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awkward silence
16/f
tomarrow im supposed to hang out with a boy i really like. but i dont know what to talk about with him. i know he likes me too, and we are on the verge of going out..but i dont want there to be an awkward silence or anything..i know his favorite sports and everything..so idk.. what strikes up a good conversation and how can i get him to ask me out soon??
thanks in advance
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Hi, what usually strikes up a conversation is an introduction. Something like "hi, hows your day?" or "hey, how are things?". You can't make someone ask you out, but you can encourage their thoughts by showing signs of flirting or basically interest. He should then be able to pick up if your interested and if he's interested too he should make the first move. Daniel.
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heyy! i so know how u feel. me and my boyfriend always have awkward silence and last night i fell asleep on the phone with him. lol. well anyways ask him about his family, friends, and what are his plans for the future. ok. but right after you ask those questions it will seem like there is nothing more to talk about, but don't worry. everyone gets stuck. but there is always something to talk about. and just be your self around him dont try to act weird and inmature. ok??
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OMGSH, first of all I just want to tell you that I'm so happy for you!
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Well, maybe get to know him even better, ask questions about him.
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You could talk about: TV Shows, Music, Summer, etc. If there is an awkward silence [[what I do when theres an awkward silence]] I either laugh and they'll ask why [[guys love it when you smile]] and like, remember a funny remember. Remember the good times.
<br/> Hope I helped *&& GOOD LUCK!
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♥ Christina
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hey--
sometimes akward silences happen, but instead of thinking of it as akward or weird, hurry and think of something that you both are interested in or just ask him a question and hopefully that will lead on to more conversations such as whats your favorite sports, how are they going, ask him about his family or friends, school, and many more! good luck!
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Talk about sports, music, movies, books, TV shows, websites, hobbies, personal experiences etc. that you both share or have an interest in. Conversation always leads from one topic into the next if you keep it going. Don't talk too much about yourself though.
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When you talk to him, just be yourself. Just pretend that he is a friend of yours. If you think about it, he is going through the exact same thing. Just be relaxed and be yourself. If he don't like you for who you are, then he isn't worth going out with. So just be yourself and everything will turn out great.
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haha! so girls worry about this as much as guys! anyway what i find useful is just to not worry about it. The more you worry, the more frantic and speech-like your conversation will tend to be. So try this; protend he is one of your old friends, someone your most confortable with, and just go with it. Talk about anything and dont think about silences. When ever u worry the more you precieve normal pauses as silences.
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Somthing possible worse than an awkward silence is an awkward convo. so rather than just being thrown lines, be spontanious, this boy like you for you, and part of you is what you talk about and what you are like in conversation, so rather than be fed lines here, simply talk to him about stuff going on, somthing you want to talk about to him or somthing you feel will hold well, be yourself
GoodLuck
Jon a.k.a GateKeeper
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