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i miss him!
there is this boy that i like a lot and he still likes me sorta. but he wont go out with me again because he does not think he can trust me anymore after what i did to him. i no that he likes me still cause all of my friends tell me but everytime i ask him back out he says no i dont think i can trust you anymore. and it hurts me cause he is the guy i really love. this boy was my first love and i still love him. i dont think i will ever forget him considering that i dream of him every night. i need your advice.
i have had alot of people talk to him and he says i still like you but i will never go out with you again. why cant you get that through your head!! i can get that through my head but he said i will never trust you again. but the thing i did was only once. and when we dated before he wrote a note to his friend saying he was gonna cheat on me cause he did not like me anymore. and some how the note got to me and i read it and i broke up with him. but i trusted him enough to go back out with him. so why wont he go back out wit me?? i love this boy and i cry alot because i either dream of him or people come up to me and say do you still like the boy and i always say yes. then they all laugh at me and say wow you really are a pathetic little girl. and i am just so confused and lost and sad.
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WEll i know this isn't want ou probly want to hear, but chances are he wont go back out with you ever. Now you will eventully forget about him or at least not love him anymore. Just becuase he likes you still doesn't mean he is still in love with you or will go out with you again. Officley you have hurt him from what you did and he doesn't want to get hurt again so he doesn't want another relationship. Your not pathetic so don't worry about what people say because its not true. Eventully you will move on to another guy but that doesn't mean your feelings will be gone for your old love. Just don't worry about what people say and try to put your mind on something else. Hope every thing works out for you.
♥ jackie
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your not pathetic...just give him some time.mabye go sit with him when you guys are by yourself and say i know you say you will never go back out with me again because you cant trust me but i thought i could trust you either but i still wanted you back.you HAVE to tell him whats in your heart and if you dont you may pass up a chance of a life time.if you tell him how you really feel and he still doesnt ecept then dont worry because him knowing is going to get him thinking and he might just go back out with you again!! good luck
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You are definetly not a pathetic little girl. You are being human.
I don't know everything that happened between the two of you that caused this mess, but I have a feeling that this is truly the end.
He's told you a lot of times that it is the end and that he can't really trust you anymore. You've done whatever you could to try getting him back, so now it's really time to stop carrying on the way you are. If you know that you can be trusted and he can't see that, then that's his loss if he's not willing to give you another chance.
It's ok to feel like this guy is every part of you, and it probably does feel like that, but it's definetly not true. You are still the girl you were when you were with him except he's no longer in the picture.
I think the first thing you need to do is stop bothering him. No having your friends talk to him, and you don't talk to him. This may seem hard, but you have to take this step to start feeling better again. When your friends bring this guy up in a conversation, tell them that you don't want to talk about him. And if people come up and ask you if you still like him, just say, "What's it matter to you?" then just walk away. You may not be over him, and you may still dream about him a lot, but you have to start healing by not having him mentioned.
Remember that these day dreams are a very very normal part of a break-up. So is crying. So allow yourself to cry at night and when you start feeling sad to the point of wanting to die, then you should try talking to someone about this. I'm not saying that feeling that way isn't normal, I just think that you need to talk to someone about your pain sometimes.
-TheTeenGirl
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