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aight well im going out with this guy who is great. but i hooked up with one of my best guy friends last night and i made out with him accidentally. i dunno what to do. should i tell my boyfriend what happened??? (link)
i think u shoul be honest with him and tell him that u did it! but tell him it will never happen again and that he's ur one and only!

*BeSs*


My boyfriend who is also one of my best friend just called me and accused me of cheating and told me never to talk to him again. I know i didnt cheat on him, what do i tell him? (link)
tell him that does he honestly think that u would eva cheat on him?! tell him that u love him and he's the only guy 4 u!!

*BeSs*


Hey...i asked a question awhile ago about places to get music other than windows media, and someone told me about singingfish. i started using it and thought it was working fine, but when i tried to copy them onto a cd...it wouldn't work. it told me they weren't able to copy..
any ideas why?
thank you so much (link)
it maybe that u have 2 many files and or songs on ur harddrive! to make a CD u would have 2 clear most of the files off ur computer! or it maybe that u don't have an 80 minute CD!! Check with ur parents before deling files on the computer!

*BeSs*


has anyone failed their permit test? i am going to get mine this friday and i was just wanting to know what i should expect. like, what kind of questions will they ask? i know people say they are just common sense questions and to choose the answer that they would think and not what you would think. lol..i know thats confusing but..i was just wondering what questions that it asks. thanks! (link)
my friend took the test and she said that she said they were pretty much common sense questions such as: what do u do at a green light? what do u do at a yellow light? what do u do at a red light? things such as that but she also said there was a question about how far u have 2 be away from a truck! i hope u looked over and read ur manual throughly and good luck 2 u on ur test!

*BeSs*


okay well my dad knows basically all of my guy friends b.c our culture is really really close to eachother so when im talkin to my guy friends they'll be like ur dad is the best hes so cool he talks to me abut this and that well there is no problem really i guess its cool that he talks to my guy friends but a part of me doesnt want him to.. why is this>? (link)
sometimes teens don't want their parents talking 2 their friends ... they feel it is somewhat embrassing to have parents talkin' 2 their friends!! It's normal don't worry about it!!

*BeSs*


hey i LOVE this guy so much it isn't even funny i have like him for 4 years and like we're just friends he knows i like him and he is depressed because he thinks i am depressed with his new relationship with my friend and i am but yea and i can't stop thinking about him i am talkin to him about it but i still don't know what to do after all THE HARDEST THING IN LIFER IS WATCHING THE ONE YOU LOVE LOVE SOMEONE ELSE
signed,
in love
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i think u should also say that u want him and u can't wiat 4 him and u 2 be together! Tell him that there is no one else 4 u but him!! :)

*BeSs*


My boyfriend is amazing. I love him to death. But he is a little immature sometimes when I need him to just be serious. Any way I could tell him in a nice, non-offending way?? (link)
just gently twell him that u need him 2 be serious with u that u can both have fun and stuff but u also need to have some seriousness in ur relationship too!

*BeSs*


okay this is actually a very long thing but ill make it as short as i can:
Theres this guy and we were like BEST FRIENDS last year and we were always flirting and everyone knew we liked eachother.. and then over the summer we told eachother that we really do like eachother.. and then the next school year rolls around and were still friends but like the whole school knows hes trying to ask me out, so things are a little harder and more akward but we try hard but then things start to get so annoying cuz people wont stop bugging us and like mostly him cuz he is just like retarded and too afraid to ask me out so we like take long walks talking about it and he says he wants to ask me and not me to ask him and that he still likes me and everyhting but he still doesnt do it.. it gets really old and i let him know that but things kind of continute the same then things start to slow down a little cuz we both have kind of lost energy trying to find time for eachother cuz were not in any classes together and not from the same town. So then all of a sudden he says he doesnt like me anymore.. after liking me for sooo long, and then a few days later he says he does and tehn the next week he doesnt, so RIGHT NOW hes saying he doenst but omg he acts like he likes me like even more now and he like i dont even know but now im hanging out with a lot of guys more than usual and he gets all like jealous kind of and i don know what to do, cuz we will prolly never end up going out cuz hes stupid but i still like him, but i hate him for what hes done to me and how he wasted my time!! ahh i need help! please do your best, i knwo this is kind of too retarded of a situation but i tried


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okay tell him these exact words :"Either u ask me out now or it's over, I'm not waiting anymore for!" Let him know that he is wasting ur time and that u need a straight up answer from him! And tell him 2 not b afraid of asking u out! If he really luvs u he will take that into consideration!!

*BeSs*


can a company pay higher pension contributions for salaried employees than for hourly paid employees. (link)
this is an advice column not a question column! ? :)

*BeSs*


Hey. What are crunches? I was thinking crunches were sit-ups, but they must be something different. Thanks =) (link)
like u said they are sit ups! :)

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my friend is doin some stupid stuff, and i want him to stop. he's always takin crazy chances, like jumpin off roofs into pools and stuff. and then the other day he was burnin himself with a lighter. and on more than one occasion he talks about he wishes he had a knife with him so he could slice his wrists. when i ask him why he does this stuff he answers "no one cares about me, so why should i stop?" how do i tell him that everytime he does something, it kills a part of me. i dont wanna seem mushy or anything, but i cant stand to see him doin this crap. please help me im freakin out, im so afraid for him.
ps-and dont tell me to get an adult to talk to him, cuz if i tell on him, he'd neva speak to me again.

thanks
xXxashliexXx (link)
instead of getting an adult tell him how u feel that's the only way! if he keeps saying no one cares about me say that u do! cuz u care 4 him right? tell him that all this stuff that he does 2 himself makes u sad and that u luv him but he needs to stop doing this stuff!!

*BeSs*


ok my boyfriend is really bad with calling me...hes so pefect but like he "forgets to call"....so last nite i was like ill call u when i get home (bc we wer out togheter for a lil while) and he was like ok....and then he was like o no wait ill call u bc i dun want mai dad to wake up if the fone rings...so i was like okay...DONT FORGET THIS TIME! and he started laffing n kised me he was like i wont forget...watch...and he even wrote CALL STEPH on his hand! and then he wrote no my hand ANSWER UR FONE....but he never called! watsup with that??? im kinda mad at him bc this isnt the furst time hes done this! ive talked to him too i sed stuff lyke o dont forget u ALWAYS forget to call me!! n he still forgets...=\ (link)
he still luvs u don't worry! maybe there was a reason that he couldn't call u maybe it was his parents sayin' u can't use the phone this late at night! don't be mad at him just talk 2 him and tell him that u trust him and that u hope he trusts u and that this relationship should have promises and make sure that u both keep those promises!

*BeSs*


what do the yellow livestrong braclets mean?? EVERYONE is wearing them but idk wat they mean? lol... (link)
the bracelets are for the fight against cancer and the person who thought this up was lance armstrong! he is a bicyclist and he had a form of cancer and survived so he created the bracelets that say LiveStrong

*BeSs*


I want to move school. but i asked my mom & she said that i can`t move. i really want to because i hate it so much & i just want to leave that school straight away like now.. how can i convince her to let me move? (link)
Now now why do u want to move and leave ur school? Are having trouble with the kidds in skool?? Why do you want to move? Send me a note in my inbox and let me know so i can help!

*BeSs*


well my boyfriend is sweet and everything but he is too sweet , I mean he watches out for me and he said that I was the only one in the world for him , he even promised that he didnt like no other gurls like cheerleaders and movie stars , stuff like that, but I cant stand it any more! he calls to check on me at 4:00am! what do i do ?
I dont want to break his heart but I need some time alone, plz HELP!!!! (link)
aww how cute! :D well the best way 2 tell him u need space is to say it nicely and gently! tell him u need some "bubble" space that u just don't want someon on ur back all the time!! let him know that u still luv him and that u hope this doesn't at all affect the relationship!

*BeSs*


Does anyone know where i can get some great clothes for low prices? (Im really into jeans, sweatshirts, long sleeve shirts, knee high socks and accecories!)

14/f
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Filene's Teens Department
TJMaxx
Old Navy
Macy's
Sears

*BeSs*


I've been getting depressed lately...like people make me feel stupid. Sometimes, they roll their eyes at things I say, especially when we're around guys. I wanna ask them to stop, but IDK how, and you see, I CANT, becus they would just deny it and not understand. What should I do? (link)
next time they roll their eys be like "oh yeh guys really mature! how old r u again?" and just be like um yeh act ur age and not like a kindergardener!!

*BeSs*


hey.. my parents r super protective like they wont let me "date" 1 on 1 till im 16 and they have to meet him and all that crap..althou im dating now and its really hard to go out w. him kas i need to have my friends go w. me so my parents dont explode.. what can i do so i can go out w. him but not get in trouble.?
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i would say go to the movies with ur friends and ur bf and then just sit in different places in the movie theatre and then get ur moment alone with him then and maybe even sneak off without them knowing and go 2 a resturaunt with him!!

*BeSs*


I was thinking...do any of you agree with the saying, the right guy will come when you stop looking? (link)
yes but i also believe in the saying "the right guy maybe right infront of your nose and u might not even realize it!"

*BeSs*


My Best Friend ditched me the other day, and then called me last night saying: "Hey girl! What's up?!?!" I'm still really mad about it, and she does it all the time. What should I do? (link)
you really need to confront her and tell her that she needs to stop ditching you! but if she continues to do it, I say the next she wants to go out u ditch her and she how she feels after it and maybe she'll think twice about ditching u next time!! my point is talk 2 her about it!! :)

*BeSs*




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