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Big Boobs
I'm 13 and have pretty big boobs. I'm tall and thin and I wear a 36D. I like hanging out with guys and only have a few female friends just because I don't really prefer their company. The only problem is the guys (and basiclly the rest of the school) are constantly staring and commenting on them. I try to hide it with loose clothes but people still seem to notice. My boyfriend is ticked about this and so am I. (I'm happy that he agrees with me and never makes rude comments on them or constantly stares or touches them.) But anyway I need to know what I should do about all these guys saying things. They're alays giving me rude nicknames or just flat out telling other people how they want to touch them. Me and my boyfriend have tried telling them to stop politely and forcefully but they continue anyway. What do you think I should do?
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Really you can either ignore it or you can try to take a tip off the TV and try to throw a few comments at them, like "Well take a good look boys because with attitudes like yours, this is as close as you'll ever get to a pair."
If nothing like that works, then the only thing you can do is ignore them. They're immature and clearly don't have a grip on their hormones yet. If talking back to them doesn't work, chances are that nothing will and ignoring them is the only way you'll get away from it. Just remember to yourself that they're just silly little boys and if they could get near a pair, they wouldn't need to ogle over yours in the first place!
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Since you've tried telling these boys nice i think you need to be more serious go off on them if you have to. Tell them how you dont like it and that there jerks. You also should just try to ignore it to becuase its going to happen all the time. Hope it works out.
♥ jackie
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Actually, I don't relate to this cuz I'm a bit flat-chested. But those boys shouldn't treat you like that. Try saying "(their name), that was an insulting remark." If they still continue, try talking to your parents, reporting to the boys' parents or send a complaint.
Hopefully those boys will stop. Good luck!
Later!:)
♥teen13
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I have this same exact problem but guys at my school fin a way to touch me && it really pisses me off or makes me very uncomfortable like i`m doing something to put myself out like that..
I know ignoring it is hard but there really isn`t anything you can about them saying things but if they do touch you in that area you can get them in trouble..
Ignoring them is the thing you should probably try to do about this..I know wearing baggy clothes makes you feel better trust me i do the same but i think you shouldn`t have to do that && just wear what you want..I`m sorry this happens to you guys can be assholes..♥Dez
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Well, there's a girl at my school in your EXACT same situation, so I know what you're dealing with.
I have TWO SUGGESTIONS!
A) You could use humor with it, such as a witty comeback. My friend *Kelsey who deals with this, generally says something like "Oh, well its funny to find out that someone looks at my boobs more than I do, considering i look in the mirror everyday, and their mine!"
B) You could also try and look at them and laugh, or be like like "Aahha, thannkks." So they think it doesn't bother you.
Basically you shouldn't show you're bothered by it, or people will bug you even more.
Good Luck with your situation!
*Name Changed
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Answer them Back With humor.. personally i am not ever going to be in your position i short very skinny and very flat chested but just use humor say ya i know their bigger then the tool that you have dork and for the touching be like ya i have a boyfriend think again sucker.
hope it all works out for the best
Xo--Marie--oX
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