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Hey im 13f and it seems everyone has a boyfriend of girlfriend but me. It's really starting to bother me lately because ive liked this guy for over a year and he's known about it but doesnt do anything. I want to get over him and try and move on and meet a new guy, but its kind of hard because i get really shy and are extremely afraid of rejection. So really my questions are how to get over this guy and how to get to know new ones
thanks i rate 5's for good advice =)
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Well, first of all, I totally know how you feel. The only way you will get over this one guy, is to meet new guys. You don't have to be out on the prowl for boyfriends, just for guy friends. Time also helps. Time heals all wounds. Eventually, you'll get over this guy and a new guy will come along to sweep you off your feet. But until then, you have to allow yourself to get this guy out of your way so you can have your eyes open enough for mr. wonderful.
but when you finally spot him, let me know how you found him..i'm looking for one myself. :]
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you have to make yourself stop liking the other guy. just erase him from your life. yea im serious.
new guys come in when you make friendships with them and that can lead to boyfriend and girlfriend. so you wanna have guyfriends. just start talking to guys more.
also a great place to meet and hang out with guys is at sports and clubs. so like join track or a youth group. boys might seem a little intimidating to just go up and start talking to them but they are just as nervous about talking to girls as you. and if you act like your intrested in what they have to say and smile they will have all the more reason to like you.
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Don't worry! I didn't have a boyfriend till I was almost 18! But you know what? You realize that all of the drama that dating brings just isn't worth it at a younger age. Just concentrate on school, friends, and extracurriculars, because there's so much more to life than dating.
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Aww don't feel left out it happens to alot of people. Well try to build up your confidence that will help alot with the guys just be a little more out going. It will be hard to change though. Ok about this guy you might not beable to get over him in a while but don't worry the feelings will go away. You shouldn't be afriad of rejection becuase chances are the people you tell have been rejected to. Also what if you were scared to tell someone you liked them but by the time you got enough confidence it was to late. Thats just a worse so tell the guys right away. Don't try to hard to get a guy let him look for you and you will get someone but find a guy that likes you for who you are. Hope it works out.
♥ jackie
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I know what you are feeling i'm 14 and everyone in my year seems to have a boyfriend or girlfriend as well. I suggest you go to maybe a youth group/club where people will have similar interests as you. If you do there will be various conversations which you can chat and flirt with guys in and hopefully you will find one with similar tastes and opinions as you. If you ignore the fact you like this guy and concentrate on meeting new people eventually you will meet someone better who will treat you like you deserve and then you will have a boyfriend like the others!!
xordinarygirlx :P
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