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Ok, hi every one, i am ok with how i look its just summer is coming up really soon, and i wanna know what i can do to flatten my abs and tighten my thighs, its kinda urgent because i wanna get started soon, any input? thankss. xoxo (link)
try this web site.
www.toneteen.com


kay.. so theres this guy i really like and ive liked him for a long time. over the weekend somebody told me that he liked me so i got excited about that but then my friends and the guy i like told me that he likes my other friend. plus, pretty much every guy i like always likes her and same with everyone else so it hurts even more. also, he knows i like him so its not as fun talking anymore. so what should i do? i dont no.. (link)
Well you like this guy so don't just ignore him. You should still talk once you get to know eachother more you will have better conversations. Don't get mad at your friend though because its not intirely her fault.Well i hope it works out between you your friend and the guy.

♥ jackie


My friend has gone through a lot lately. Her mom had breast cancer and went through kemo. Now her dad has cancer and has to go through kemo. How can I help her and her family? (link)
Your her friend so stay by her side. Let her know you are there for her and tell her if she needs to talk about anything or just relief some stress that you will be there. Theres not much you can do to help her dad though but ask her if she would like to make something for her dad. Help her make something like a big poster. Well the best thing you can do is stay by her side.



there is this boy that i like a lot and he still likes me sorta. but he wont go out with me again because he does not think he can trust me anymore after what i did to him. i no that he likes me still cause all of my friends tell me but everytime i ask him back out he says no i dont think i can trust you anymore. and it hurts me cause he is the guy i really love. this boy was my first love and i still love him. i dont think i will ever forget him considering that i dream of him every night. i need your advice.
i have had alot of people talk to him and he says i still like you but i will never go out with you again. why cant you get that through your head!! i can get that through my head but he said i will never trust you again. but the thing i did was only once. and when we dated before he wrote a note to his friend saying he was gonna cheat on me cause he did not like me anymore. and some how the note got to me and i read it and i broke up with him. but i trusted him enough to go back out with him. so why wont he go back out wit me?? i love this boy and i cry alot because i either dream of him or people come up to me and say do you still like the boy and i always say yes. then they all laugh at me and say wow you really are a pathetic little girl. and i am just so confused and lost and sad.
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WEll i know this isn't want ou probly want to hear, but chances are he wont go back out with you ever. Now you will eventully forget about him or at least not love him anymore. Just becuase he likes you still doesn't mean he is still in love with you or will go out with you again. Officley you have hurt him from what you did and he doesn't want to get hurt again so he doesn't want another relationship. Your not pathetic so don't worry about what people say because its not true. Eventully you will move on to another guy but that doesn't mean your feelings will be gone for your old love. Just don't worry about what people say and try to put your mind on something else. Hope every thing works out for you.

♥ jackie


well i wrote the other day saying i like my bestfriend some of you replyed i should tell him well my friend told him. He also liked me to.. and later that night we was talking on here and he told me he hope we go out and then i didn't say anything cause i was totally unexepting that and now he won't talk to me what should i do?

help i will rate high (link)
You need to talk to him and let him know that you are sorry for not responding because you were in total shock. Tell him how you feel about him and that you would also like to go out. I really think he will understand. Just apoligize and tell him how you feel. Let me lnow how it turned out.

♥ jackie


I have been with this girl for 4 months now. We have everything in common. We loved eachother very much. We did everything together. We were soulmates. However, She has seen a pornsite on my computer and has broken down and left me saying we are only seperated. I am not addicted. I normal male like all others whose curiosity got the better of him. I have told her That I got rid of the net. That I promise never to do it again that i want to spend the rest of my life with her. i cried when she left. It has been almost two weeks now. How can I win her back. How can i get her to give us a second chance. I lover her and she was all I had. Please help me. I can't go on without her. (link)
You sound really sweet. She probly is just trying to make a point to you that she doesnt like you doing it so don't worry becuase she will probly talk to you again. Do something really speacial for her that no one else would do something that only you now she loves. Make it romantic. Tell her that you very sorry for what you did and how you wont ever do it again. Let her know how much you love her. An idea is to make a list of all the things you love her for. You shouldn't wait long just wait like 2 days intill you figure out what the big romantic thing you will do for her is. Call her up and say you need to talk and if she will meet you somewhere. Then spring the big romantic suprise on her. Well i hope it really works out for you and her.

♥ jackie


my boyfriend is 17 and he's a little shy around me(i'm almost 15). his friends tell me that i make him freeze up when he sees me. basically i'm asking how i can get him to loosen up a little. (link)
Theres not much you can do but be your self. Ask him if he's uncomfterble about anything between you to. Let him know that he doesnt have to feel wierd around you. Just talk to him.

♥ jackie


how do i get bigger love handles? (link)
Just gain weight. Why would you want bigger ones though?

♥ jackie


My freind is on an un-healthy diet. She hasn't told my freinds and I but at lunch she only eats and apple AND she on this website she said she was on a diet. We are worried that she is not eating much. What should we say to her? Should we talk to her? (link)
You should talk to her. Ask her if shes eating all the carioes she needs and enough food. Just say that your worried shes not getting enough food. Also if she needs help on what she should eat and how much give her this web site.
www.toneteen.com

♥ jackie


Hey im 13f and it seems everyone has a boyfriend of girlfriend but me. It's really starting to bother me lately because ive liked this guy for over a year and he's known about it but doesnt do anything. I want to get over him and try and move on and meet a new guy, but its kind of hard because i get really shy and are extremely afraid of rejection. So really my questions are how to get over this guy and how to get to know new ones

thanks i rate 5's for good advice =) (link)
Aww don't feel left out it happens to alot of people. Well try to build up your confidence that will help alot with the guys just be a little more out going. It will be hard to change though. Ok about this guy you might not beable to get over him in a while but don't worry the feelings will go away. You shouldn't be afriad of rejection becuase chances are the people you tell have been rejected to. Also what if you were scared to tell someone you liked them but by the time you got enough confidence it was to late. Thats just a worse so tell the guys right away. Don't try to hard to get a guy let him look for you and you will get someone but find a guy that likes you for who you are. Hope it works out.

♥ jackie


I'm 13 and have pretty big boobs. I'm tall and thin and I wear a 36D. I like hanging out with guys and only have a few female friends just because I don't really prefer their company. The only problem is the guys (and basiclly the rest of the school) are constantly staring and commenting on them. I try to hide it with loose clothes but people still seem to notice. My boyfriend is ticked about this and so am I. (I'm happy that he agrees with me and never makes rude comments on them or constantly stares or touches them.) But anyway I need to know what I should do about all these guys saying things. They're alays giving me rude nicknames or just flat out telling other people how they want to touch them. Me and my boyfriend have tried telling them to stop politely and forcefully but they continue anyway. What do you think I should do?
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Since you've tried telling these boys nice i think you need to be more serious go off on them if you have to. Tell them how you dont like it and that there jerks. You also should just try to ignore it to becuase its going to happen all the time. Hope it works out.

♥ jackie


well theres this dance like Thursday, and I'm going. I have a boyfriend who is one year younger than me if you care. Anyways, if he asks me to dance, i know I'm going to be nervous.
this may be odd, but can someone explain to me how exactly to slow dance.
Like should i put my hands on his shoulders?
Should I smilke?
WHAT!?
5's if ya give a good one!
xoxox
thanks in advance.. (link)
Its really easy so don't be nervous. If you get nervous then youll mess up. Alls you do is put your hands on his shoulders and then he will put is hands around your waist. Theres not really a certain move just follow the way he goes and moves. Now you could also put one and around his waist and hold one of his hands. But the shoulders and waist is the one he will probly do. Relax!! Hope you have fun!

♥ jackie


what does dyke mean? because on mean girls in the burn book they said janice was a dyke? whats that?.... rate high for good answers! (link)
It's another word for lesbian.


15/F

I wanna loose some weight. Like 10-15 pounds. I just need a good way to get started. What are some good exercises? How long do you think it will take?

oh and i have a tredmill if that helps. (link)
Try exercising and hour a day. Do sit ups and the normal things. It will also help to if you eat healthier. Try to eat fruit for snacks insted of junk. Also this website has alot of different ways to exercise. www.toneteen.com

♥ jackie


ok...so i like this guy.... i've liked him for awhile...so i told him once. here's what happend: he was idle (i know thats chicken) and i told him, he came back from idle(on aim) and a few minutes passed and he signed off. i was crushed! i waited and waited for him to talk about it but..nothing. so i acted normal..i didnt know what else to do. he looks at me alot but avoids me in the halls..no eye contact there. but on my way home he looks STRAIGHT AT MY CAR!! ugg i dont know what to do...i can't stop thinking about him, he goes to my school...please help!!!!

i'll rate thanks.
-cab (link)
Well he might not be in to you. But give it another chance because maybe he didnt get it or is nervous. He might think your avioding him to so you have to talk to him first. You could ask him if he got your message and if he did then ask if hes comfterble with still being friends. If he didnt see it then tell him again. Hope it turns out good.

♥ jackie


Im really small. 75lbs.
How can I gain weight and get well bigger breasts and stuff.
Ill rate 5's. (link)
There are drinks and candy bars kind of that help people gain weight. Try to eat calories then you burn off. Heres a web site with alot of tips on how to gain weight. But i'm not sure if it will help your breast grow.
http://weightgain.lifetips.com/

♥ jackie


my mom pretty much comes home every night drunk. Not really drunk, but she's wild and loud. Everytime I mention this to her when shes sober, she yells and me and tells me to shut up because she says it's not true. I hate every night because I always expect my mom to come home like this and it's really annoying. I understand she's an adult and can do whatever she wants but i can't stand her like this, being really rowdy. She also grounded me for a week because i stayed home from school tuesday. I want to go to the doctors because I think I have a sleeping disorder but my mom thinks im fine and I never have anything wrong with me. So I guess my questions are, what can I do about my mom, and how can I find out if I have a sleeping disorder or not without going to the doctors? thank you.
-Jamie
15/f (link)
I know what your talking about this use to happen to me to. Well since you hate your mom like this and shes like it every night then shes probly and alcholic. When your moms sober or in the morning talk to her about it. Sit down and say you have to talk to her about something important. Tell her how you feel about her going out everynight and if you feel on comfterble talking to her about it write it down and set it on her dresser. If she doesnt change and continues to go out every night tell her about Narcotics Anonymous, NA. NA is for people who are addicted to drugs or alchol and it really works. Tell her that you love her and you really want to help her and that it upsets you when she goes out. Ok about your sleeping dissorder, your probly having troble sleeping becuase your worried and upset it happened to me 2 just wait a while and see what happens. I hope it works out between you and your mom.

♥ jackie


One of my best friend's and I got busted for a drug thing. We know not to do it again, but we got busted by someone's paretns who turned it into ou school.

Now, we're not supposed to talk to each other. But she's one of my best friends ever and I don't know what to do.

So please help. How can I be sneaky and stay friends with her? Any other advice would be appreciated? Thanks so much. (link)
Ok first off if your addicted to drugsor your friend is you should probly get help. Try going to a meeting its cald NA. Ok now if you want to stay friends with this girl i think its up to your parents not some teachers to keep you apart. You guys are probly going to have to change and show that you won't ever do it again. You shouldn't just stop being friends with her but if she gets you in bad things then stop being freinds.

♥ jackie


How can you tell if a girl has a potential interest in you and does resting her head on your shoulder signify anything? Also, what if she lays with you on the grass with her head resting on your stomach without a care in the world of what a group of friends think?

Rick- Age: 18 / Gender: Male

Another thing to bring in to consideration is that she is a little older than me; I am 18 years of age and she 20 years of age. The kind of person she is would have to be ambitious, inteligent, mature yet she maintains a good sense of humor, generally speaking she knows what she is doing. We have talked alot on AIM (Aol Instant Messenger),sometimes til 2 or 3 in the morning. That has been going on for the longest. We have gone out, but in groups and most of the time when we go out to eat we just happen to sit next to each or across from each other and end up talking regardless of our friends around us, meaning we pay attention more to each other...
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Ok there's not really a way to tell if a girl likes you. But you can try to find out. Ask her if she want's to go out some time just the two of you. She might just consider you two really good friends. Just becuase she lays her head on your chest doesn't mean she likes you. Alot of girls do that with guys and just consider eachother friends. So watch out don't make to big of a move at once becuase it could freak her out. Just take her out to dinner the two of you and see if it goes anywhere. Hope You find out if shes in to you or not.

♥ jackie


Is there anyway to get my hair thicker? I'll rate 5's for anything (link)
Theres shampoo and conditioner that thinkens your hair. Just read the front of the bottle and make sure you don't get the one that says thin hair on it. Hope i helped.

♥ jackie




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