about

"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

advice

wats the god of the noose on myspace and why is every1 talking about it?

It's a virus that is going around MySpace. ♥

[view]

I'll rate 5's!!

I need a place [preferably at the mall not the internet] that sells skater shoes in a size 5/ Pac Sun sells size 6 and above and im getting frustereated . please help

You can search for them online, although I don't have any websites for you, but I'm sure you could find them. Online shopping always has different sizes so I'm sure you'd be able to find the size you're looking for.


I'm pretty sure that West 49 sells skater shoes in a size 5, though. If you have that store, you might want to check it out. ♥

[view]

Sorry this is such a gay question, but what are some good songs to listen to that are recent, and make you think of someone you fall head-over-heals for?

Smile Empty Soul - Finding Myself.
Hedley - Trip.
Coolio - See You When You Get There.
Lifehouse - You And Me.
3 Doors Down - Let Me Go.
Aaliyah & JayZ - Miss You.
Story Of The Year - Sidewalks (Acoustic).
Alter Bridge - In Loving Memory.
Coldplay - Fix You.
Dallas Green - Caseys Song.
Hedley - 'A' Song.
Death Cab For Cutie - Passenger Seat.
Guns N Roses - November Rain.
Sugarcult - Back To California.
Keith Urban - You'll Think Of Me.
Led Zepplin - Stairway To Heaven.
My Chemical Romance - The Ghost Of You.
Stone Temple Pilots - Plush (Acoustic).
Breaking Benjamin - Rain.
Dead Poetic - Bliss Tearing Eyes.


These are great songs. ♥

[view]

okay so i want to download spanish hip hop but i am having truble finding some if any one no spainsh hip hop or rap artist that would be awesome !! 5's to all who really help..

Daddy Yankee is a pretty awesome Spanish rapper. I love all his songs (even though I can't understand them) but they're very danceish and fun. ♥

[view]

how do you upload a picture?

Log into your Column and click on "Profile Settings". Then, scroll down to where it says "Upload A Picture Of You", click on "Browse" and find the picture you wish to upload. Then scroll down and click "Submit".


If the picture is too big (which tends to happen a lot), you can go to the following website to re-size it: http://www.imageshack.us Then, just get the URL of the picture you uploaded (the last URL on the page) and put it in the "URL Of A Picture Of You" section, then scroll down and click "Submit". ♥

[view]

does anyone know what this song is & who it's by? i need to know!! I heard it at a party & i fell in love with it!!

people 'round you got to *come get it*(background noise) from the left to the right make noise.

PLEASE HELP!!!!!
i need to know soon!!

That's such an old song.


It's by Aaron Carter and it's called "Come Get It". ♥

[view]

K so, what does this mean Pon de Replay?

It's the song Pon de Replay by Rihanna.

She's Barbadian, so the song "Pon De Replay" is just a slang.


In English it means "Put On Replay". ♥

[view]

i need some new stuff to listen to. i like fall out boy, dashboard confessional, kelly clarkson, gwen steffani, good charlotte, ect... plz give me some suggestions of this type of music.

Zebrahead - Everything Falls Apart.
The Presidents Of The USA - Lump.
The Postal Service - Nothing Better.
The Verve Pipe - The Freshman Eagle.
Eye Cherry - Save Tonight.
Bowling For Soup - The Bitch Song.
Taking Back Sunday - You're So Last Summer.
The Postal Service - Such Great Heights.
The Vanished - Favorite Scar.
Unwritten Law - Save Me.
Shinedown - Burning Bright.
Live - Lightning Crashes.
Relient K - Be My Escape.
Bowling For Soup - Always.
The Spill Canvas - The Tide.
Ingram Hill - Almost Perfect.
JTExperience - Party Like A Rockstar.
Social Code - Beautiful.
Sugarcult - Back To California.
Fall Out Boy - Sugar We're Going Down.
311 - Amber.
Offspring - Can't Get My Head Around You.
Bowling For Soup - 1985.
Fenix TX - All My Fault.
The Used - Blue And Yellow.
Social Code - Cats And Dogs.
Everlast - Only Love Can Break Your Heart.
Coldplay - Fix You.
Ben Harper - Walk Away.
Fuel - Falls On Me.
Smile Empty Soul - Finding Myself.
Akon - Mr Lonely.
Everlast - So Long.
My Chemical Romance - The Ghost Of You.
The Verve - Freshmen.
Eagle Eye Cherry - Falling In Love Again.
Nickelback - Photograph.
Dead Poetic - Bliss Tearing Eyes.
Daniel Powter - Had A Bad Day.
Theory Of A Deadman - Santa Monica.
Lyfe Jennings - Must Be Nice.
Live - I Alone.
Criss Angel - Die For Me.
3 Doors Down - Going Down In Flames.
Hinder - Get Stoned.
Carl Henry - Perfect.
Massari - Real Love.
2Pac - Ghetto Gospel.
Thornley - Come Again.
Staind - Right Here.
Chevelle - Panic Prone.
Sean Paul - Keeping You Warm.
Matt Mays - On The Hood.
Breaking Benjamin - Rain.
Dead Cab For Cutie - When Soul Meets Body.
Dopamine - This January.
Spill Canvas - Stapplegunned.
Jack's Mannequin - The Mixed Tape.
Breaking Benjamin - Next To Nothing.
Candle Box - Far Behind.
Sweatshop Union - Try.
Classified - No Mistakes.
Nickelback - Far Away.
Twista & Trey Songs - Gotta Make It.
Simple Plan - Crazy.
The Pussycat Dolls - Stickwitu.
Matthew Barber - Soft One.
Sevendust - Beautiful.
The Click Five - Just The Girl.
311 - Don't Tread On Me.
Matthew Barber - Soft One.
The Dandy Warhols - We Used To Be Friends.
Rex Goudie - Run.
Dallas Goudie - Caseys Song.
Hedley - 'A' Song.
Blink 182 - Not Now.
The Rolling Stones - Rain Fall Down.
Hedley - Trip.


I hope you like some of these songs that I've listed for you. ♥

[view]

does anyone know the name of the song by james blunt thats like

"i saw an angel
of that im sure
youre beautiful
youre beautiful"

ya like that...

thanxx ♥

It's called "You're Beautiful." ♥

[view]

I've been told I have a really odd taste in music. I'm just curios {sorry, I can't spell}, what kind of music do I like if I listen to: Fuel, Matchbox 20, Our Lady Peace, Weezer, Verical Horizions, Switchfoot, Poe, Savage Garden, Incubus, and Foo Fighters. But I like their old stuff the best, their new stuff sucks!
~ace

You don't listen to weird music. I like all the same bands you like, if not more. I love music and I love all kinds of music, just like you. You don't have to stick to one gender of music, you can like anything you want.


For your question, you like all different types of music. You don't like just a certain kind. ♥

[view]

do you know what they mean by "how the good is often buried in their bones"- thanks.

I really do not know. I'm sorry. ♥

[view]

Hey. Please don't turn this question away but I'm bi and tomorrow night I am having a sleepover with my other bi friends. We were wondering if anyone knew any good games to play. Not really involving kissing but like other stuff. My one freind knew about one about passing a card from mouth to mouth.. anyone know any other good ones? Thanks and i'll rate fives!

Passing the cards from mouth to mouth is called "Suck and Blow."


There's also games such as, "7 Minutes In Heaven", "Spin The Bottle", "Truth Or Dare", and "Milk Man". Maybe some games like that will be fun.


You could also make up your own games or even look up more on http://www.yahoo.com or http://www.google.com I'm sure you'll find a bunch. ♥

[view]

my girlfriend keeps asking me why i love her. and i want to give her more reasons then 4 so can someone give me some reasons ty.

- You're funny, nice and smart.
- You make me laugh when I'm down.
- You're always there for me to talk to.
- You know how to make me smile.
- Your kisses and hugs brighten up my day.


Cute stuff like that would be nice. Just say what is coming from your heart, she'll be happy then. Explain to her how special she is to you and how happy you're to have her in your life and call her your girlfriend. ♥

[view]

Well. There's this guy I really really adore. I used to be close friends with him but I'm not anymore...:(. Anyways I wanna find some old blogs of his and I was wondering if you all could help me! :D Please, if you can, list all the diary/journal/blog sites that you know of. Thanks! :D (Yes, I do rate!)

http://www.livejournal.com
http://www.opendiary.com
http://www.xanga.com
http://www.blogdrive.com


Those are all that I know of. Hope it helps out. ♥

[view]

ok this guy im kinda "seeing" is calling me back in a few and i have NO CLUE what to say cuz i needed to tell him something really important. what i basically needed to say was that im sick of him playing these games with my head, that i really like him,that i dont know if he really likes me, and how come were not really together or how come were not going out. He said he lieks me a lot but when my friend asked him "why arent you going out" and he said "i dont know" and then she said "are you gonna ask her out?" and he said "soon" i just dont know what to say to him and how to say it nicely!! PLEASE i need HELP!!

Maybe he's just waiting to get to know you better. That could be why he hasn't ask you out yet. Before a relationship you have to have a friendship. If you didn't, there'd be no way you guys would actually know eachother. That's why he's just taking things slow, as of right now. If he said soon, it's going to be soon enough.


If you want to make this 'soon', sooner. Just ask him about. Just be like "so, when do you think we will get together? Because as of right now, I really like you and because we aren't together, I'm feeling that you're just playing with my head." Say something along those lines and I'm sure you'll get the answer you wanted. ♥

[view]

Alright. I thought since my best friend is such a good friend id make a list of 100 reasons why your my best friend. Can someone give like 25? (its a girl) Thanks I RATE 5!

That's such a cute idea. Here's a few that can start you off to get to 100 reasons:


- You're always there for me.
- You can always put a smile on my face.
- Even if I'm in the worst mood and I don't want to smile.
- Calling just too see, "what was up?"
- We have so many inside jokes.
- We have tons of memories that will never be lost.
- You're not only my best friend.
- You're a sister God forgot to give me.
- You helped me up when I was down.
- You made me want to wake up the next day and live it.
- Crazy pictures that we took, light up my day.
- 2 hour phone calls just to see if eacother were okay.
- All them crazy nights hanging out at home doing nothing.
- Dancing to old crazy music.
- Pillow fights in the middle of the night.
- You're funny, nice, kind, unbelievable.
- You're such an amazing person, over all.
- Running over to your house when everything was going run.
- But somehow when I saw you, everything was alright again.
- Having fun at parties, arcades and carnivals.
- All the tears we cried for each other.
- And all the smiles we shared together.
- The dances and games we made up when we were bored.
- You're an Angel, on my shoulder.
- The old clothes we used to dress up just to look like fools.
- They're the reasons why I could not live without you.


I hope this helps you out some! Good luck on getting to 100. I'm sure you can do it, since this person is your best friend. ♥

[view]

ont he about me section i can't get my lines to do this....
i want it to look like this
but it wont does anyone know what i mean?
please help!

Do you want to have words under each other? Without having a word, then a big space, then another word? Is that what you mean? If so, use this code:


< br > but make sure there's no space in-between the < >'s. ♥

[view]

i keep on trying to upload a pic but it won't let me. it tells me that the pic is bigger than 15k, even though i have shrunk it on paint. how to i get in on my column? thx in advance!

If the picture is too big (which tends to happen a lot), you can go to the following website to re-size it: http://www.imageshack.us Then, just get the URL of the picture you uploaded (the last URL on the page) and put it in the "URL Of A Picture Of You" section, then scroll down and click "Submit". ♥

[view]

i need to know is right...is it right to get your cat declawed...i rate 5's

I depends on what kind of cat you have. If your cat is an indoor cat, then yes I think it's alright. You don't want him/her going around the house and clawing everything, especially stuff that cost a lot of money.


If he/she is an outdoor cat and spends most of their time outdoors, then I don't think it's right to get them declawed. They do need their claws, especially if they are always outside. They need them to find food, get up trees and to protect themself. So taking their claws out if they're an outdoor cat, would leave them pretty much useless.


All the cats that I've have had been declawed, because they were all indoor cats. I don't see nothing wrong with it, at all. You don't want your house torn up because of their claws. It's so much better when they don't have their front claws because you don't have to worry about them, especially if you leave them home alone.


But, I guess it depends on the cat you want; inside, or outside. And the type of person you're and if you think this is right or wrong. Everyone is different and everyone will think differently about this. So, it's up to you and what you want to do. ♥

[view]

can anyone tell me some good quote pages??

http://www.holliesquotes.com and http://www.xanga.com/allthebest_QU0TES are both awesome sites. They have a lot of cute quotes. ♥

[view]

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker