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Hi,
is it normal to skip a period or two. By the way i'm not sexually active and am a virgin. like one of mine got really late and then i might have skippped one i cant remember.

Yes, this is normal. You might just have an irregular period, which is fine. ♥

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I might make out for the first time tommorrow, and I'm really nervous. I need help. Any tip would help.
thanks.

I know you're going to think you can't make out with anyone and your going to be a bad kisser, but really, that's all in your head. Everyone thinks that when it comes to making out and kissing. They all think they're going to suck at it.


I know this is probably not much help, but kissing really does come naturally. Just go with the flow, it'll come naturally, I promise.


Here's a site that you might want to look at, if you feel like you need a little more information: http://teenadvice.about.com/od/kissing ♥

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My boyfriend makes comments about actresses and other females and it bugs me and I was wondering what do I do?

It bugs every girl (I'm sure) when a guy makes some comment about girls that are famous. Just remember that he's with you. There's no way that he's going to get with the girl that is on T.V.


About him making comments about random girls he sees, just talk to him about it. Tell him that you don't really like it when he does that when you're around. Tell him if he does see some girl that's hot to keep it to himself, you don't need to hear it. Guys are guys, and all guys do this, that's just how they are. But remember he's with you for a reason. :) ♥

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ok well there is this kid I really like at school . And when I told Him he said he Might like me 2 ! and that he would tell me on monday ! well it is wedsday and i still have NO answer ! so what does that meaN !?!?!?!?! does he like me or not ! HELP !

He might have forgotten about it. You could try hinting this to him, to maybe tell you, since it is Wednesday. It could have just slipped his mind, you never know. He might have been really busy this weekend and just forgot about it.


You could always have one of your friends ask him if he likes you, or even you. (If you want to.) Him forgetting about this doesn't mean that he likes you, or doesn't like you, just because he forgot to tell you something that was suppose to be told on Monday. If you really want to know if he likes you, ask him. That way you'll know for sure. Phone him, talk to him over the net, in person, or an e-mail. Whichever way you feel most comfortable. ♥

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hey everyone. i was wondering if you can flush condoms downt he toilet? thanks

Yes, you can flush them. However, if you have your own well (if you live back in the country), you cannot flush condoms down the toilet. But if you live in the city, you should be fine. ♥

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hey, does anyone know where i can talk to any austrailans aged 16-19? friend making websites etc would be helpful :)
thanks lucee xx
ps will rate and give comments xx

You can go to MSN and chat on the chat lines. They have chats there for people from Australia. You could even just go to Google or Yahoo and search up "Australian Chat Rooms". I'm sure you'll find something there.


Also, you could sign up for MySpace. It's a great place to meet new friends. You can even search up people that live in your area. ♥

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i'm 13yrs.old and a girl. is it bad to feel.... well happy if a guy makes comments about your boobs and butt or touches it?

No, it isn't bad, it's actually pretty normal. All girl's love compliments. ♥

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is it true that deoderant can give you breast cancer? especially if you put it on after you shave?

I haven't heared tell of this before. I don't think it's true. ♥

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I'm going to get tested for a bacterial infection "down below" next week. Do you think the doctor will more likely "swab" me, or make me pee in a cup? I am 15 female. Thanks! :)

I'm pretty sure your doctor will make you pee in a cup. ♥

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Is the 1st season of 7th heaven out on DVD yet?

Yes, it is. ♥

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ok. so im a girl.
yay for me.
and theres this girl at my school who has this huge lesbian crush on me.
but unfortunatly for her, im straight.
boo hoo.
sooo at the end of the school year she is planning on killing herself.
i dont want to tell anyone because i know eventually she will do it anyway, and it would be kinda stupid to make her live when you can tell how unhappy she is..right?

grawr.

Woah. That's just a little out there, don't you think? It's crazy that she wants to kill herself. Is it because you don't like her?


There's really not much you can do. If you don't like her, she can't change your feelings about that. It's not your fault that you don't like girls like that. She should have known that before she started crushing on you.


Do you know any of her friends, or close family? If so, maybe you could talk to them about this and tell them to talk to her. Their thoughs on this will probably mean a lot to her, since they're close.


Other then that. Maybe you could try talking to her. Explain to her that just because someone doesn't like her in the way she wants to be liked, doesn't mean she has to kill herself over it. Explain your thoughts on this, it'll probably mean a lot to her, also. ♥

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okay, i have dirty blonde hair that is long. i wanna cut it shorter with choppy layers. also, im thinking about getting side bangs. do you think it will look good? here is what i look like. www.myspace.com/tara_xoxo

I think the choppy layers and side bands would look really good on you. You're very pretty to begin with, so that hair style will just add to your prettyness. :) ♥

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okay i know this might sound like a stupid question, but im not quite sure what it means what does it mean when a guy says he wants to fuck you really badly? is it fingering you or to have sex?

thank you!

It means that he wants to have sex with you, really badly. ♥

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how do you upload a picture of yourself on here?

When you sign on to your name, go down to "Profile Settings". Here, you'll see a place that says "Upload A Picture Of You". Click on "Browse" and look for the picture you wish to upload. Once you found it, scroll down and click on "Submit". And your picture should be on your column.


If the picture is too big (which tends to happen a lot), you can go to the following website to re-size it: http://www.imageshack.us Then, just get the URL of the picture you uploaded (the last URL on the page) and put it in the "URL Of A Picture Of You" section, then scroll down and click "Submit". ♥

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Is it bad that im 16 and I am having protected sex with my boyfriend of five months like once every other week?

No, I wouldn't say it's bad at all.


You guys have been together for five months, you're boyfriend and girlfriend, there's nothing wrong with that. As long as you're happy with what you're doing, you're comfortable with your boyfriend, you love him and he loves you, and you guys are using protection, it's fine. ♥

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are? boobs fat?

Yes, boobs are fat. ♥

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ok kind of wierd umm is ther anyways to get bigger breast in a natural way like w/o pills and stuff thanks
~bigger and better~

I don't think taking pills to make your breast bigger is too natural. I wouldn't suggest getting into anything like that.


The safest thing would probably be buying yourself a padded bra, or a push up. It'll make your breast look bigger. ♥

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i just got out of a long relationship and i want to know what are some really sad good songs about breaking up or something w/ the one you love.... prefer country

Keith Urban - You'll Think Of Me.
Rascal Flatts - These Days.
3 Doors Down - Let Me Go.
Theory Of A Deadman - Santa Monica.
Social Code - Perfect Grave.
Lyfe Jennings - Must Be Nice.
Dead Poetic - Bliss Tearing Eyes.
Aerosmith - Cryin'.


I'm sorry I don't have more sad songs, as well as country songs. If I think of more, I'll be sure to add them to the list. ♥

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me and my boyfrend have been going out for 2 months and anytime we kiss i feel an urge to jump ontop of him is that normal

You guys have been going out for 2 months. So yes, this is very normal. ♥

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Does anyone kno any good names for an all girl band?I rate 5's!

What kind of music do you girls play? It really depends on the music.


I really love the name "No Man's Land", though! ♥

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