I'm Melanie. I'm 18 and I don't know what else to write.
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Location: Baton Rouge, LA
Age: 18
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15/f. when ever i masturbate, i usually get an orgasim quick, like with in 2-3 minutes, but it only last fo like 20 seconds, maybe less, and then the feelign starts to drift away really quick. Is this normal? thanks in advance (link)
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It's totally normal. I don't really masturbate that much, but when I'm with my boyfriend I usually orgasm after a few minutes. It lasts about a minute or so. Some people's orgasms last longer, but it takes them longer to have one. I LOVE being able to go so quickly. I can have 2 in the span of 5 or 6 minutes. It may go away, but more than likely, you'll stay this way.
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so .. this might sound stupid but i know its natural it just seems that most guys have there penis's circumsized.. i dont.. does this effect anything at all .. it would be sweet to have a girl around my age to answer this question because iv look this up on the internet so many times and i still dno what to think and i stress about it ALOT thanks :|
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The reason most guys are circumsized is because doctors used to believe it was cleaner. They recently decided that it doesn't make much of a difference either way. One of my ex's was uncircumsized and it really doesn't matter. In actuality, guys that are uncircumsized have more pleasure during sex.
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Hey, im 16/f. Can someone tell me possibly from their personal experience how much it hurts the first time you have sex?? You can say on a scale from 1 to 10 or maybe a description would be good. And do girls always bleed the first time or do some not??? Thanks heaps.
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There's a lot of factors that calculate your pain level. A lot of it depends on how gentle and patient the guy is. The careful he is, the less it will hurt. I didn't bleed the first time because I was really active as a child so my hymen was already partially broken. The pain was about a 4 or a 5 for me, but I also have a high tolerance for pain. Just make sure you really want this. If you have any second thoughts, you probably shouldn't. I lost my virginity about a year ago, when I was 17 and I really do regret it now. The guy I lost my virginity with was only around for 4 months. Just make sure you really want this and be careful to protect yourself.
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ok i did it anal with my bf and iw ould like to know is that health?..is it ok to do that and once we did it and like shit came out and i though that was nasty he is like its ok this and that but for me i feel weird he said its ok and its normal because he went up my anus but me i think its nasty and unhealthy and hope you help thanks.. (link)
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That's pretty sick.
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sixteen/female.
what happens when a girl gets off by being fingered? my boyfriend did this to me twice, once just "feeling around" and the next actually trying to accomplish what's supposed to happen, haha. but neither of us knew what happens when a girl does get off, so we stopped. this may be a rediculous question, but i never masturbated and we're both inexperienced because our realtionship has never been about "doing stuff". help pleaseee. (link)
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You will know when you actually get off. It's a hard sensation to miss. lol The only way you can show him how to get you off, is to know for yourself. You have to know what you like, how you like it, etc before you can have a really good orgasm.
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why is it that most of the time when my boyfriend fingers me and i go to the bathroom after that it burns when i pee, does that mean there is somethin wrong with me. please tell me am scared (link)
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It means he is being a little too rough with you. It's nothing wrong with you.
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ok. so what can you do if your hair looks greasy but you dont have time to take a shower and everything? (link)
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Sprinkle some baby powder in your hairbrush before you brush your hair. It absorbs the oil in your hair.
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what happens when you get your cherry popped for the first time when you have sex and does it hurt alot? on a scale 1-10, 10 being hurting a lot (link)
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It varies from person to person, but for me it was a 5. Although it only lasts a few seconds, if the guy takes his time and is gentle,
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My ipod has been frozen all day now. I've had it since Christmas '04 and this has never happened to it before. It's stuck on a song, and I've tried EVERYTHING. I've tried resetting it, tried all thr buttons, tried plugging it in to my computer, tried charging. Yet its still stuck. Has this ever happened to anyone else before? What can I do?
BTW, it's an iPod mini if that helps. And I've never had problems with it prior to this.
Thanks for your help. (link)
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The same thing happened to my Ipod Video before it broke. =/ Sorry.
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my relatives and parents are asking me what i want for christmas! i really dont know what to ask for.. im already getting gift certificates, money, and clothes from so many people i dont need any more of that stuff.... im already asking for makeup, and a coach purse for christmas. i have an ipod and im getting 5 ipod giftcards already so im good. i wanna get a psp or ps2, what do you think is better? i just need ideas of things to ask for. i have a cell phone, i just got a new computer, i have tons of movies and music and stuff. christmas is coming around and i dont want to have to make a christmas list at the list minute. what are you guys asking for christmas?? i need lots of ideas, lists and websites are good. (link)
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I'd say the PSP. I'm asking for a new car stereo, a laptop, and some other little stuff. I just make subtle hints when we go somewhere about 'Oh that's cute.' Or something like that. So they can think of ideas from what I like.
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which is a more trusted brand:
trojan or lifestyles? (link)
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Trojans tend to be more trusted brand, but all brands break when they aren't used properly. I use both brands and Trojans are the only one that has broken for me.
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is an ipod nano "too fancy" or "too much" of a gift to get my bf [of 5 months when it comes] for christmas?
im not rich i mean im pretty average-class i guess but i dont have a job yet although i may have one by then.. but i dont want to get it for him if it seems like too big of a deal.. i hope that makes sense! (link)
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1-It is a little much for a gift after only 5 months.
2-Ipods really suck. I had the video ipod and I took really good care of it and it didn't even last me a year. There are better MP3 players out there for less.
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Am I the only one alive who thinks it's terrible that kids (13-16) are having sex? I'm only 18, but when I was 13, I was riding my bike and doing karate, not giving blowjobs on the school bus. But thats the norm now, and if you haven't had sex by the time you're 17, you must be ugly or way religeous. What on earth!? Am I the only one disgusted by this trend? (link)
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No. You definitely aren't the only one. I lost my virginity after I turned 17 and I was the last of my friends who did so. It's insane how casual sex has become. I was amazed when my nephew, who was only 9 at the time, knew exactly what sex was. When I was that age, I was still playing with Barbies. It's appalling and it seems like it's only getting worse. When I was in 8th grade, there was a girl who was already pregnant with her 4th child. What is the world coming to?
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after my boyfriend fingers me down there it starts 2 burn when i pee just after he fingers me, im a little scared. it doesnt happen all the time, just when he fingers me hard, could it be cuz hes' fingering me ahrd
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It means he's being a little to rough with you. lol Just ask him to be a little more gentle. =]
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18/F
Okay, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. I really want to lose my virginity to him. He is not a virgin but obviously I am.
I've talked to him about it and he says its my decision and he will stand behind which ever I make. (Wait or Not Wait)
Half of me wants to do something, then the other half is just like worried. I know I'm gonna spend the rest of my life with this man.
What do you guys thimk I should do?
Also, I heard you bleed a lot when you lose it. He has a rather large penis. So will I bleed heavy like on my period? Or just a little? And if I put my pants on afterwards, will I bleed threw my pants?
Thanks. (link)
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If you are having second thoughts about having sex, then you probably aren't ready. You will know when you are or not. As for the bleeding, it varies from girl to girl. I barely bled. I doubt it will be as much as your period, if the guy is gentle and patient with you...which I'm sure he will be.
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For the past 4 days I've been getting an "unknown caller" showing up on my call display. This has never happened before. Usually when someone calls their name or phone number will show up; like it might say "private caller" but then have the number. Well the weird thing is whenever this"unknown caller" shows up and I answer; whoever is on the other line never talks to me- I usually will say "hello- hello-- hello? and then I hang up. This was the third time this has happened to me in the last 3 days. Also; I check my missed calls and this "unknown caller" has also phoned when I've been out and has not left a message. My gut is telling me it's my loser ex. I think this is because he has also been getting friends of his to come into the store I work at and they just stare at me. Do you guys think I'm right? I don't know who else would be that creepy- maybe he's not ready to talk yet but wants to hear my voice; and he doesnt want me to know it's him so he's been phoning from a line that would say "unknown caller'. (link)
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There is a possibility it's your ex. He probably isn't over the fact y'all broke up and he's probably still hurting. I would just ignore the calls and don't answer them. If he can't show his name and number, then why waste your time?
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Ok im 14/m and im in grade 9. Theres a girl I like whos in my class i dont know if she likes me or not. She always walks over to me and starts a conversation with me and other people say that shes all over me. I dont think she likes me because she always changes the subject when I ask for her msn or number. If she liked me wouldnt she have given me it? Do you think she likes me? (link)
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Girls that age tend to play mind games with boys. Maybe she really likes you, but is playing hard to get so she can see how much you really like her. Then there's the possibility that she is just a big flirt. It's hard to tell. If you keep pursuing her and she still doesn't, then she is probably just a flirt.
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yeaa soo me and my boyfriend have been goin out for about 2 weeks now..well just these past few days hes been acting all strange for some reasonn.. like he talks about how is ex girlfriend is a skank....and crap like that..... but as it turns out they hung out all weekend..and now they are cool which is totally fine with me considering the fact that she is one of my friends...every time my boyfriends around his friends wich are all skater by the way he never talks to me he pretends like im not there...but when hes not around his friends he talks to me non stop...alsoo hess veryy cute therefore ALOT of girls like him in my school...my boyfriend tends to flirts alot with these girls that like him. well today there was a rumor going on around my school about him and people went up to me saying that he likes some other girl...welll then i went and talked to him and asked him and he said no he doesnt like any1 but me..well i was cool with that then i asked him wy does he always ignores me and flirt with other girls...well he said sorry and he didnt mean too and that he loved me.. later on in the day my best friend says that he might break up with me and go back out with his ex and when they dont work out hes gunna ask me back out...
my question iss am i just his backup girlfriend?does he really care for me?or is he just dating me to get over his ex?andd shud i stay with him or dump him?
plzzz helpp!! (link)
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I don't think he knows what he wants. On one hand, he likes you but then he might still have feelings for his ex. If he is still flirting with other girls, he isn't taking you or y'all's relationship seriously. Plus no guy should be telling you he loves you after 2 weeks. I'd be very suspicious if I were you. Don't jump to conclusions about the rumors. Most of the time, rumors are lies anyways. I would just try talking to him again and tell him that he doesn't seem to be taking the relationship seriously and see where it goes from there.
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So there was this one guy, we'll call him Michael, and I found out that he REALLY liked me, like aloooot. He told my friends how hot he thought I was and he "couldnt stop thinking about me" and "man you gotta get me with her." So at first I didnt like him, but then I eventually did. So he asked me out to the movies but i didnt talk to him alot because i was shy, but i was smiling and stuff. Then the next day friday at our schools football came he told me "I think your really hot and stuff, but maybe we should just be friends. Im sorry.."
Does anyone have any idea why all of the sudden he would just say that to me? He had been hurt in a previous relationship, I thinkk.. THANKS SO MUCH! (link)
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Maybe he felt insecure because you didn't talk to him much. Guys tend to be bad with subtle hints. Trust me, my boyfriend felt the same way the first time we went out. It may be because he was hurt in the past, but I think it's because he didn't want his ego to be hurt because he was worried you didn't really like him.
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I am 15 and my boyfriend is 16 and soon to be 17. We do sexual things but sex has been one of the subjects we have been talking about. He said he would wait until I'm ready and I just don't know when that will be. At times I feel like I am ready but then I just can't because I'm scared. I think I'm too young but all my friends have started doing it. I'm just in an awkward position. My mom makes comments like she'll kill me if i ever did and that scares me. My mom lost her virginity supposedly at the age of 17... I don't know if my hormones can wait untill then. I just don't know what to do. (link)
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If you even hesitate at the idea of having sex, then you are not ready. You just want to make sure you are with the right person at the right time. I lost my virginity when I had just turned 17 and I thought I really loved the guy, but I didn't. Now I'm with this really amazing guy and I wish I could have given him my virginity because the sex actually means something with him. I had the thought of sex at 15, but I was always too scared to do it. Don't take your friends into consideration when you are making this decision. Some may be lying because it's the 'cool thing' to do now.
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