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there is a guy who i am going to the movies with tomarro. what i need to know is, without sitting in a his lap, what are a few ways you can end up makeing out with them, or going through second base... my boyfriend and i have both done things(with eatchother) before, but never in a movie theatre... so i am wondering what is a good way to make it as un-akward as possible?
can you guys please help me?
thank you
hey, i think your planning this way to much. just let whatever happen, happen. go with the flow. if you guys really have a connection things will just happen between you two.
Ok here's the thing, I no I'm not a lesbian because I get turned on by guys and I love to "hook up" with them, but I do things with girls and I get just as turned on... I don't like dating girls I just like having sexual incounters with them... I think it is a stupid question but I wanna know.
--Syd
hey, well it seems like you are bisexual. unless your just curious and like to feel the rush of hooking up with girls. since you dont want a relationship with a girl, i think your just curious. which is perfectly normal. but you do show some signs of maybe being bisexual.
I have nothing to do on new year.I'd find a party to crash but i'm a minor and I cant drink.Does any one know of any ancient new year tradditions?
How should I spend new year?
hey, have a party and invite your family and tell them to bring there friends. also bring your friends. that why you can be with your family, but youll also have friends there so your not bored.
i am tired of my name!!!!
What are some good nicknames
i am Bailey hunter
13yrs old
girl
love my cell
favorite color : pink
if you need andymore info just ask
THANX A BUNCH♥
hey, well since none of us know you personally its going to be kind of hard to give you a nickname. people call me by my last name. so i would call you hunter. ask your family/friends to give you a nickname.
Okay.. so in school i have the biggest mouth, i talk alot, and i am very outgoing and i have alot of friends. But at home.. or when im not in school.. Im very quiet and shy.. and i dont hang out with anyone. Is there a reason that im basically two different people? is there a way that i can change this?
Big thank you in advance!
hey, thats perfectly normal. some people just prefer to be more social in different envoirnments. if you want to stay social without seeing people at home, go on AIM or myspace. even use the phone.
is it true that guys like s more? and why? is it because they're "dumb" and "will give easier?" im a by the way. but can someone help me out?
hey, well thats stereotyping. its one of the worlds most stupidest beliefs. people cant have more fun because of their hair color. anyways, it depends on the guy. some guys like red heads, some dont. same with every other hair color their is.
I've noticed that none of my makeup has expiration dates, but I've read in magazines and other places that you're supposed to throw out mascara after about 3 months, foundation after about a year, etc. because the makeup does go bad. Well, the thing is, I got this really nice makeup kit for Christmas about 3 years ago and it contains about 50 different shades of eyeshadow. Now this makeup costed a lot of money, I still use it quite often, and I haven' even began to use it all. So, since I heard that you were supposed to throw out eyeshadow after awhile, I was wondering if I could still use this eyeshadow even though it's pretty old? Would it be harmful if I did? I use it a lot and I seem to be fine. But, will it eventually cause eye infections or something?
hey, well i heard that make-up does expire also. i`ve used make-up kits from 2-3 years ago and i`ve never had a problem. im not sure what kind of make-up kit you have so i dont know if your in risk. just to be sure, i would throw away the kit and just try to find the same or a similar kit. you`d rather be safe than sorry right?
My boyfriend and I have been together for about 9 months. The first part of the relationship was long distance, so I didn't really think anything of it when he seemed uncomfortable. But, looking back, from the beginning he seemed hesistant about having sex with me. It was I who initiated our first time together and he just didn't seem as eager as I did. And to be honest with you, I can count how many times we have had sex in all of that time. I would say, and this is being generous, about 20 times, maybe, and as of now, I can't remember the last time we did it, maybe 2 months ago. He is very affectionate in other ways, but when it comes to that, he just doesn't seem that interested. Its always some excuse. I used to be on him about it everyday, asking questions, but now I don't say anything and I think that he is happier with that. I have never had this problem before, my last boyfriend loved having sex with me, but now sometimes I doubt my ability to please someone sexually. Another thing is that he never compliments me. Ever. I always have to say something first. Even on my birthday, of all days, I was looking good and he didn't say anything until my roomate said something. I feel that I have tried to talk to him and approach this situation in an adult manner, but I feel jilted. He never presented this side of himself before we started dating. I even asked him if he was gay. Nothing. And I see him checking out other women so I know that he is attracted to females. I feel that I am too young to give up my sexual life and not just on a physical level, but what it can help nurture between man and woman who love each other. I am not ugly, I just finished modeling not even a year ago, I am not overweight, I am not a prude in bed either, I don't stink. I feel I have tried everything and its frustrating to see someone that you love so happy not to be close to you, but want to be up under me all the time, just not that way. Should I even bother to stick around and see what the problem is or just leave now.
hey, well sometimes guys just loose interest in there girlfriends. yeah i know that sounds bad, but thats just how guys are. maybe he doesnt want to be in a relationship with you anymore and just doesnt want to/or know how to tell you. whatever the case is you need to find out whats going on. sit him down and have a talk with him. tell him how you feel and dont hold back on letting your feelings out. i know youve metioned that youve already tried this before, but you need to do it again. also this time be more serious with it. good luck.
EDITS: IM SORRY FOR THE CONFUSION. I MISUNDERSTOOD YOUR QUESTION. IM SORRY.
What is your opinion on black hair?do you think it ia boring and ugly?
hey, well i was born with black hair. i once died it a light brownish redish color. i was so upset that i lost my black hair. i love it now and i would never dye it again. also i have green eyes. its just what you think looks good on you. of course, people that are tan look much better in black hair. also it depends on what your hair color was before. if it was blonde i wouldnt go with black. that would be a little too drastic. if your very pale i would go with a brown color or something more low-key rather then black.
Okay what does the word Volem Te mean?? and what language is it??
hey, its actually spelt volim te. it means i love you in many different languages.
I went on sites for msn icons and there are tons. But some of them move...like have slides and different pictures and some blink and stuff...what type of msn can use those? What version or series of msn enables the moving icons?
hey, get the msn messenger 7.5! i have it and its great. i have a moving msn icon as my icon right now. good luck.
i just got acrylic nails last night. i got the ones with white tips and then they filled in the rest. i was just wondering when i need to get them filled like how often? also do the nails get weaker when you take a bath or anything [considering your natural nails do and because the tips have glue and the clear stuff on them] and any other information or experiences with acrylic nails would be great.
hey, i always get acrylic nails [except during cheering season]. you need to be able to do everyday things with them on and not worry about if there going to fall off or not. the nail people are pretty good at what there doing and you shouldnt have to worry too much. they wont fall off if you dont abuse them. when i say abuse i mean bite them and be very very rough with them. you should get them filled about every 2 weeks. enjoy them!
How can I get my weight back down. I am at about 193 now. I was a laxative abuser and purger. When I was doing that, I got down to my low 160's from 220 pounds.. Now that I quit using laxatives and purging, my weight's been comeing back up. And it's really hard to diet to lose the weight now? Anyone have any clues?
hey, well your weight that you should be at depends on your height. if your 5`0 you should be 100 pounds. everytime you go up in height you should add 5 pounds. like 5`1 = 105, 5`2 = 110, 5`3 = 115, 5`4 = 120, and so on. thats what my doctor told me. i think you should eat what you want as long as its heathly, but just eat smaller portions. also tone yourself up a little bit. like do situps and pushups. good luck.
well i am 13 and i hate my older brother. he always gets me in trouble and he never gets in trouble instead i do. my dad treats him like royality and me like the ugly duckling. what should i do i cant stand him anymore he even broke my new skateboard i got for christmas! should i fin another place to live
hey, lol dont run away or do something stupid like that. its not going to solve anything. acutally it would probably make the problem worse. try having a family meeting. let them know how you feel and dont hold back. i hope all goes well.
is limewire legal? the free kind. (the other is called pro and it costs one payment of 18.99 or something)
hey, yes limewire is legal. it doesnt matter if you buy it or if you use the free one. its still legal. but downloading copyrighted material is what makes it illgeal.
I have a question about what to wear with skirts. I am very new to this. I haven't worn a skirt by choice before. I was thinkin of wearing one to school for the first time, because my boyfriend has only seen me in pants since we have been dating haha (11 months) and i have decided to wear a skirt for him. My question now is what kind've shoes would you wear, like i find it weird to wear boots with a skirt or running shoes with a skirt, could ya help me out? Also any other advice for wearing skirts. Wow, im very embarassed... haha
hey, well you could wear leggings under the skirt. that always makes wearing skirts so much cuter. also you could wear ballet flats with a skirt. wearing boots with skirts is not something weird. actually a lot of people do it and i like that option too. i dont recommend wearing sneakers with skirts. i think that looks trashy and tacky. if your into things like vans, those would look okay too.
in yr 6 there was this boy who apparantly used to like but i never knew, i didn't like him then but i do like him now.stupid i know, it's just that i wasn't into the whole dating and liking thing then. i'm in year 9 now and i'm a girl(of course)i like him now but i have no contact with him, we don't go to the same school but my aunt is a teacher at his school. the one person i do know that has contact with me has blocked me on messenger. i guess it's too late, i threw away my chance-how can i get contact with him?
-x-
hey, well you could always ask your aunt. but if shes not the type to like talk about guys with you and stuff then dont do it. a lot of people have myspaces these days. try searching his info and see if you can find him. maybe you can ask around if he has a myspace or if he has a screen name for messenger. call the person that blocked you and see if you can find out also.
I need some new music, I like rock, alternative, indie. I like anything like that.
Please tell me some of your favortie songs or bands.
thanks
hey, here are some that i like a lot. something corporate, story of the year, hawthorne heights, fall out boy, plain white ts, play radio play, penfifteen club, yellowcard, american hi-fi, the red jumpsuit, the afters, bowling for soup, hello goodbye, cute is what we aim for, my chemical romance, and panic! at the disco.
Holy crap. I went to the doctor's yesterday, and they said I weigh 155 pounds! And I'm only 13 and like 5'4. I checked the BMI thingie and I thought before that I was like 130, but like.. woah. I'm like 1 point over normal so now im overweight! ahh! how can I get back in shape? I already do basketball on thursdays and saturdays. and aside from things in school thats pretty much it. how can i get back in shape?????????? i really do not want to get fat.. if im not already not! or real heavy (though i probably am.) im not into doing those things that stupid kids do like be anorexic or bulemic, so thats out of question. but like.. its winter. i cant exactly do all the things i can do in the summer. plus, i have like no backyard (forrest) and alot of homework on weekdays. i think its because i may eat too much. because sometimes i may eat because im bored. but its not like i'll eat chips, because my mom cooks alot of african foods that are good. we dont really go out much but sometimes i guess i eat too much of a good thing. which is why i also bite my nails. should i get gum? but whenever i get it i always finish it in like 1 day. because i kinda feel that i have to be chewing something sometimes.. and i dont want to eat food just because.. when im not really that hungry, or bite off my nails. i dont even notice when i bite them.. but then later i see my nails arent that great and i have bitten them.. but its randomly. any help here? i reaaaally dont wanna get obese in the future!!!! and im a girl.
p.s. thankyou thankyou for helping!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hey, well last time i went to my doctors they said that a person that is 5`0 should weigh 100 pounds. from there on everytime you go up in height you should add 5 pounds. 5`1 = 105, 5`2 = 110, 5`3 = 115, 5`4 = 120. so according to my doctor you should be 120 pounds. some people are just big boned and are not made to have small figures. that could be you and theres nothing wrong with that. what i would do is just eat what you want to eat as long as its heathly, but eat smaller portions. also tone yourself up a bit. do situps and pushups. goodluck.
When i open my iTunes it asks me if i want to upgrade to iTunes 7.0...should i do that? And if i do then will i loose all my music from it?
hey, well personally i wouldnt do it. the old itunes works fine. when i did i lost all of my music. i dont really think that you want to risk that. the new itunes isnt really that different either. just the format is.