! Blocking him may be the best thing and ask your friends if you can to shelter you in case he tries to do something else or do watever
Watever the case,I pray blessings for you that all will work out and you find someone who loves and respects you!!
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So I got fingered 7 nights in a row by my bf, and I haven't noticed my period in like 2 months and I'm too scared to tell my mom my problem so I'm going to you guys! PLEASE HELP ME!!!!! (link)
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Hi sweetie!!
Okay,calm down!
Sweetie,you need to tell your mama!!
Your period is very important and your body is not able to have it at this time.
You need to see a doctor or Gynecologist immediately. If you are shaky and dont want to tell your mom about boyfriend,although I dont advise it,just tell her your period hasnt come in a few months
Don;t let this slide,you need to see a Doctor
Be blessed!!
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What does it mean when someone says ''rather risk it all than play it safe' ? Please super curious my ex wrote this and I wanna know what it could mean. (link)
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Sounds like he wants to break a few rules,depending on what your realtionship status is,or in a realtionship he may be in.he may be wanting to sleep you,and thats maybe what he means.
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my mom is a uptight. I'm going into the freakin 8 grade and she has parental controls on the computer only giving me five min a day and barely any websites. she has 3 computers, one of which is a laptop, an iPhone, an ipod, and a n iPad! One computer was supposed to eb for the kids but then she put on all these settings.... the iPod is supposed to be my bday gift but she changed it into her extra phone. i can't do anything. she makes these dumb rules like u can't lock the door in the second bathroom which is my bathroom.i can't wear some clothes i have cause she wants to pick out my outfit when we are going to some places not every wear tho. She yells at me when i break one of her rules or talk to her while she's on her electronics cause she says I'm disgracing her. I get it when she s coin bills but when she is on Facebook?WHAT! it makes me feel like I'm doing something bad all the time cause I'm used to so much yelling.WDID? (link)
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Ouch! My mamma did so weirdo things when I was in 8th grade too!!
5 minutes is punishment! Suggest to your mum about a computer scheduele! Like maybe 1 hour a day from 5:00 pm-6:00 pm
If it's possible,check the possibilty of getting a used No-Contract phone,like StraightTalk.They can give you unlimted everything for a super awesome deal! Check with your parents if that will be okay!
Also,maybe if youre at the store,sneakily as your dad or mom about GoogleChrome small Laptops,they are only a couple hundred dollars and very awesome and simple to use!
I hope those ideas work!
Keep your head up!
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and the more i reserve myself, the nicer they are to me, cause they assume i'm "depressed"? it's so fucking annoying. i feel like i'd be a much better parent cause i'd always try to show my kid positivity. a parent shouldn't be making their already insecure kid more insecure. i mean, they've known me my whole life. they know how i became how i became. there's just a lot, and it's just frustrating me and clearly i have issues or i wouldn't be asking strangers for help on the internet. sometimes i just want to abstain from talking completely just cause my parents don't often make conversations enjoyable, when they should. i want family time to be more enjoyable. i hate hearing my parents argue over stuff, too, it just gets to me and i have to play music loud to drown it out. i'm too old for this shit. i just graduated high school, but i need a car. and i can't work til i have a car, cause my neighborhood is isolated. i just don't want another shit summer before university. (link)
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Oh dear! You are frustrated! Take a breather and slow down!!
I live very isolated myself and I understand its hard to get a job!
I'm sorry your parents arent being parents at this point.Don't wait to tell them that you need their love and support and that it doesnt help when they climb down on you!
If you do need a car,maybe I suggest,in some places,they can offer you a type of plan that you can make some kind of payment upfront,even for those who dn't have jobs,many car dealers (Used ones) will be more generous because they want to make a sake.
Is there maybe a public bus that comes nearby your house that you are able to take to go find a job? Check for a bus scheduele and see if that is available
Make clear to your parents also that you are trying to make better changes for your life and try to communicate better with you and see if they can help you out
Be blessed!
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So I just saw this thing online saying "feelings that come back are feelings that never went away"... and I'm confused because I liked this guy (Zack) and well yeah I liked him for a few months back in late 2011 and then I started getting these new feelings for this other guy. I really really did like this guy and I guess you can say we were friends around that time until the next year, we stopped being "friends"... and also when I stopped liking Zack, I was friends with him too. And I guess whenever he would talk to me I would smile? Idk. Then yeah 7th grade came and I stopped talking to the both of them but I still talked to Zack like every other month and it would be like a "hi" and idk it would make my day... but I still liked the other guy.. and I still did through 7th grade and 8th grade.. then during the end of 8th grade I stopped liking the other guy because he was being an a hole and yeah but like a week before i found out he was an ass, I started getting these feelings from Zack.. like that week before, he would be around me and close to me a lot and I liked it and I just started developing those feelings because he was 'close' to me and was around me during that week which was weird because he and i never really talk anymore. But I remember when I was crying over that a hole, I was thinking of Zack and I quickly got over that guy (took a day or two) which was weird because I liked him for over 2 years... but yeah... then my feelings for Zack started to grow and grow and grow. and I don't know... so have i always had feelings for him? like deep down? even tho i liked another guy? (link)
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Oh my dear!! Your heart needs to take a breather. Your gut is more stable than your heart.Our hearts can be fickle sometimes.
Take time to really think about this,youre young and there's no rush for anything.
How does this young man that you like feel? Does he feel like you do,do you have fun together?
If he makes you happy,take it slowly step by step,because boys mature later than girls do,so he may not be up there in emotions as you might be
Be blessed and I wish you well!
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Hi, I am a 13 year old girl and I have big dreams of becoming a famous singer & actress. I have a YouTube account, and I think it's the only way to show my talent to people. I have scripts from movies, but I don't have any other friends who could act in front of a camera with me. Some are scared because of "privacy issues", and others aren't really into acting. Do I just need to act out the whole script by myself and post that on to YouTube? (link)
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Im getting into the industry and I have some good news for you! Please talk to your parents first before doing anything or submitting any paperwork!
For singing,I reccommend doing a cover song and posting it on Youtube and ask friends and family to invest money promoting it on Youtube and getting more views on it! Alot of big name managers look at Youtube videos to find new stars all the time!
For acting,I highly reccommend the website:
Onesourcetalent.com
They are a talent agency that help get you into acting and work along with you and can call you up wenever someone of your age and looks are needed.
I hope that helps and good luck!!
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Jist of what happened in the past
- I liked his best friend, same college
- We met and even though things got messed up ended up liking each other
- Started dating when he passed out (im still doing my undergrad)
- we have been dating a year. I'm 19 he's 22
- our parents know about us and we have met both sides
- we met in college and then he passed out and started giving exams
- he couldn't clear the exams he gave so his parents got paranoid about him going on the wrong path or getting distracted because of me
- he promised his mom hed clear the last exam for us to prove to her he can do something
- he started working with this ngo in town so we would see each very often
- our friends knew and he even told his best buds that he'd marry me if we continue dating for a while
- we never had any problems even though he is a bit flirtatious with other women he was loyal to me
- Had a few fights because of the guys friends I had but it was all sorted out
A week back since I'm on vacation across the country he texted me saying that his result came out and he didn't clear it so he had to break up to concentrate on his career
He said he still loved me but he had to let this go since we were mad about each other. He said he hoped we got back together but couldn't promise anything for the future and didn't want to give me false hopes.
He said I was the best thing that happened to him. He also said his parents raised him and he needs to make them proud by achieving something in life and hence he needs to give up all the distractions in his life.
Its been a week and he wouldn't answer any of my calls or messages and has completely cut off. He told his friends he called it off and didn't give a reason and he wouldn't reply back to my friends at all.
I don't know what to do. I want him back because I love him even if it involves waiting but I don't know what is going on in his mind. I am also scared out of stupidity hed go any do something really reckless to get over me.
I don't know what to say to him when we meet when I get back but I am willing to do anything to rectify this. Do you have any advice as to why this happened and it could truly get him back? Or am I living in a dream world where fairytales exist and he is truly over me? (link)
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I want to cry with you! I have been in your shoes before my dear!
He has sadly been influenced by his career driven parents.Its seems unfair and him failing in his schoolwork has eventually come up to take it out on you!
Its very possible that he's trying to get all his achievements together so he can be with you and he doesnt want any distractions.
Its also very possible,and even though he cut you off,he was trying to save you from further hurt of maybe lashing out at you because all this work of school is starting to be stressful to him.
I know you are hurting,but please hang around your friends and people love and support you.If its possible to hand him a note,or get a friend to send him a note that you've written that you love him and watever is on your heart.
I wish you well my dear!
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To start off I'm 20 years old (well officially in August anyways) and I've been with my fiance a year and one month. We met at a bowling alley and four months later we were getting a place together. We've lived together ever since and he proposed to be on our one year anniversary.
I love him more than I ever thought I could love anybody. He's my very best friend and I die inside thinking of him not being in my life.
Something is wrong though and I don't think I can go through with marrying him. We haven't been intimate in almost three months and more and more I find myself aggravated with him. He's not the dream man I pictured married and I know there is no such thing as perfect but all of my friends think I can do better. He plays video games every night for hours as soon as he comes home from work, he throws his clothes everywhere, refuses to shower more than once every several days, brushes his teeth seldom, he won't clean and he can't cook. Lately I've been wondering where all his money is going as he never seems to have more than $50 even though he makes around 2k a month and he only has to pay half our bills (which if I do the math doesn't add up) since I pay the other half. He always has to have the last word and thinks he's right 100% of the time. His arrogance is equal to his ignorance and he has no remorse for the sick or dying. He hates my parents and hates all my friends.
However he's as funny as can be and charming, he's sweet to me and loving when I really need him to be, he tolerates my bad moods and has always been very loyal to me. He has his own car and like I said previously has a full time job and pays his side of the bills which is a plus for people as young as us.
I do all the cooking and the cleaning and I pay my half of the bills, I also work full time and have my own car and more bills than he does and I know at times I can be a handful as I tend to be a bit emotional. I support him in everything he does and love him no matter what he does, I always forgive him and find ways to make our life better.
Lately I feel things haven't been going well. He seems to be listening to me less and less and playing video games with his friends more and more. He comes home from work late and doesn't seem to want to spend much time with me though he insists he loves me when I confront him about it. I'm growing tired of his childish and gross ways and I don't want to spend the rest of my life playing mommy.
Last night an old friend I used to speak to before I even met my fiance came back into my life. I'll be honest I met him online but texted him for years and got to know him. I stopped talking to him for about a year and half maybe two years and last time I spoke with him I felt like he was the one for me and that we had so much in common but at that time the circumstances were all wrong. I was still living with my parents and didn't even have a car to see him with or any freedom at all really and noting to offer to a relationship. Obviously now I do and he's made it evident he's still very interested in me and yes, I've told him about my fiance and everything else. He has the dream job, the dream car, he makes a lot of money, he's very intelligent and boasts about all the places he's been and wants to take me to. The only thing that doesn't seem right is the fact that he isn't and hasn't been in a relationship as long as I've known him or at least not one he's come clean about. He's told me of a fling and that's it and said he didn't feel about her like he did about me and that he didn't want to lead her on. If he has such a perfect life then why doesn't he have super models flocking all over him and why is he interested in me? He's sent me flowers, chocolates and a teddy bear before and wrote my name on his lamborghini in snow one winter and sent me photos...
He seems to be everything I'm actually looking for and because he's much older (in his 30's) than my current fiance he's also much more mature. The temptation to see him is weighing on me and I feel like if I miss the chance to know how we would be together I'll regret it and wonder about it forever. I want to at least meet him and I've already discussed bringing a friend with me if I did to ensure my safety and he was fine with that. However I don't want to throw away my current relationship either as I said before I love my fiance but I don't want to waste my life with him either when I could have been looking at my soulmate this entire time and never even took the chance...
A life spent with him (even if not permanent) seems much more beneficial than a life spent trying to make something of myself in my current relationship but how do I even go about finding out how real this guy is without the potential of getting myself killed or something and how do I know if my current relationship is worth sticking around for?
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Honey,you arent happy! You have ana amzing oppourtunity to be happy!! Your fiance doesnt seem like he make you happy or support you and I don;t see him giving you much personal support.
This man that is in your life is very serious,and its a sign that you should end things with your fiance before it goes any further.
Regarding your fiance,does he know about this other man? Will your fiance support you in watever you want in life? Is he mature enough to handle the rest of his life with you?
Bottom line,if it feels wrong to stay with your fiance,listen to your gut and heart and sit down face to face with your fiance and gently tell him you cannot go through with this
Be blessed in watever you choose!
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