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boyfriend troubles
my boyfriend and i have been going out for 4 months now. he has a lot of girl friends and has never cheated. he's absolutely perfect and i love him in everyway. whenever he hangs out with his girl friends i get worried. i dont know how to shake the feeling. i trust him, i know he is friends with them but i get jealous a lot. what should i do? i dont want to make him not see his friends.
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you probably have less to worry about from his friends than you would from a random girl. i mean hes friends with her, if he wanted a relationship with her hed be in one with her, and not with you. he chose you, you won, he doesnt want anyone else.
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You should try to not worry. They are just his friends and so you shouldn't worry. Don't make him not see his friends but maybe after he hangs out wiht his friends ask wha he did. Once you hear what they did you should be ok. I am not sure what to do to not worry. Sorry. Hope i helped!
Alli
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let him know that you get jealous. tell him that its not that you dont trust him, you dont trust the other girls. everyone gets jealous and im almost positive that he gets jealous when hes w/ you. its better to let him know that to have these feelings build up inside too much that when you finally tell him, something may happen that you dont want. my boyfriend of 8 months and i let eachother know everything and are actually in the same situation, but you cant chang his friends. talk to him, conversation is the key to a strong relationship...
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Try telling him that for some weird reason it's not easy for you to know that he is hangin wit some other chicks...explain to him that even though you trust him, you can't trust other girls...guys, even the perfect ones, are known to be weak under pressure. but since he hasnt cheated i doubt he will so dont trip so much =)
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how about next time he hangs out with them you can go with him. this way if you get to know them you might trust them and him better.
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I totally understand where you're coming from. My last boyfriend was the same way. Lots of female friends that he spent time with and it made me uncomfortable too. Ask if sometime maybe you can come along without seeming controlling or whiny. Make sure he doesn't think you think he's cheating just try to...you know, merge your friendships a little. It's a good thing to do.
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i know exactly how you feel. My boyfriend has tons of friends that are girls. and i always get nervous about what hes doing if he hangs out with them. What i suggest is, maybe ask to come with him some of the times. Become friends with his friends that are girls, then maybe you can learn to trust them too. Or just talk to him about it and tell im it worries you, and when he does hangout with his girl friends, just ask him what he did so your reasured. hope i helped
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You don't got the right to not make him see his friends.
If he has never cheated, why are you worried? You shouldn't be. Hanging out with girls when you have a girlfriend..there is nothing wrong with that.
You shouldn't worry, you said he has never cheated and I will assume you trust him, so don't give it a second thought.
I hope I helped.
-Ryan
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