yeaa soo me and my boyfriend have been goin out for about 2 weeks now..well just these past few days hes been acting all strange for some reasonn.. like he talks about how is ex girlfriend is a skank....and crap like that..... but as it turns out they hung out all weekend..and now they are cool which is totally fine with me considering the fact that she is one of my friends...every time my boyfriends around his friends wich are all skater by the way he never talks to me he pretends like im not there...but when hes not around his friends he talks to me non stop...alsoo hess veryy cute therefore ALOT of girls like him in my school...my boyfriend tends to flirts alot with these girls that like him. well today there was a rumor going on around my school about him and people went up to me saying that he likes some other girl...welll then i went and talked to him and asked him and he said no he doesnt like any1 but me..well i was cool with that then i asked him wy does he always ignores me and flirt with other girls...well he said sorry and he didnt mean too and that he loved me.. later on in the day my best friend says that he might break up with me and go back out with his ex and when they dont work out hes gunna ask me back out...
my question iss am i just his backup girlfriend?does he really care for me?or is he just dating me to get over his ex?andd shud i stay with him or dump him?
xoiiloveyou143xo answered Wednesday October 25 2006, 12:41 pm: I don't think he knows what he wants. On one hand, he likes you but then he might still have feelings for his ex. If he is still flirting with other girls, he isn't taking you or y'all's relationship seriously. Plus no guy should be telling you he loves you after 2 weeks. I'd be very suspicious if I were you. Don't jump to conclusions about the rumors. Most of the time, rumors are lies anyways. I would just try talking to him again and tell him that he doesn't seem to be taking the relationship seriously and see where it goes from there. [ xoiiloveyou143xo's advice column | Ask xoiiloveyou143xo A Question ]
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