DancinCutie08's advice column

My name is Devin Lindsey or Vinny as my sister calls me! I am 17 years old and go to Bethel Park High school. I loooove swimming along with dancing, singing, and playing softball. I also run varsity track with is alright i supose too.

My favorite colors are orange, pink, and blue. I love to be crazy and have a good time

I've had a job working for 15+ monthes so I can answer alot about that

and I know alot about relationships in general so I can be helpful with that sometimes

especially with parent child relationships

I am a very observant person and tend to know more and care about more than most my age

and I really believe in volunteering to help animals especially at shelters. Usually its not their fault that they have to live their and its usually horrible cercimstances that bring them there and I feel terrible that they can't speak for themselves and people are too caught up in spending like $500 on this cute little pure breed puppy from a breeder just into getting rich instead of giving one of these dogs another chance at life (there are usually a handful of dogs under a year old so the i want a puppy excuse doesn't work with me)

My baby is named Lainey Mae... we got her from a shelter about 2 hours away from us when she was 7 weeks old. she is now 2 years old and the center of our family. unfortunately someone was cruel enough to go down and drug up and shoot (but luckly not kill) most of the dogs plus rob the owner (just like someone did at the shelter where I volunteer) and its now shut down

advice

ok well heres the deal. Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 6 months, and we are in love. We know we are in love, we have gone threw some of the hardest things a couple could go threw, and we're still together. And yes we are sexually active. Or use to be. Heres the hard part, we use to be really sexually active, and we decided to slow it down a bit, and i am cool with that. But for the past weeks, EVERY single night we're together she makes up a new excuse, "im tired, its a school night, my head hurts, my stomach hurts, my legs hurt, i have to get up early, bad day at work ect..." And any time we get to be alone at night, the only time she will lay down with me is when she is saying "good night"

No i am not one of those guys who only looks to "hook up" in a relationship, but guys have certain physical wants, or needs. And lately i havent been getting any. What the hell am i supose to do? And if your a girl whos just going to sit there and call me a shallow bastard for posting something like this, cuz you probably dont have much of a sex life(not by choice), screw off i really dont care what you have to say.

-Thanx

i think its best if you dont push her to have sex. thats why she has excuses. we have learned inschool anyways that the less you have sex before you are married the more likely you are to be together in the end. go at her pace and let her make the first move . it will be best for your relationship at the end