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I never feel like going to school. What can i do in the morning to make me go to school??? (link)
Everybody feels like they don't want to go to school somedays. I would just say try to bring something fun to school or make a suggestion to yor teacher to try and make school more fun like more recess time or soemthing.

Hope I helped, Alli!


Does anyone know of any stores I can go to to find really cute cowgirl boots and a cowgirl hat.
I'm going to a country concert (Gretchen Wilson) so I want to look cute and dress the part.
Please and Thanks! (link)
No I do not know a place to get cowgirl stuff. I might be able to recommend you google, put in "Where can I find a store in (the state you which you live) that sells cowgirl stuff.

Hope I helped, Alli!


From June 6 through the 27 I traveled to the UK. During the middle of my trip my BF emailed me and said he was leaving to go to Iowa to visit his Grandma. He was taking his best friend Felix. When I got home from the UK, I emailed my BF because I assumed he was home. He didn't reply. So I waited and waited (I also kept emailing him). This went on for about 1 month. Finally I emailed Felix and asked if the were home yet. He replied the next day and said they'd been home for weeks. I was FUMING!!! He was at home all this time. Why won't he email me. I never said anything mean or bad to hurt him, and I feel so sad. Does anybody know why he'd do this?

*** I can't call him because his dad has a very demanding job and needs the line open all the time. (link)
I think you should go to his house and ask him what is up! Why would he ignore you like that!!! If I were you I would definatley find out what is going on. I can not believe he would do this to you. Good luck!
Alli


does anyone know where you would to go order a manikin with certain dimmensions? Don't say eBay please, they don't have manikins with the right dimmensions. Thanks for the help (link)
go to google an ask where you can get manikins



my boyfriend and i have been going out for 4 months now. he has a lot of girl friends and has never cheated. he's absolutely perfect and i love him in everyway. whenever he hangs out with his girl friends i get worried. i dont know how to shake the feeling. i trust him, i know he is friends with them but i get jealous a lot. what should i do? i dont want to make him not see his friends. (link)
You should try to not worry. They are just his friends and so you shouldn't worry. Don't make him not see his friends but maybe after he hangs out wiht his friends ask wha he did. Once you hear what they did you should be ok. I am not sure what to do to not worry. Sorry. Hope i helped!
Alli


I think I'm gonna pierce my own ear.


I have it pierced twice and my cartilage...but yea...how do I make the needle or w.e clean? (link)
DONT IT KILLS your ear can difnatly get infected.



ok my boyfriend has high blood pressure and is at a high risk for heart attacks and strokes. Twice this week he has like held his heart and started breathing slow and stuff and he was in pain during those, and everytime i ask him whats wrong he says nothing and for me not to worry about it. Does anyone know what this could be. im just really worried.
thanks. (link)
Thre ist really an answer for this. I am sorry but he could be very sick you just dont know that yet. Take him to a doctor. He might need a pace maker or something like that.


does anybody know any LACROSSE STicCK TRICKS?
these are the ones i know so far..

*catch it on the other side
*hit it on the handle part, and catch it
*and throw it, make a circle around it, aand catch it
*throw it, put the stick between your legs and catch it

anyone know anymore?? websites are good too (link)
*throw the ball up in the air really high and then throw the stick not as high as the ball though. When you catch the stick the ball will come soon after.




Hey- so i really like this boy and he likes me alot too and we flirt alot when we hangout and on the phone and online and everything, but my friends always tell me to make the first move because i want to makeout with him but hes very shy and doesnt like to jump on girls..any advice?
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One step at a time once you start to like like eachother the time will come. You will just open so many doors for eahother. Time will just fall right into place.




Well, I am trying to get in shape for cheerleading but now I have a sprained ankle so I cant run but I go biking everyday and im curious on how I can get skinny again. (link)
Biking is a great source of excersize! Maybe when you go biking where sweat pants an a jacket, that way you can get sweaty...the hotter the better. You lose calories when you sweat. There is a 1,000 calories in a pound. In any sport you sweat in then you are losing weight non-stop. If that doesn't help e-mail me back. Hope it did!!!



i hav a bf and hes rly sweet and nice, but i like neva get to see him cuz he lives in another town. wenever i go someplace and see a cute guy i always wanna flirt. is that bad since i already hav a bf? and since i wanna flirt wit otha ppl, does that mean i dont really like my bf as much as i thought? (link)
I don't think it means that you don't like your bf as much as you thought. I think it just means that since your bf isn't around all the time it almost feels that you don't always have a boyfriend. It is okay to feel this way. Don't worry! Good luck.
Alli


Okay this is kind of hard to explain but you know when you search Google for certain specific things and after you are done with the search, the context in which you searched remains in the Google box's history. For example, let's say I searched one day for the terms "latest DVD releases." Then the next day I start to search for something different, but begins with the letter "L" like maybe "Little Mermaid" or something like that and as soon as I type the letter "L" the phrase "latest DVD realeases" pops up as well as some other things I searched for weeks ago and you can even scroll through and see what all you have searched for, aka the "history." Well is there any way I can delete the history for the Google box? It's annoying to see all those things pop up before I search. I don't think it has anything to do with the web page history that all computers have because I just totally cleared it out but the Google hostory things still exists. How can I deleted that or does is just go away by itself? Sorry if I didn't explain that very well. (link)
You cant just go to the info bar you need to go to www.google.com itself and then nothing else will pop up there. Hope I helped.



My friend Tracee has had a couple boys this past year. I have not really, but I am not jealous. I don't try to get guys to like me because I haven't really found anyone I really like this past year. Thing is, I've heard that she's been saying stuff behind my back about it. That supposedly like no boys like me and I have no "expierence" and I don't know guys at al she supposedly said to my one friend. Like, if I don't care about it, why does she? Should I say something or let it go? (link)
Maybe she thinks that she doesnt need you anymore but in the long run when she really needs you, you have moved on to bigger and better things. When she wants to talk to you ask her why she is acting like this and that you can't be friends with her if she is trash talking you like that! Just say you need friends who stay loyal. Hope I helped!



Okay, I feel like my friend doesnt need me anymore. Because a long time ago we used to talk like 24/7! and he used to call me all the time and he used to talk to me on the computer all the time. But now it just seems like he doesnt ever have time for me. I need help to get over this! And p.s-i forgot to mention that i like this guy more than just a friend! (link)
Maybe he doesnt need tou anymore because he is on to bigger and beter things such as a job a girlfriend and dont get me wrong I ebt you are a greay person and all but you need to stop thinking that you like him nd buckle down!! YOU CAN'T LIEK ANOTHER GUY!



everytime i am around people, im constantly looking in mirrors and if i see a major flaw i cant have as much fun the rest of the time im with them if i know i cant fix it right then! also when i dont have makeup on or it rubs off because of sweat, im embarassed and dont want guys to look at me and i kinda sit there staring into space. i also look in my reflection into car windows when im walking to my boyfriends house..and its gotten so bad that last week i saw my reflection and realized my makeup looked orange so i ran back home and told him i could hang out anymore!! how do i stop obsessing over looking bad? well.. ANY advice on this topic will be appreciated! (link)
You ar probably a really beautiful girl you are just at a time in life that you need to look pretty in front of everyone. Just think some kids are out there and they have braces and glasses and are over weight and nobobdy likes them. I bet that isnt you, I bet if you have a boyfriend you have alot of friends. No dumping your boyfriend was a little out of hand because you wouldnt be going out if he thought yo were ugly and looks dont matter. He liked what was on the inside, love, a pretty smile, a pretty laugh,a great girl. You just don't see that in your self yet. But other people do. Just give it time and if this doenst pass in a bout a year then yu e-mail me back. And I will definately be able to help you.




Hey! 14/f/california w/ "Mild" Cerebral Palsy in Both legs.

So, I really want to get into a sport,preferably a team. I am not in a wheelchair i can walk and run(pretty well). I would rather not be on a team for disabled people, but that might be might be kind of cool, i guess. I already horseback ride and i have been my whole life.
I was thinking about archery, because i have done that before in PE. But is that done on a team? So i Guess i am just looking for segestions on team sports that i could do that dont invole to much running.

Also, i am going to be a freshman this coming year an it would be nice to be on a school team but if not thats alright.
Thanks so Much to any one who tries! (link)
You should definatly try volleyball there is not much running only when you are going for then ball! I love volleyball. If you aren't into that maybe you can try tenis there isnt much running involved. Hope I helped!!




I am in cheerleading and we have a competetion in a few months (like 3) Im not sure how to get into shape quickly. Like I weigh 150 lbs and im trying to get down to 140 or 135. I used to weigh 114 and I got sent to a program and I came out 160. Ive lost 10 lbs in a month in 1/2 but it wasnt on purpose! (link)
I dont really know what you are asking advice for. So I really can't help you. E-mail me back with your problem that you need a solution for and then I can answer it!


A good friend of mine recently just told me that he has feeling for me that go beyond our friendship. I had to turn him down and tell him that I couldn't be more than just friends with him. Not because he's not a good guy, don't get me wrong, he's pretty hott, funny, fun, sweet; he's a great guy. I just can't see myself in a relationship with him since we're such good friends. And not only him, but anyone of my male friends (I'm a girl by the way, if you haven't caught on--16).


It's like, once a guy reaches the "friend zone" with me, thats it, I can't date him. I mean, I tell my best frineds (guys and girls) everything from guys I've dated and done things sexual with to why my sister and I got into a fight. They've also seen me at my worst whether it be just woken up, havent shaved my legs in a while (haha), or in an argument with a parent. True, a boyfriend should know almost everything about you and will end up seeing you in those situations but as the relationship builds. Plus if I my best friend becomes my boyfriend then who am I going to complain to guys about?


Does anyone else feel this way or do you think I should give this guy a shot even though I do think this about friendships? Because honestly, if he had told me before we became such good friends I probably would have gone for it.
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I think you should give this guy a shot. You don't know maybe you will start to feel the same way about him as he feels about you. You stil have other friends to tell everything to and you can still be close to him. Go for it. Hope everything wirks out!
Alli


I really need to lose weight before volleyball... i'm 5'8 and 125 and i wanna be around 115 or 110 so like how can i lose weight fast???? (link)
excersize and eat right, small portions, NO JUNK FOOD!!



Hi, everyone. I'm a 15 year old male, and so is this girl I like. I honestly don't know why I am attracted to her. She is overweight, and that's just a turn off for me, like most other guys. But beside the few extra pounds (actually about 30), she's gorgeous. (or so I think) She had chestnut colored brown hair, and paleish skin in contrast. Her blue eyes are amazing. We sat next to eachother in biology all of last year, as the teacher never changed the seating arrangement. We talked a lot, and I'm very shy, so it was a change for me. She talked to me first, and from then on we became very good friends. She bought me a cake on my birthday & gave it to me in class. She laughs at everything, so I don't know if she thinks I'm funny, or not. But I love it. I love talking to her, I love her laugh, I love how random she is, how different, how uncaring of what people think. (dont get me wrong, shes not a geek or anything, shes in with all the right kids, shes just overweight). I couldn't tell if she liked me, but there's something about her that makes me want to be with her all the time. As I said, this would be awkward for me, because she is overweight, and my friends would definitely have fun teasing me/her over that. I don't know what to do, I asked her for her number & aim screename, so I have those now. Whenever I see her get online, I IM her. I told her when I was doing driving school so she could maybe sign up. I think I'm just confused on what to do. Why is it I'm so attracted to her? Should I tell her how I feel? What about my friends? (link)
Dear Interesting Girl,
DO NOT care what your friends think. I think you should tell her hw you feel and if they dont understand why you like her for her insides then they dont understand you and you shouldnt be friends if they make fun of you. You shouldnt be afraid of what your friends think maybe they will like that you have guts an ask her out or maybe they will make fun of you but that is the chance that you have to take. IF they make fun of you then you need to put your foot down and talk to them. At least you dont like her because she is over weight you are a good guy to like her for the inside, I say "right on"! I definately think you should ask her out because you are a good guy and I know she will like you because she knows you are a nice guy for not liking her for her weight. GO AHEAD AND ASK HER OUT!!!!!!!!





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