about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza


advice

Hey, I was just wondering what color eye shadow looks good with fair skin, dirty blonde hair, and greenish/blueish eyes.

HELP! thankyou. I rate 5's.

With blue/green eyes you want to use colors that are oppisite so it can make your eyes pop. Like a light brown, purples, and some greens. Just chose natrual colors and mix them together. Wear a bit of eye liner & mascara and there. =]

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i need some good masturbation ideas. i really realllllllly do

That's good to know.

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do you pee red when you are on your period?

Sometimes.

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ok see i need to know how you download aim colors like off of applesauce.com?
i dont know but i want some really neat colors.
I was wondering how everyone got the colors that you can actually customize...so thanks for your help! :)

You don't neccesaraly download colors from applesauce but you just download the program and then you're set. Go to google.com and tyle in applesauce colors and download it. It takes about 2 seconds and you won't get a virus or anything. It should show up on your desktop and then just click on it and pick a color. Make sure you're logged into A.I.M when picking a color.

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13/f

okay well my hair has been falling out for the past week and like i have a perm i do it every 3 months and whenever i comb/ brush my hair liek a big blob of my hair falls out. my hiar is like almsot shouylder lenghth but not quite, i want to have highlights bc i cant even do anything cool with my hair but i`m afraid that the cemicals will ruin my hair because it`s so thin. so like what would repair hair fast in inexpensive ways? i rate high 5`s ! thank you so much.

Your hair is really damaged and that's why it falls out so much. It's not healthy and you need to stop getting all these perms and putting these chemicals in your hair. I don't think you want to end up being bald by the time you're 20. Anyways, something inexpensive thing you can do to repair your hair is to get a trim. Get that damaged hair off and just don't do anything to it for a while. Take good care of it. Just try different hair styles and it will look better.

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okay, so i have THE best boyfriend in the world, personally i really think so. i always get so excited about it, because he treats me like a queen, so id be consider one of the luckier ones. and im not trying to sound stuck up or anything, i just get really happy aboutit. he suprises me all the time, he drives up to see me [ he lives 45 mins away ] always, he respects me, he loves me for me, i can be myself around him, all that good stuff. he also buys me all this stuff ; like jewerly. and my question is, how do i repay him ? or atleast show him that i appreciate it so much and stuff becuase he does so much and i do nothing at all. thanks in advance, and i love your hair in that picture, very pretty ! :]

You don't have to get him gifts or anything to repay him but all you have to do is be a good girl friend like you are. Show him that you appriciate all of those things and just show him that you love him. Just talk to him and do everything you've been doing. You don't need to do anything special to repay him. He wants to do those things for you because he cares about you and he doesn't mind. I'm sure he knows that you appriciate everything. & thank you. =]

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when is the right age to pluck ur eyebrows? im 13 and im not sure if i should start yet or if this is too early but then again im not really sure

I don't think there is a right age but when you feel like your eyebrows are getting bushy and you feel like they need tweezing, then pluck them.

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these past nights have been really weird because on sunday night i woke up at like 11:00 and i was sleepwalking and i took my blanket off my bed and i went downstairs to the basement and threw the blanket inside the laundry basket and my mom was like what are you doing? and i said sleeping (my mom told me i did this) and its really weird because i could just remember a little bit of it and last night i was sleepwalking again but this time i remembered it clearly. i got the sheet of my bed and i went downstairs and threw it in the laundy basket and this time my dad said what are you doing? and i said well the sheet was sweaty so i took it off. this was at midnight by the way. its really weird and its scary too. my mom says she's scared because i might sleepwalk again and this time go outside or something im really scared please help me

Honestly, I have no idea how to help you because I can't relate to this. I suggest you just call a doctor or something even though it's not medical, but he could tell you why you might be doing that. I'm sorry but I have no clue what else to tell you.

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how much of a chace is there to get pregnant with a condom?

Uhm, I really have no idea. I'm gonna take a guess and say 5%. All I know is that if you use condoms, getting pregnant is very rare.

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i really need a new screen name for AIM. n i dont want one with stuff that i like just one that is like simple i guess. but still really cute. hah . my names anna if that helps?

thanks :]

I don't do the whole screen name idea thing. I'm sorry.

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ive seen some people that have these necklaces that are black and they're a choker necklace, but its stretchable. i cant really describe it because its hard to, but it kind of braids. where do u get it at? btw they dont have them at claires because i checked

I'm sorry, but I really have no idea where they can sell those.

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Where can i get avaitor sun glasses.. the big cop ones. If you see or know who Johnny Knoxvile is and watched the show Jackass, they're the sun glasses he wears. Sorry if you already new, but do you know where i can get a pair like that?

I'm not really sure but I know that Forever 21 has them. They are different looking but thy are still avaitor sun glasses. Just look around some stores. They're in style now so you should be able to find them at a lot of places. Sorry though.

http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=sunglasses&product%5Fid=1026063557&Page=1

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what color eye shadows look good for people with tan skin, brown eyes, and dark brown hair?

Browns, greens, golds, shimmer, purples & blues. It makes them stand out and they`re a very good colors.

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i feel so self conscience, my stomach makes me look like im pregnant. i dont have a fat body, but i walk kind of with ym butt sticking out and my gut is kinda bulgy but it makes me look really fat. how can i make it look flatter?

It's simple. Exercise. People think that crunches and all that don't work because they don't stick with it and they still eat all the junk food. I'll tell you the same thing I tell everyone who asks me these questions, eat healthier. Still eat regular meals that you do, but I think you know the difference between good & bad food. Exercise and do it daily. You will get results.

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f/13
i shave down there and i get razor burn alot, how can i prevent it?

There are some tips to prevent it. This one is a little weird but still. > Sit in a bath tub for a little while so the hairs sofen up.First, shave with a sharp razor. Always shave in the direction of the hair growth. Avoid going over the same area with a razor several times because the skin is sensitive and it will cause razor burn. Use a good shaving cream.

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Okay,

So, I'm 14 and I really like this guy. We hang out a lot during the summer and I really like him but I don't know if he likes me. It's kind of a stupid question but, are there any signs that show that he likes me? Like this one time me and a few people were driving away from the pool and I we stopped the car to say bye, and he got really upset that I was leaving but I said I'd be back later and he like perked up immediantly. And when we started to drive away him and his friend turned like stopped and turned around almost to like say something else to me I guess. I keep on changing my mind to see if I like him or not but I think I like him ALOT.

&hearts

- I rate 5's btw.

It's hard to tell if someone like you even if you get some signs. He seems to be flirting with you but it could eather be in a friendship way or something more. If he always smiles at you, happy to see you, kind of pushes you, and basiclly just tons of flirting. Those are some signs. Just keep talking, hanging out and flirting and you'll find out if he likes you.

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heyy
my mom is the opposite of the kind of parent u can talk to and i really need help and dont tell me to look on google bc i dont want it to be in my history .. please tell he how to put a condum on a guy i neeeed to no thank you soo much if u answer this

Well, condoms aren't that hard to put on. The guy should do that part anyways but just take it and slide it on the penis. It's shouldn't be that complicated.

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hey :) i see that you have a lot of people asking you questions and stuff .. but when you started how did you get your site publicized so people could see it? i just made a quote site ( quotes_quotes.livejournal.com ) and i dont even know how to get poeple to look at it cauz im new at it all.

When I first started my column, I didn't really pay attention on how it got "publicized" I guess. You should have a pretty website with things that people want to look at. Put good quotes that people can relate to and just make friends with other users. They can add you to their sites and the people that visit it can check yours out. Just have a good site and people will look at it. I'm not really sure if live journal is a really popular website though but still, just have a kick ass site. =]

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hey how can i loose 10 ilbs fast? thanks. [like in 1-20 days]

You can lose 10 pounds in 3 weeks quickly. One of the most common things you need to start with is your diet. I think you pretty much hear everyone saying that a good diet and exercise is the best thing and it's true. You have to cut back on junk food. You can still eat normal foods like whatever your mom makes for dinner but have a smaller porportion. Fast food has a lot of fried things which is so unhealthy. It's all fat and oil so stay away from that. Don't drink sodas and just try eating healthy. Veggies, fruits, water and such. Veggies don't have to be gross. Cook them all together and make something out of it. Try different recepies. So, besides the eating, exercises! Move around, run, walk, do whatever as long as you try to burn off more calories then you take it. Exercise for about an hour a day. Try sticking to a 2,000 calories a day. If you stick to this, you should be loosing about 1-3 pounds a week and that's really good.

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is it possible to tan with baby oil? becuase i was at the beach and i saw this lady putting baby oil on herself and she was tanning. will u like burn urself or something? or is it okay? thanks.

Using baby oil can get you a darken tan but it's not a good idea. I don't really know how to explain.. but it kind of frys your skin. Later on it will burn and peel and it's just painful.

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