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Making the first move..


Question Posted Wednesday July 12 2006, 2:35 pm

Hey- so i really like this boy and he likes me alot too and we flirt alot when we hangout and on the phone and online and everything, but my friends always tell me to make the first move because i want to makeout with him but hes very shy and doesnt like to jump on girls..any advice?
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Alli answered Friday July 14 2006, 11:30 am:
One step at a time once you start to like like eachother the time will come. You will just open so many doors for eahother. Time will just fall right into place.


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co0o0kieCRISP answered Friday July 14 2006, 10:28 am:
think about this... most guys like it if the girl makes the first move, and sense hes shy, he'll probably love it! when you guys are talking like on the phone or something, ask him if he just wants to go to the show or something, just the two of you and kinda scope out how things go from there. be aggressive!! (but not a rapest! lol)

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BEAUTiFUL_LOVEx answered Wednesday July 12 2006, 4:50 pm:
You def. dont want it to be awkward, so just start being closer to him .. just laying on him when your at places & when its dark & the moments right just lean up and start kissing him. If he really likes you alot too, i'm sure he'll enjoy it & start kissing you back, and then from there you can makeout. Dont take it super fast tho, if the boys shy you might have to wait a while. Well good luck & hopefully that helped! :]

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jkiser answered Wednesday July 12 2006, 4:01 pm:
I think you should just take it slow. Don't rush to it. Just talk to him and be yourself and get to know him very well. As you meet more, things will just fall into place. When the time is right, it will happen. Just be patient.

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jacksizzle answered Wednesday July 12 2006, 3:32 pm:
just do it haha thats it. just say i want to make out and go forward before it becomes awkward. do it when you two are alone tho.

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I_am_Neo answered Wednesday July 12 2006, 3:08 pm:
He'll make out with you when he's ready. Patience is the best thing in this particular time so just wait, maybe get a little closer to him i dunno.

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ItsLOVEmakeitHURT answered Wednesday July 12 2006, 2:59 pm:
my advice is..
get really close to him to where you guys are shoulder to shoulder like when your sitting down or something..maybe when watching a movie is good..grab his hand and hold it..then lay ur head on his shoulder.. and when the time is right gently give him a kiss and maybe it will continue on until you start making out..

hope i helped

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adviceismylife2 answered Wednesday July 12 2006, 2:56 pm:
Hey so if you know he really likes you then you should make your move before another gurl does.Tell him how you feel just follow your heart.

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GateKeeper answered Wednesday July 12 2006, 2:50 pm:
Alright, my advise is this, don't jump straight out and makeout with him, but a kiss is good and isn't to much of a leap so as it's still safe, so give this lucky guy a kiss if you feel it's right and see where it goes.
Goodluck
Jon a.k.a GateKeeper

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