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hay im adina and im a cheerleader at lewisville high school. i love giving advice so ask me anything!!

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aarrrgg!! okay i kno this is wrong but it makes me sooo mad! okay so i am an only shild and everyone thinks that yea i am spoild but im not! my parents work soo hard to make shua im not spoild that i barley get anything! i mean they give me the basics you knoe clothes shelter and food. well i always have to save up my own money for anything that i want. like last summer i wanted a trampoline so i worked really hard and i save up money and bought my trampoline. well my best friend saw that i got one so she asked her parents to get her one and they did! well yea i was disappointed cuz i worked really hard and she just had to ask for it. this went on when i saved up for my cell phone and this really cute sweat shirt and with designer bags and everything!! aarrgg!!! why is everyone soo spoild! idk i prolly sound like a brat but i feel like im being cheated! and she always get the sam exact thing as me the very next week!
help me please

you should be happy with what you got. i understand you would like to have the things others have, but you have to understand not everyone is as lucky as others. some day you will have alot, and you will totally deserve it because you won't take it for granted like others would. there isn't anything you can do about your friend.. you can't stop her from wanting things.

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my brother and i used to be extrmely close even though he is 14 yrs older than me. but after he found "the love of his life" he seems lik he doesnt even no who i am. when he got engaged i cried and when he was married i wanted to die. we can never seem to talk about anything and hes always saying how stupid i am for going out w/ my bf bc he doesnt live by me. hes wife is super awasome and i love her and all but sometimes its lik its her fault. everytime someone talks bout my brother i get rele upset and when they compare us i always say since you think hes so much better than me go get him to do it. i hate it bc everyone asks why ben (my brother) and i dont spend that much time together anymore. and hes having a child and im afraid hes going to rele forget about me. he relationship w/ everyone else hasnt changed only w/ me. when i was little and i cried when i had a nightmare hed come in my room and sit w/ me till i went to bed but when i my first bf broke up w/ me he told me to shut up and get over it. and it rele hurt bc i used to be able to turn to him when i was sad but now i cant. i rele dont no what im asking but do you think r realtionship will ever be the same? or how can i tell him how i feel? thanks and sry bout the length

yeah i'm kind of going through the same thing. me and my older brother were really close, but ever since he moved out and fell in love, i barley see him. it was hard, but i realized he has to grow up and it's part of life. we don't do the stuff we usually did, and we barely even talk! but i know he will always be there for me and love me no matter what! just learn to move on.. life changes and you have to accept that. oh, and about your brother calling you stupid for having a boyfriend who doesn't live by you.. don't listen. you do what your heart tells you to, all your brother is trying to do is just look out for you. and there isn't anything wrong with that!

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okay my boyfriend didnt get me ne thing for christmas and i feel kinda guilty for getting him something...and now i got a ring in the mail from someone and i dont kno who it was from...what should i tell my boyfriend when he asks...that is if he asks?

don't feel guilty! you were being a sweet girlfriend by giving him something for christmas! it shouldn't be all about "i got you something so you have to give me something." ya know? ask him if the ring you got in the mail is from him! it probably is..

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Im 13 years old and I just started jr. high. I'm in the 7th grade. The problem is that I have no friends and I don't know how to make any. I've tried to be social, but no one seems to want to talk to me. I'm in all honors classes, and the girls in the honors classes are all rich and white and popular. I don't really like them anyway, but i have every class with them. Thankfully, i have 1 really good friend I met this year. She dosnt have friends, either. How can I make friends? I want to be the popular girl i was in elementary.

why do you care so much about popularity? popularity shouldn't matter! don't let it be the number one goal in your life. it's better to have ONE good, true friend who will always be there for you, then to have FIFTY bad friends who won't always be there for you. be happy with just having one good friend.. later on in life you will make more, just give it time! and don't just be friends with someone because they are popular, that's totally stupid!

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how can i find out who asked a question?

you can't.. :/

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My brother recently kissed a lesbian, and disgusting thoughts came up in my mind, so I thought I'd just ask this question...

IF A REGULAR GUY KISSES A LESBIAN, WHAT DOES THAT MAKE THE GUY?

Please answer, don't leave me in suspense!

a guy.. look, just because he kissed a lesbian doesn't mean he is gay or anything! he is still straight, because he kissed a GIRL. now, if he kissed a boy.. he would be considered gay.

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a boy told me something i wont disclose but it was almost a threat. i told my mom who told the principal and he got expelled. that was in october and i still feel bad and guilty. people say i did the right thing but i feel bad!
plus he has my adress and he scares me. i m probably overreacting but o well. i feel guilty and scared.

you aren't overreacting! it's normal to feel scared, because I mean, he did THREATEN you! don't feel guilty though, because you did the right thing! if you haven't had told, he probably could have done something very scary to you! you saved yourself! that boy deserves to be expelled.

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what is a birthday suit?

:-x the suit you were born in.. your skin.. BARE SKIN. in other words.. if you were wearing your bday suit, you'd be wearing nothing.

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well my boyfriend never calls me or talks to me and ive talked to him about befor but it seems like he dont even care about me do you know wat i should do

you know, that's not a very good boyfriend!! if i were you i would break up with him.. especially since you have already talked to him and he hasn't done anything about it!

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okay i cant handle this anymore. how do you deal with parents that are ALWAYS fighting? i mean they wont separate they talked about it but they wont and it's beginning to tick me off because they will be good one day and then the next you know it they are fighting and it sickens me! i cant handle it anymore i feel like punching them out. please help. THANKS!

have you even talked to them about it? if you haven't, do so, because your parents should see that it's really bothering you and hurting you. they probably don't realize it's effecting you.

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I'm a moderately happy person. I'm in love, I have really supportive friends, and I have great artistic outlets for my emotions, but for some reason I keep having these reoccurring thoughts of suicide. Every time I sit by my window I think of diving headfirst into the driveway three stories below. I don't know what to think of it. Is this normal?

it is normal in a way.. everyone feels upset like that even if you are one of the luckiest/happiest people on earth. it's all because you are growing up and just getting used to the new enviroment around you. your new life. little things may seem like big things! just learn to look at the good side of things.. all the stuff that makes you happy! and remember.. you aren't alone! i know everyone has felt like that atleast once!

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I have this friend(a guy)who i really like...yesterday he came over to hang out wth me and my other friend...me and him wrestled for like an hour and he kept hugging me...he also held my hand but we were playin around so after a second of owkward silence he pushed me and we started playin mercy...im not sure if he likes me or not...Please Help!

it's obvious he is interested in you because that's flirting. ask him about it..

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A few days ago the guy I used to like asked me out... of course I said yes. Last night his friend dumped me for him. Later that night the same friend imed me saying how sry they are that they would do that to me. At first i was confused on what happened, but as they kept talking to me a realized that it was a joke. They made a bet that if i went out with him for a few days he would get money. I'm not mad b/c i still like him (now i hate him), I'm mad at them b/c they were my close friends and they thought it was ok to do something like that. The thing is, is that i'm not sure if i should forgive them, they were my friends and i know i might be sry if i never talk to them again.
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forgiving them is really up to you. i think it would be best that you forgive them because you should always forgive. god forgives you for sining.. so why shouldn't you forgive your friends for using you? i still think you should find better friends, because they aren't worth it.

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my bf isnt excactly the cutest person in the world but i love him so much. alot of the time some of my friends that i'm not that close to always ask me questions about why im going out with him. and this girls in one of my classes always says how she would only go out with a guy if he was cute. and my bf sits right behind me in that class. he's not like ugly or anything but he's not hot either. i don't know what 2 do about it when pple tell me that i shouldnt go out with him or ask me why i am going out with him. please help........

you are going to have to ignore them because there will be people in your life who are creeps and there is nothing you can do to change that. you can tell them how they need to stop bothering you about it because you were mature enough to go out with someone for their personality instead of their looks.

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I am about 10lbs underweight it may not sound like much but I'm 14 years old, 69lbs, and 4'6 feet. I am to small and are in prone to serious health risks what shall I do?

eating probably won't help much since your metablism is high.. i say you go to the doctor and ask him what kind of diet is best for you. but if you do eat.. something that can help you gain weight is to eat 500 extra calories a day. i know it's hard but you can really gain weight from that. don't eat unhealthy food.. eat healthy food that has plenty of calories. eat alot of cereal and milk to help you grow!

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ok so i have had my period for almost three years now and the first two were regular. But i had surgery in the begining of july and i had my period at the end of july. But after that i havent had it, its been 5 months and i know tis sounds crazy but i want it. It sso annoying not noing wen ur gonna get it. Is this normal after having surgery? if it is then y did i get it in july and not after?

the surgery you had probably changed how your body works.. you should see a gyno soon!

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i heard that if u stop eating u will acctually gain weight. is that true?

it actually is true.. because food speeds up your metabilism, and if you don't put any food into your system your metabilism slows down. if your metabilism slows down.. you gain weight.

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I was recently heart broken by this guy at my school. He said he liked one of my friends and now he is tellin my best friend that he wants to hang out with me and her sometime. Should i hang out with him or not because i think i'm falling for him again. And everytime i try to get over him, i see him and i'm reeled back in! What should i do?

did he ever like you? does he like you? if he doesn't i say you get over him because you probably don't have a chance with him. if he likes you and the other girls.. then maybe he is just a player? you shouldn't go for guys who are interested in other girls (too).

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this friend of mine came up to me when i was watching a movie and started playing with my dick so i played back with her. do u think she likes me or just wants my benefits?

it depends.. but most likely she wants your benefits. if she didn't, she would have got to know you better and have ya'll talk about ya'lls feelings before any of that playing.

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My best friend is pretty than me, more popular than me, smarter than me, funnier than me, just BETTER than me. And the thing is...I'm EXTREMELY jealous of her, to the point I get MAD at her when she gets more attention than me!! I mean I don't show it, but inside of me I wanna yell at her. I don't know whats the matter with me!! Today, my band teacher offered to my best friend that he would loan her the skill sax if I wanted to teach her how to play (the saxophone) so then she can join the band. I want her in band because it would be way FUNNER, but now I'm thinking I DONT want her in band. She'll be better than me, prettier than me, funner than me, and nobody will care about ME anymore! I'm so worried. But most of all I'm mad at MYSELF! I dont like getting mad and being jealous of leille but I can't help it!! Any tips on how to stop myself from getting jealous, then mad, at leille?

ok you should stop caring about what she looks like, how popular she is, how smart she is, and how she is better. because she isn't! you need to stop thinking like that and start thinking positive! if it's really bothering you, find a new friend who will make you feel good about yourself.

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