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My name is Devin Lindsey or Vinny as my sister calls me! I am 17 years old and go to Bethel Park High school. I loooove swimming along with dancing, singing, and playing softball. I also run varsity track with is alright i supose too.


My favorite colors are orange, pink, and blue. I love to be crazy and have a good time

I've had a job working for 15+ monthes so I can answer alot about that

and I know alot about relationships in general so I can be helpful with that sometimes

especially with parent child relationships


I am a very observant person and tend to know more and care about more than most my age


and I really believe in volunteering to help animals especially at shelters. Usually its not their fault that they have to live their and its usually horrible cercimstances that bring them there and I feel terrible that they can't speak for themselves and people are too caught up in spending like $500 on this cute little pure breed puppy from a breeder just into getting rich instead of giving one of these dogs another chance at life (there are usually a handful of dogs under a year old so the i want a puppy excuse doesn't work with me)

My baby is named Lainey Mae... we got her from a shelter about 2 hours away from us when she was 7 weeks old. she is now 2 years old and the center of our family. unfortunately someone was cruel enough to go down and drug up and shoot (but luckly not kill) most of the dogs plus rob the owner (just like someone did at the shelter where I volunteer) and its now shut down

advice

HOW DO I GET SKINNY??????
im 200 pounds..
please help!
dont say exersize...
please just help
i need to loose 100 pounds fast!
DONT SAY EXERSIZE I CANT DO IT.
PLEASE!!
help!! fast!
i want to be pretty..

well you are only gonna lose weight if you eat healthy and exercise and its not going to happen fast. i would say it will take atleast 6 monthes

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whats pros
and
cons??

like the good and bad of something

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I'm an 18-year-old female and lately my hair has been falling out like crazy. It's mostly when I brush it but even with just running my hand threw it, some still comes out. When I run my hand threw it's maybe like, 6 strands or so. But, when brushing it's like a wad of hair.


My hair used to be really thick and now it's like half of what it used to be about 7 months ago. That's alot of hair to loose!! I'm really scared because it seems like I'm going bald of something. My friends say it's stress but quite honestly, I have nothing to be stressed about!


Does anyone have any ideas???

do you straighten it or use alot of gel or anything? that could be it

or changes in hormones can cause your hair to fall out.

did you just start college this fall? that could be why you are stressed even if you dont feel stressed at all.

i would just ignore it until you start getting bald spots or something weird like that

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So BASICALLY Im going on a cruise in December to the Caribbean and Im really excited and all, but I dont have a lot of warm clothes! Ive outgrown my summery clothes and I live in MASSACHUSETTS so EVERY store only has cold weather clothes. And Ive tried! I mostly just need BATHING SUITS! Im thinking I probably need to order them online? That would be the best option. I leave December 23rd. Im a size 14 in bathing suits (in like kids lol) Does anyone know a website(s!) I could order bathing suits on. Ive tried obvious stores - Abercrombie, AE, etc! Please be POSITIVE they have bathing suits & in my size & Ill rate you a 5! thanks!

Thanks!

i would try spedo online or something.or try dicks sporting goods. they usually have have left over bathing suits on clearace this time of year but they are all gonna be 1 pieces for the most part

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Ok, this is a total random question and is basically for anyone who has seen a ballet. Im in my ballet studio's The Nutcracker and Im the sugar plum fairy, I was wondering should I smile? would it make it less graceful or better?

i would ask your teacher about that. if its a happy character (i havent seen the show for a while) then smile but dont make it look to fake and ask some of the other people in the show. you dont want to be the only one smiling

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i just got braces about a month ago and i keep breaking them! does anyone know how much it costs to get braces repaired? i have regular metal ones and he glue came off. i rate high

well if its the wire you broke they will replace that for free along with the bands but if its the acually braces as long as you keep them the cost should be minimal unless you broke alot of them off. if its just one or 2 they prob. wont have a prob with replacing them for free. just be more careful

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Dont know what kinda dance you do but i do Hip hop/Jazz We right now are dancing to "I like that" By Housten and chingy and nate dog. Im kinda on the begginer level. What are some other songs that would be good to dance to?

edit:: i do jazz tap and lyrical and i was on a jazz/hiphop dance team at my school last year





hmm.... i know this might sound weird but my school dance team which is a hip hop/jazz team did some dances to britney spears remixes that sounded kinda good. they would be really easy to dance to. almost any song would work as long as you have ideas for it. maybe try the song yeah! by usher. also if you can find songs without words to them work real well because they you can go at your pace and not worry about matching words with your moves. i did a dance last year to a technoish song called alarma that might work for you


good luck

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I know this sounds stupid. But when having sex. What exactly happends? I mean to girls. What do boys really do?
Thanks in advance &hearts

i dont no im a virgin

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I have a unibrow..no doubt about it..but i started shaving for at least 5 months. Im not stupid and i new that it'd grow back darker and thicker. But i just thought i'd shave it all off before anyone could see. But now it's really dark and there are black dots.How do i get rid of it?

try tweezing it or waxing it from now on

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My friend is 14/f and she wants big boobs. She's not going to get plastic surgery(thats for sure) and i keep telling her everyone goes at their own pace. She doesnt even fit into an A cup. DOes anyone know how to make their boobs bigger with out surgery and stuff?I know this may be embarrasing so dont be a smart and tease. I rate 5's for any good answers tho!

there isnt a way!

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what are some stores that sell clothing that everyone wears? (list preferred)I rate high!

hollister
abercrombie and fitch
wet seal (girls)
american eagle

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When my husband and I were first married, he promised me that if we ever had children, he would get out of the army. Two children later, he still hasn't gotten out.

The army has ended up being his life. He loves his job and has informed me that he is never getting out. He feels like his country needs him. I think this is very selfish of him to break his promise to me. The children barely know who their own father is. I feel like a single mother.

While he was in Iraq the second time, I wrote him a letter telling him I couldn't take it anymore and I was filing for divorce. I told him when he got back that I did not mean what I had said and that I was just going through a hard time with the pregnancy. Now three months after the birth of our second child, he is going back to Iraq.

I really do not want to leave this man. I love him dearly; he is my husband and the father of my children. My parents went through a divorce when I was a little girl, so I know how traumatic it is for a child.

It's hard for me to fight with him over this. The precious time he is here, I do not want to fight with him and bring up this issue. I want us to be happy with our time together and act like a family when he is here. I do not want him leaving to go to Iraq thinking that his wife might leave him. But sometimes, I feel like this relationship is just too difficult to take anymore.

What should I do? How do I cope with this?

although i can't relate to you in anyway i would remomend leaving him not divorce but something other than just saying your unhappy. if he truly loves you and his family he will find a way to make you happy and if he doesn't he isn't work wasting your time like that. let him know that there are way more other ways he can serve his country other than being at war all the time

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Hi!

I would like to know having sex how many times a day, is healthy...

Thanks.

With warm regards,

Udhay.

well if you are a guy i know your supose to have sex atleast 5 times a week to prevent cancer

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I started up a xanga page, But i dont know what to do with it. Any tips?

okay well i was gonna say put on music and a layout. if yuo go to a music or layout site you can get the codes and they will show you how to use them i have a layout site xanga.com/xdropaheartxlayoutsx go there and i will try to help you!

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Hey its me that person who wrote about sleeping with another guy and getting preganent. It isnt me its my friend and one of her other bff did that to her. So you think she should get a test done and tell him what really happened?

yeah i would think so. depends on how far along she is it may be to late/early to get it done but it is possible. and it is best if she tells him the truth even if it hurts their relationship more its gotta be done. i would recomend she takes the test results with her when she goes to talk to him

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i am 13/f and i love acting and singing and i really want a career in it! that's like all i want to do... i want to act, sing, model, dance, be a performer! this may sound really stupid... but does anyone know a way to get discovered? this is what i really want to do... and soon! thank you very much!!!

well one if you want a 'real' job you would prob have to live in los angeles or NYC is you don't already. and alot of people either get discoved being in plays or whatever or people coming up to you and asking if you want to model for them or whatever. or you can go to auditions but alot of them are scams so be careful

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well i have the sims 2 and well it doesnt work. and it tells me to REinstall it..but first i have to remove but i dont know how to. and then when i DO download it again it just stops in the middle of the download. i think it might have something to do with these 3 tiny tiny tiny scratches but that would be ridiculous because well some of my other cds work even with scratches on it. is there a way to repair scratches or if thats not the problem then what is ? O and how do you remove and reinstall the sims 2 from my computer

okay well first i heart you can fix scratches by using peanut butter to fill in the scratches but ive never tried it myself


and how you reinstall it is you go start menu programs ea games the sims 2 then uninstal and then to reinstal it go to start, set prgram access and default (on xp idk if its on anything else), add new program, then click from cd rom and thats it.

i just reinstalled it 2 days ago and thats what you do. i think when you uninstal it you get the option of keeping your saved games. if you having problems with your game i would recomend on keeping them just to make sure you get rid of everthing


if you need more help just im me DLR Jazz Machine


Devin!

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what does it mean WHEN A GIRL SMILES AT ME? when we're walking past each other, and we make eye contact, and she gives me that little smile, you all know the one. does it mean:

1. she thinks i'm cute
2. she thinks i'm hott
3. she wants to talk to me
4. she wants to kiss me
5. she wants to do dirty things to me
6. other

come on ladies, i need to know what you're thinking. i have a pic on my profile, if it helps. (i think it will).

i would think its either 1-3 unless you have known this girl for a long time especially if you flirt alot

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What if your preganent by another guy? A you told the one person you thoght you could trust. Then she went around the whole entire skool and told everybody. Then your boy friend found out, what do you do????????????/

i would sit down with my boyfriend and explain everything to him and tell him your sorry. if he doesnt believe you get one of those test done that says who the father is. chances are hes going to blow up in your face but its better he nos the truth than just rumers

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I cannot find a job anywhere. I'm 14 I live in Pittsburgh, and I can't find any jobs fit for my age in my area. I've searched on this site called teens4hire.com and there is no job for me in my area. If anyine has any information please help. I would really appreciate it.

Sincerly,

TweetyBird

hey im from pittsburgh too! well anyways i no you can get a job at mcdonalds but i havent heard anything good about that job. also you can teach swim lessons at your local indoor pool or whatever. ive been babysitting because thats like all i can find. also some places will let you be a waiter/waitress!

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